What is so attractive to men about...

pizzachick13 · 08-24-2005, 08:26 AM

Ok, I brought this up at school today and I still can't get a straight answer. It's weird.

Here we go.

What I don't understand about guys is the fact that they find 2 women (or more to the point lesbians) more attractive to look at and think about than 1 woman (straight or otherwise). Why do men find lesbianism so attractive?

I mean, really, isn't it somewhat threatening to them? Because it shows that 2 women can have just as much fun (if not more) with each other and without a man. So it seems that men are becoming obselete. So... wouldn't that mean that men resent lesbianism?

Just think about it. Men find the idea of 2 women together attractive, but do we females find 2 men together attractive? Doesn't that just make women feel left out?

It seems strange to me that some men think of lesbians and immediately love it, but some women think of gay men and aren't concerned by it but aren't immediately attracted to it.

Sorry, just a little query. It's always been nagging at me.

Thanks

Sappho...

kellbell · 08-24-2005, 08:33 AM

You I asked my boyfriend the same thing and basically he said, "double the pleasure, double the fun." I mean the thought of one woman is s turn on for them, but image 2??

That's it, there is no complicated answer. I know, I don't understand it either, but I do admit, beautiful woman are nice to look at.

kellbell · 08-24-2005, 08:34 AM

I meant to write, "you know, I asked my boyfriend the same question." Sorry about that. Haven't finished my monring coffee yet.

MetallicAguy · 08-24-2005, 08:51 AM

Like a poster, said "double the pleasure". I've never been really big on lesbians but I know a lot of guys that are lol. I guess when guys think of lesbians they like instantly think threesome or something, I'm not really one of those guys that like instantly drool when see 2 hot girls kissing so I don't know lol. I've always thought the thought of one woman hotter for some reason, I'm not sure.

scaryperson · 08-24-2005, 09:22 AM

If you want a possible psychological reason, aside from "double the pleasure" well, there's no men involved in it, so they wouldn't have to be uncomfortable/insecure with their sexuality...

GettingOverIt · 08-24-2005, 09:44 AM

Yeah, generally, we guys aren't very complicated.... Well, I guess that's not 100% true... On some things, there is no thinking - it just 'is'...

Laughing Sam · 08-24-2005, 09:59 AM

It is not a"lesbian" fantasy but a porn idea of "two blonde 38-24-36 nubile goddesses who just happen to be lesbian's till they find YOU" fantasy which most men have.

As for me what would I do with a lesbian, except fight over the same straight girl we both fancy.

Now two bi-sexual babes who have a liking for mid 30's stressd out beer lovers..................................BRING EM ON !!

lostlove · 08-24-2005, 10:55 AM

actually i do find the idea of two guys together attractive. i'm not really sure why though. sorry.

Süsser Tod · 08-24-2005, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by sapphos_goddess

What I don't understand about guys is the fact that they find 2 women (or more to the point lesbians) more attractive to look at and think about than 1 woman (straight or otherwise). Why do men find lesbianism so attractive?

My take on this...

What can be more sensual that the most sensual creature on earth???

Answer: two of those sensual creatures!

I think men are plain ugly! When I see an atractive girl I can't help but think "how is she dating something as ugly as a man???"

Obviously a girl will think otherwise...

I would love to be a girl, to have such a beautifull femenine body, and be a lesbian, to be with another of those beautifull bodies.

I know, I don't make half a bit of sense

cam4u · 08-24-2005, 11:57 AM

All women are beautiful & sexy. Men love to look. Even if not involved in the 2 way relationship, men love to look and fantasize.

Men are not threatened by 2 lesbians, because we do not THINK about such things, again, we are simple creatures that enjoy visual stimulation.

Since you have asked, I do not feel threatened by 2 lesbians because there are women out there that could never be, as they have a love of men and their "parts".

08-24-2005, 08:26 AM	#1
pizzachick13 Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Australia Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 396	What is so attractive to men about... Ok, I brought this up at school today and I still can't get a straight answer. It's weird. Here we go. What I don't understand about guys is the fact that they find 2 women (or more to the point lesbians) more attractive to look at and think about than 1 woman (straight or otherwise). Why do men find lesbianism so attractive? I mean, really, isn't it somewhat threatening to them? Because it shows that 2 women can have just as much fun (if not more) with each other and without a man. So it seems that men are becoming obselete. So... wouldn't that mean that men resent lesbianism? Just think about it. Men find the idea of 2 women together attractive, but do we females find 2 men together attractive? Doesn't that just make women feel left out? It seems strange to me that some men think of lesbians and immediately love it, but some women think of gay men and aren't concerned by it but aren't immediately attracted to it. Sorry, just a little query. It's always been nagging at me. Thanks Sappho... __________________ I'm insane... but it's ok cos it's all in my head :)

08-24-2005, 08:33 AM	#2
kellbell Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Colorado Gender: Female Age: 33 Posts: 4,333	You I asked my boyfriend the same thing and basically he said, "double the pleasure, double the fun." I mean the thought of one woman is s turn on for them, but image 2?? That's it, there is no complicated answer. I know, I don't understand it either, but I do admit, beautiful woman are nice to look at. __________________ "Let your soul be your pilot, let your soul guide you, it will guide you well." Sting <---- me and my mom :) "Get busy living or get busy dyin', damn right..." Morgan Freeman, Shawshank Redemption.

08-24-2005, 08:34 AM	#3
kellbell Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Colorado Gender: Female Age: 33 Posts: 4,333	I meant to write, "you know, I asked my boyfriend the same question." Sorry about that. Haven't finished my monring coffee yet. __________________ "Let your soul be your pilot, let your soul guide you, it will guide you well." Sting <---- me and my mom :) "Get busy living or get busy dyin', damn right..." Morgan Freeman, Shawshank Redemption.

08-24-2005, 09:22 AM	#5
scaryperson Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Age: 22 Posts: 102	If you want a possible psychological reason, aside from "double the pleasure" well, there's no men involved in it, so they wouldn't have to be uncomfortable/insecure with their sexuality... __________________ My shallow heart's the only thing that's beating Greenday- Boulevard of broken Dreams

08-24-2005, 09:44 AM	#6
GettingOverIt Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Out There... Waaaay out there... Gender: Male Age: 40 Posts: 638	Yeah, generally, we guys aren't very complicated.... Well, I guess that's not 100% true... On some things, there is no thinking - it just 'is'... __________________ Listen to your heart... Your head is too busy thinking to know what you really want....

08-24-2005, 08:51 AM	#4
MetallicAguy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Age: 19 Posts: 2,159	Like a poster, said "double the pleasure". I've never been really big on lesbians but I know a lot of guys that are lol. I guess when guys think of lesbians they like instantly think threesome or something, I'm not really one of those guys that like instantly drool when see 2 hot girls kissing so I don't know lol. I've always thought the thought of one woman hotter for some reason, I'm not sure.

08-24-2005, 09:59 AM	#7
Laughing Sam Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: UK Posts: 61	It is not a"lesbian" fantasy but a porn idea of "two blonde 38-24-36 nubile goddesses who just happen to be lesbian's till they find YOU" fantasy which most men have. As for me what would I do with a lesbian, except fight over the same straight girl we both fancy. Now two bi-sexual babes who have a liking for mid 30's stressd out beer lovers..................................BRING EM ON !! __________________ Love is what we call the situation which occurs when two people who are sexually comptatible discover that they can also tolerate one another in various other circumstances.

08-24-2005, 10:55 AM	#8
lostlove Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Norte Carolina Gender: Female Age: 18 Posts: 153	actually i do find the idea of two guys together attractive. i'm not really sure why though. sorry. __________________ “You musn't give your heart to a wild thing. The more you do, the stronger they get, until they're strong enough to run into the woods or fly into a tree. And then to a higher tree and then to the sky.” –Holly Golightly

08-24-2005, 11:57 AM	#10
cam4u Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 25	All women are beautiful & sexy. Men love to look. Even if not involved in the 2 way relationship, men love to look and fantasize. Men are not threatened by 2 lesbians, because we do not THINK about such things, again, we are simple creatures that enjoy visual stimulation. Since you have asked, I do not feel threatened by 2 lesbians because there are women out there that could never be, as they have a love of men and their "parts". __________________ Worry about tomorrow when it has gone, Live for today!