Depression

toad4466 · 09-13-2005, 07:36 PM

Hello everyone, I want some advice from you all, as im stuck at the moment. I suffer from depression, and a type of abandonment syndrome. I feel alone all the time, and I dont like people when they hurt me. Its odd that I find it so difficult to be friendly to people, I dont understand it. For example, I recently really got on with someone, we talked and laughed. Then I became so busy for a few weeks that I couldnt spend time with them. Then they turned on me, blamed me and said I abandoned them! They really hurt me because they didn't really understand what I was doing, and they didnt believe me when I said I was sorry and explained, so I broke all contact with them.
To get to the point, when you go through hell, when life is so bad to you it changes you, Is there a way to get yourself back to normal? Is there light at the end of the tunnel? Can I ever be me again?
Ben
Ps search my history if you want background on what i have been through

DN · 09-13-2005, 09:13 PM

Are you seeing someone about your depression - if not get an appointment. A combination of therapy and medication is the best answer.

petalbud · 09-14-2005, 02:47 PM

Hey, Toad,. im the last person you want to hear from now,. Just to tell you, this "someone you got on with" didnt accuse you of abandoning them and DID understand that you were busy,. seems you didnt get the point this person was trying to make,. but hey!

Since we're no longer in contact,. just to say THANK YOU for all the times you've been there and hope things get better for you.

Farewell

09-13-2005, 07:36 PM	#1
toad4466 Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: South England Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 85	Depression Hello everyone, I want some advice from you all, as im stuck at the moment. I suffer from depression, and a type of abandonment syndrome. I feel alone all the time, and I dont like people when they hurt me. Its odd that I find it so difficult to be friendly to people, I dont understand it. For example, I recently really got on with someone, we talked and laughed. Then I became so busy for a few weeks that I couldnt spend time with them. Then they turned on me, blamed me and said I abandoned them! They really hurt me because they didn't really understand what I was doing, and they didnt believe me when I said I was sorry and explained, so I broke all contact with them. To get to the point, when you go through hell, when life is so bad to you it changes you, Is there a way to get yourself back to normal? Is there light at the end of the tunnel? Can I ever be me again? Ben Ps search my history if you want background on what i have been through __________________ Things will change, you can do very little with faith, but you can do nothing without it.

09-13-2005, 09:13 PM	#2
DN Online Super Moderator Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ontario, Canada Gender: Male Posts: 23,445	Are you seeing someone about your depression - if not get an appointment. A combination of therapy and medication is the best answer. __________________ Immaturity is not defined by him not doing what you want him to do. Hartman's Law of Prescriptivist Retaliation: "any article or statement about correct grammar, punctuation, or spelling is bound to contain at least one eror".

09-14-2005, 02:47 PM	#3
petalbud Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Somwhere beyond reality, Im a shadow Age: 20 Posts: 58	Hey, Toad,. im the last person you want to hear from now,. Just to tell you, this "someone you got on with" didnt accuse you of abandoning them and DID understand that you were busy,. seems you didnt get the point this person was trying to make,. but hey! Since we're no longer in contact,. just to say THANK YOU for all the times you've been there and hope things get better for you. Farewell __________________ You don't see me, you only see my frightened shadow... Im behind the mask I want to rip to pieces, my bones,.. my flesh my skin,.. release the once velvet, rancid beads of my unending pain.. throw me away....