Fantasies, creativity, etc.

lakergal · 05-21-2005, 02:08 AM

My ex and I talked tonight for about 2 hours. Some was about family, work, Star Wars, Korea, China, etc and the remainder (about an hour) was about our sex life.

He says that's why he left me.

I don't doubt we could have used a tune-up, so to speak, but what's creative in a guy's mind? What types of fantasies are there?

If we were to work things out - I sure don't want to be boring...but could use some ideas here...

thanks

kungfumaster · 05-21-2005, 02:16 AM

korea and china?? okay. are you guys asian?

anyways, i've never actually had a gf who was in anyway creative when it comes to sex. okay, maybe my recent one.

the only thing that pops into my head is sexy lingerie, and making love in the most inoppurtune time, when both of you are really horny (like when her grandmother is making dinner in the other room! hah!).

maybe role playing - that's probably a good one.

kungfumaster · 05-21-2005, 02:35 AM

that's a good one Tetsuo_Shima!

oh - i have one in the same lines as above - but maybe everyones done this already - sneaking in when you gf is taking a shower and making love to her! aeeeeeeeeyyyy!

lakergal · 05-21-2005, 09:10 AM

We're from North America (he's Canadian, I'm American)...

We talk about China, Korea, Chechnia (sp?), etc because we're both interested in world politics, the role of the US in that, etc.

Keep them coming - the shower thing doesn't work for us - we're both tall and my shower is small - but the licking part...

05-21-2005, 02:08 AM	#1
lakergal Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Age: 45 Posts: 126	Fantasies, creativity, etc. My ex and I talked tonight for about 2 hours. Some was about family, work, Star Wars, Korea, China, etc and the remainder (about an hour) was about our sex life. He says that's why he left me. I don't doubt we could have used a tune-up, so to speak, but what's creative in a guy's mind? What types of fantasies are there? If we were to work things out - I sure don't want to be boring...but could use some ideas here... thanks

05-21-2005, 02:16 AM	#2
kungfumaster Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Kanadai Age: 34 Posts: 558	korea and china?? okay. are you guys asian? anyways, i've never actually had a gf who was in anyway creative when it comes to sex. okay, maybe my recent one. the only thing that pops into my head is sexy lingerie, and making love in the most inoppurtune time, when both of you are really horny (like when her grandmother is making dinner in the other room! hah!). maybe role playing - that's probably a good one. __________________ I'm learning to be myself again.

05-21-2005, 02:35 AM	#3
kungfumaster Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Kanadai Age: 34 Posts: 558	that's a good one Tetsuo_Shima! oh - i have one in the same lines as above - but maybe everyones done this already - sneaking in when you gf is taking a shower and making love to her! aeeeeeeeeyyyy! __________________ I'm learning to be myself again.

05-21-2005, 09:10 AM	#4
lakergal Offline Member Join Date: May 2005 Age: 45 Posts: 126	We're from North America (he's Canadian, I'm American)... We talk about China, Korea, Chechnia (sp?), etc because we're both interested in world politics, the role of the US in that, etc. Keep them coming - the shower thing doesn't work for us - we're both tall and my shower is small - but the licking part...