Depressed

Matt88 · 09-22-2005, 02:31 PM

Me and my gf have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now but all of a sudden she changed so dramaticly towards me, i know shes busy with school seeing as its her final year and she wants to be the best, so she said we should break it off till shes finished she wont tell me she loves me no more or nothing and when i try to tell her she tells me to stop it, im just so alone and scared she will stop loving me.

RayKay · 09-22-2005, 03:40 PM

I think the best thing you can do is to distance yourself from her. I know it hurts but don't let yourself be a doormat sweetie.

Do you think you want to be dumped everytime you are inconvenient? Probably not, right? So send her the message you won't be used and thrown away and brought back whenever she likes.

Stop chasing her, you can't make someone love you, but you can learn to love yourself and realize that you deserve better.

darkblue · 09-22-2005, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by RayKay

I think the best thing you can do is to distance yourself from her. I know it hurts but don't let yourself be a doormat sweetie.

Do you think you want to be dumped everytime you are inconvenient? Probably not, right? So send her the message you won't be used and thrown away and brought back whenever she likes.

Stop chasing her, you can't make someone love you, but you can learn to love yourself and realize that you deserve better.

Perfectly put, and my thoughts exactly. (that saved me typing...)

heloladies21 · 09-22-2005, 06:31 PM

Do No Contact. If she really cares about you, all those feelings of "you are the love of my life" will come back to her. If not, she lost interest and there's nothing you can do change that fact.

Talk to some other girls. It will sober you up.

Matt88 · 09-23-2005, 06:52 AM

well were over for good now, i cant help but still love her..

09-22-2005, 02:31 PM	#1
Matt88 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Age: 21 Posts: 2	Depressed Me and my gf have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now but all of a sudden she changed so dramaticly towards me, i know shes busy with school seeing as its her final year and she wants to be the best, so she said we should break it off till shes finished she wont tell me she loves me no more or nothing and when i try to tell her she tells me to stop it, im just so alone and scared she will stop loving me.

09-22-2005, 03:40 PM	#2
RayKay Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Middle of Canada Gender: Female Age: 30 Posts: 13,270	I think the best thing you can do is to distance yourself from her. I know it hurts but don't let yourself be a doormat sweetie. Do you think you want to be dumped everytime you are inconvenient? Probably not, right? So send her the message you won't be used and thrown away and brought back whenever she likes. Stop chasing her, you can't make someone love you, but you can learn to love yourself and realize that you deserve better. __________________ [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkolivegreen][B]<--- [COLOR=sienna]Carbun the Super-Bunny[/COLOR][/B][/COLOR][/FONT] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#556b2f][/COLOR][/FONT][/B] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkolivegreen][B]At the end of the day, how you imprinted on someones life and heart is the only true mark any of us leave on this earth and is what we are most proud of... [/B][/COLOR][/FONT][I][SIZE=1]- My Biggest Hero and Mentor: My Mum.[/SIZE][/I] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=orange][B]Il faut d'abord durer [/B][/COLOR][/FONT][I][SIZE=1]- Ernest Hemingway[/SIZE][/I]

09-22-2005, 06:31 PM	#4
heloladies21 Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Gender: Male Age: 31 Posts: 3,898	Do No Contact. If she really cares about you, all those feelings of "you are the love of my life" will come back to her. If not, she lost interest and there's nothing you can do change that fact. Talk to some other girls. It will sober you up.

09-23-2005, 06:52 AM	#5
Matt88 Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Age: 21 Posts: 2	well were over for good now, i cant help but still love her..