sexual health problem....

gift from the gods · 06-06-2005, 05:27 PM

I didnt really know where to put this because its more sexual health than what people normally talk about on here, but i figured that it was about health so here it goes...
Well i have quite a problem to say the least!

Im in a perfect relationship with a boy that i 100% love and trust and im very very happy with him. We enjoy a healthy love life too which i love but thats what i have been getting a few problems with.
I went months of having pain-free amazing sex but all of a sudden its just got SO SO painfull. It hurts so much before and after sex (but not during!

) like a very painfull stinging/burning sensation

I have to say, even though i am 15, its not because im not 'ready' or im too young down there, because that has never been a problem before!?
Its also not beacuse of lack of lube...
I have also gone without any kind of sex and it doesnt help!
Could this be an STI? im terrified!! but if i had one then surely my boyfriend would show signs too...?! and otherwise there arnt any ovious symptoms!
Has anyone had the same problem? What is it? I am thinking of going to a clinc or something beacuse its SO painfull!

What does anyone think i should do? i need to get it sorted because its a big problem (good job i have a supporting and understanding boyfriend!)

Big thank you! XX

kenneth05 · 06-06-2005, 05:31 PM

there is only one answer that is good here: you need to go to a physician. do it as soon as you can. good luck.

punchy504 · 06-06-2005, 05:33 PM

and quit having sex, YOU ARE ONLY 15!! read- child- not adult

RandomAdvisor · 06-06-2005, 06:15 PM

Yes, that could be any # of STI's. I hope you're having safe sex. Go see a doctor about it ASAP.

**melrich** · 06-06-2005, 06:54 PM

Yes it could definately be an STD. The symptoms may not necessarily show up with your b/f. Herpes for one is an STD which some people show no symtoms for and many people do not even know they have. As the other posters have said, see a doctor immediately.

**avman** · 06-06-2005, 08:04 PM

Sex should not be painful after the first couple of times. If it was alright and now it is not, then you need to see a doctor right away. You could have a UTI (urinary tract infection) or it could also be an STD. Get to the clinic and get yourself checked out.

RayKay · 06-06-2005, 09:14 PM

See your gynecologist/doctor ASAP.

It may be an STI (though many are symptom free, pain in pelvic region is a good signifier of something). You should be going at least once a year for pelvic exams ANYWAY if you are sexually active (very importantas things like HPV/STI testing, pap smears should be done regularly). It could also be PID (pelvic inflammatory disease), a UTI or any other of the gamut of infections possible. Only a doctor can narrow it down.

And see a doctor regularly...EVERY woman who is sexually active should be getting paps regularly, and every woman over 16 active or not should be going as well.

06-06-2005, 05:27 PM	#1
gift from the gods Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Uk Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 155	sexual health problem.... I didnt really know where to put this because its more sexual health than what people normally talk about on here, but i figured that it was about health so here it goes... Well i have quite a problem to say the least! Im in a perfect relationship with a boy that i 100% love and trust and im very very happy with him. We enjoy a healthy love life too which i love but thats what i have been getting a few problems with. I went months of having pain-free amazing sex but all of a sudden its just got SO SO painfull. It hurts so much before and after sex (but not during! ) like a very painfull stinging/burning sensation I have to say, even though i am 15, its not because im not 'ready' or im too young down there, because that has never been a problem before!? Its also not beacuse of lack of lube... I have also gone without any kind of sex and it doesnt help! Could this be an STI? im terrified!! but if i had one then surely my boyfriend would show signs too...?! and otherwise there arnt any ovious symptoms! Has anyone had the same problem? What is it? I am thinking of going to a clinc or something beacuse its SO painfull! What does anyone think i should do? i need to get it sorted because its a big problem (good job i have a supporting and understanding boyfriend!) Big thank you! XX __________________ So mesmerising, so hypnotising. I am captivated, i am liberiated.

06-06-2005, 09:14 PM	#7
RayKay Offline Platinum Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Middle of Canada Gender: Female Age: 30 Posts: 13,270	See your gynecologist/doctor ASAP. It may be an STI (though many are symptom free, pain in pelvic region is a good signifier of something). You should be going at least once a year for pelvic exams ANYWAY if you are sexually active (very importantas things like HPV/STI testing, pap smears should be done regularly). It could also be PID (pelvic inflammatory disease), a UTI or any other of the gamut of infections possible. Only a doctor can narrow it down. And see a doctor regularly...EVERY woman who is sexually active should be getting paps regularly, and every woman over 16 active or not should be going as well. __________________ [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkolivegreen][B]<--- [COLOR=sienna]Carbun the Super-Bunny[/COLOR][/B][/COLOR][/FONT] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#556b2f][/COLOR][/FONT][/B] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkolivegreen][B]At the end of the day, how you imprinted on someones life and heart is the only true mark any of us leave on this earth and is what we are most proud of... [/B][/COLOR][/FONT][I][SIZE=1]- My Biggest Hero and Mentor: My Mum.[/SIZE][/I] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=orange][B]Il faut d'abord durer [/B][/COLOR][/FONT][I][SIZE=1]- Ernest Hemingway[/SIZE][/I]

06-06-2005, 05:31 PM	#2
kenneth05 Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 204	there is only one answer that is good here: you need to go to a physician. do it as soon as you can. good luck.

06-06-2005, 05:33 PM	#3
punchy504 Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: packerland Posts: 285	and quit having sex, YOU ARE ONLY 15!! read- child- not adult

06-06-2005, 06:15 PM	#4
RandomAdvisor Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: East Coast Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 1,669	Yes, that could be any # of STI's. I hope you're having safe sex. Go see a doctor about it ASAP.

06-06-2005, 06:54 PM	#5
melrich Offline Super Moderator Join Date: Jul 2003 Gender: Male Posts: 8,498	Yes it could definately be an STD. The symptoms may not necessarily show up with your b/f. Herpes for one is an STD which some people show no symtoms for and many people do not even know they have. As the other posters have said, see a doctor immediately.

06-06-2005, 08:04 PM	#6
avman Offline Administrator Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Minnesota Gender: Male Age: 42 Posts: 6,526	Sex should not be painful after the first couple of times. If it was alright and now it is not, then you need to see a doctor right away. You could have a UTI (urinary tract infection) or it could also be an STD. Get to the clinic and get yourself checked out.