I thought I found my soulmate but guess not!!:(

eeyore2000 · 04-11-2005, 10:42 AM

I met this guy at work about 6yrs ago and I been talking to him all theses years.I told him one day that my boyfriend broke up with me and that I am single again.Well that same week he came back to where i work still and where he used too.Well he asked me if I wanted to hanged out with him that night.So i did. He even kissed me too and I wasnt excepting that.I think I am totally in love wiht him.But right now where really really close friends and hes been living hear cause he doesnt have anywhere else to go and he back at the same work place.When we used to hold hands they melted right into each other.OUr french kiss was really really long and good.I feel really comfortable around him all the times.I can be myself.We can read each other minds when where in a not so good mood.Well I guess i got stabbed in the back last night cause my heart just kind of broke.He asked one of my good friends from work to go to walmart and not only that they hanged out too for a little while.She told me that she wants gonna get inbetween our good friendship.Well she lied.And right now Im not talking to both of them cuase how I am hurting inside.I know I have to talk to him sooner or later.But dont know how to bring it up too him.He knows how I feel about him and not only that he tomd me he wasnt ready for a relationship just yet cuase of his past relationship and of whats going on.Well hope someone helps me out hear.THanks

**Hope75** · 04-11-2005, 10:47 AM

I'm sorry to tell you this Eeyore, but sound like you have been played, hard. This guy took advantage of you when you were vulnerable and now he's living with you, and putting the moves on someone else.

If I were you I would kick his butt out asap and not feel a bit of remorse for it.

As for your friend, a real friend wouldn't mess with someone she knows you care about and that was living with you.

As far as I can tell, you've got some dead weight to drop, both him and your "friend".

Good luck, girl, and sorry these people treated you like this, but you are truely better off without both of them in your life.

rilo82 · 04-11-2005, 11:50 AM

Yes, drop the two so called 'friends' or whatever. I hate it when people cheat and do not stay faithful. You deserve someone better.
In my opinion, throw his stuff out of the house and change the lock.

04-11-2005, 10:42 AM	#1
eeyore2000 Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Greenville Age: 29 Posts: 12	I thought I found my soulmate but guess not!!:( I met this guy at work about 6yrs ago and I been talking to him all theses years.I told him one day that my boyfriend broke up with me and that I am single again.Well that same week he came back to where i work still and where he used too.Well he asked me if I wanted to hanged out with him that night.So i did. He even kissed me too and I wasnt excepting that.I think I am totally in love wiht him.But right now where really really close friends and hes been living hear cause he doesnt have anywhere else to go and he back at the same work place.When we used to hold hands they melted right into each other.OUr french kiss was really really long and good.I feel really comfortable around him all the times.I can be myself.We can read each other minds when where in a not so good mood.Well I guess i got stabbed in the back last night cause my heart just kind of broke.He asked one of my good friends from work to go to walmart and not only that they hanged out too for a little while.She told me that she wants gonna get inbetween our good friendship.Well she lied.And right now Im not talking to both of them cuase how I am hurting inside.I know I have to talk to him sooner or later.But dont know how to bring it up too him.He knows how I feel about him and not only that he tomd me he wasnt ready for a relationship just yet cuase of his past relationship and of whats going on.Well hope someone helps me out hear.THanks __________________ Always take the time u need with someone and enjoy that time being with them.It might be the only chance u get with them.

04-11-2005, 10:47 AM	#2
Hope75 Offline Super Moderator Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: kitteh ville Gender: Female Age: 33 Posts: 12,512	I'm sorry to tell you this Eeyore, but sound like you have been played, hard. This guy took advantage of you when you were vulnerable and now he's living with you, and putting the moves on someone else. If I were you I would kick his butt out asap and not feel a bit of remorse for it. As for your friend, a real friend wouldn't mess with someone she knows you care about and that was living with you. As far as I can tell, you've got some dead weight to drop, both him and your "friend". Good luck, girl, and sorry these people treated you like this, but you are truely better off without both of them in your life. __________________ Muffin cats need love too. Please refer to the forum rules before posting: http://www.enotalone.com/forum/forum-rules.php Mama to a beautiful baby girl born 6-25-09. :)

04-11-2005, 11:50 AM	#3
rilo82 Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: singapore Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 107	Yes, drop the two so called 'friends' or whatever. I hate it when people cheat and do not stay faithful. You deserve someone better. In my opinion, throw his stuff out of the house and change the lock. __________________ Loving someone and getting their love in return is the most wonderful thing that can happen to u. I'd rather let myself down, than let others down.