i havt a prablem, i have no feelings right now when i should

hutch007 · 06-06-2005, 05:07 PM

ok lets put it this way, i feel as if im emtpy, i feel like notin, my freinds comment on how i have no "feeling" in my voice. i feel like notin ca help me. people say its depresion, but i think i just have notin left in me, i meen i just saw my ex gf yesterday and all night while watchin firworks wit a bunch of my freinds, prabably the most romantic spot u could be next to a beach under a sky full of starz. by the way me and my ex are freinds so ya. and i have almost no school left but i have finals coming up. most people should be thinking, o yes here comes SUMMER!!! but o crap finals next week im screwed. but then thinking ok im itting her wit my ex and a bunch of hot chicks under the full moon wit fireworks. this is awsome...... ok but ya i feel notin im empty nada. any idea how to get better,????

GettingOverIt · 06-06-2005, 05:25 PM

This is going to sound crazy, but FAKE IT... If you are with a group of friends and the situation is one where there is excitement and fun, but you don't feel anything, then FAKE IT... Pretend to love the fireworks, pretend to be excited about summer coming up! I know, nuts right?

You really do sound depressed to me, but one way to help you get out of this 'funk' is to pretend you aren't in one... In time, you will start to believe that you are having a good time, and then after more time, you really will be having a good time...

You can also talk to someone - a parent, a friend, a counselor at school...

Falucchi · 06-06-2005, 05:40 PM

Why don't you start living for something bigger than your friends and fun?
Put your time, your energy, your youth into something good- DO something to help people who have nothing.
Contribute to something.
Go to servenet.org and use the Get Involved box. Type in your zip code-- then you'll get a list of ways you can do something positive with yourself and be a hero. People need you. You'll feel good about yourself.

06-06-2005, 05:07 PM	#1
hutch007 Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 149	i havt a prablem, i have no feelings right now when i should ok lets put it this way, i feel as if im emtpy, i feel like notin, my freinds comment on how i have no "feeling" in my voice. i feel like notin ca help me. people say its depresion, but i think i just have notin left in me, i meen i just saw my ex gf yesterday and all night while watchin firworks wit a bunch of my freinds, prabably the most romantic spot u could be next to a beach under a sky full of starz. by the way me and my ex are freinds so ya. and i have almost no school left but i have finals coming up. most people should be thinking, o yes here comes SUMMER!!! but o crap finals next week im screwed. but then thinking ok im itting her wit my ex and a bunch of hot chicks under the full moon wit fireworks. this is awsome...... ok but ya i feel notin im empty nada. any idea how to get better,???? __________________ everyone gets advise but only the wise can profet form it 8)

06-06-2005, 05:40 PM	#3
Falucchi Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 261	Why don't you start living for something bigger than your friends and fun? Put your time, your energy, your youth into something good- DO something to help people who have nothing. Contribute to something. Go to servenet.org and use the Get Involved box. Type in your zip code-- then you'll get a list of ways you can do something positive with yourself and be a hero. People need you. You'll feel good about yourself. __________________ ~Don't give away your Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness, these are your unalienable Rights.~

06-06-2005, 05:25 PM	#2
GettingOverIt Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Out There... Waaaay out there... Gender: Male Age: 40 Posts: 638	This is going to sound crazy, but FAKE IT... If you are with a group of friends and the situation is one where there is excitement and fun, but you don't feel anything, then FAKE IT... Pretend to love the fireworks, pretend to be excited about summer coming up! I know, nuts right? You really do sound depressed to me, but one way to help you get out of this 'funk' is to pretend you aren't in one... In time, you will start to believe that you are having a good time, and then after more time, you really will be having a good time... You can also talk to someone - a parent, a friend, a counselor at school...