I've been seeing a very attractive and fun lady for about the past month. She is 47, been married for 26 years, I'm 38 myself. The sex is wonderful between us but there is a problem. I love oral sex, giving and getting it...and she absolutely can't get enough of me going down on her. However, she has not reciprocated by giving me oral pleasure, and she rarely even touches me except to "guide me in". I want very much for her to go down on me and I feel that is an important part of a sexual relationship.
How can I communicate this to her without offending her? I feel like a pig "asking for it".
Could it be that she just doesn't know how to do it? She was married for 26 years afterall.
I feel that she needs to start reciprocating if the relationship is going to have any potential. What do I do?