Women and clothes...

MetallicAguy · 02-23-2005, 09:01 PM

Do women find guys more attractive wearing certain clothes? I wear the shirts I want to usually and I wear almost tight blue jeans that show my legs and *** and I wear white Nikes. I can't get any dates, and I have moderate zits. My behavior around women is fine, I can make them laugh and they'll tell me I'm funny or fun to talk to. What am I doing wrong? It makes no sense. Could it be my status? That's something I've never really excelled in other than I'm inbetween (Inbetween prep and geek). I haven't bought a new "set" of clothes for about 5-10 months, maybe that's the problem; I don't know. But what is with this crap? I mean why does a women judge you on the way you dress? It's not like I'm wearing rags. I bet you could talk to a guy with orange hair, clown shoes and multi-colored pants and T-Shirt and the guy would be completely normal other than the way he picks his clothes

lol. And I have like no confidence though, My self-image sucks so much because I've had zits for 8 years. I have guts to talk to women, or ask them out though so I guess that's confidence. Anyone know what my problem is?

goddess23 · 02-23-2005, 10:45 PM

hey you know what its probably your confidence level. honestly clothes can make a guy hotter, but its not the main thing. its just like anything else, arent you attracted to a girl with a nic body or nice hair or has clothes that enhances her features? its just natural, but really we dont JUDGE you. its just part of the package, im being honest. and your self confidence comes through, honestly i think its easier if a guy isnt attractive vs. a girl, we're actually more into the whole personality thing. im TALKING GENERALLY i know there are alot of guys that arent like that and same with girls. but ya, i woudlnt go saying "why do women" because i think it has nothing to do with gender. btw, about the acne, dont feel too bad, most poeple suffer from it, and i dont know but proactive looks pretty good. but if thats a little high ill tell you a little secret. ive been using this thing called BLACK SOAP, its this african thing...like i got it at a stand in the mall, but im sure if you did a little research you could find some near you. and it has kept my skin prettyyyy nice. cleared up my back. and itsl ike 10 dollars for this big ball that lasts A LONG TIME if you use it right. so ya...proactive looks good but its pricey, so try black soap. and try not to worry too mcuh about the skin, its not a big deal. remember that you have ALOT MORE TO OFFER, and that NO ONE IS PERFECT.

MetallicAguy · 02-23-2005, 10:50 PM

Yeah, like I know I have a good personality, I think it's the clothes. Maybe I should just go out one day and spend $200 bucks lol.

inspiration · 02-23-2005, 11:32 PM

Clothes can help... i'm pretty well dressed and not all that great looking, but my personality is great. but people notice me for my shirts i wear... (mostly polo's) but i really try to mix it up... a knitty under something can make it look way better.... just try to bring out the colors that aren't as copious in the shirt.

my .02

-.ins

**annie24** · 02-23-2005, 11:39 PM

post a photo! We'll tell you the truth!

MetallicAguy · 02-23-2005, 11:50 PM

Well, I don't have a digital camera so I can explain what I wear, I wear some A&F, Ecko(BLUE JEANS NO GANGSTER STUFF NOT THAT BAGGY, actually kinda tight like those old school skaters), some MetallicA shirts lol, some basketball clothes (T-shirts and shorts, shorts are baggy, T-Shirts aren't). And that's basically it. So basically my clothes suck, what do you girls recommend wearing for a 16 year old?

**annie24** · 02-23-2005, 11:52 PM

What's your body like? Face? How bad are the zits? You can go to a doctor or aestetician to get your face taken care of.

MetallicAguy · 02-23-2005, 11:55 PM

6'0 inbetween compact and medium build, zits are kinda like all over the face i currently have 34 that I have counted lol, I have hair that goes over my forehead and almost in my eyes and a flip in the back, and I have blue eyes and a medium-size head.

MetallicAguy · 02-23-2005, 11:57 PM

Zits are a pain in the ***, they degrade my self-image massively since I've had them soo long. I have these inflammatory marks that will never clear up no matter what I do so it looks like I have a lot of zits but actually I have 5. Oh yeah I typed 34 on the other post I meant 5, don't know how I did that.

MetallicAguy · 02-23-2005, 11:58 PM

Does anyone know what can clear up what I call these "after-life zits" which are inflammatory marks when you used to have them really bad.

02-23-2005, 09:01 PM	#1
MetallicAguy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Age: 19 Posts: 2,159	Women and clothes... Do women find guys more attractive wearing certain clothes? I wear the shirts I want to usually and I wear almost tight blue jeans that show my legs and *** and I wear white Nikes. I can't get any dates, and I have moderate zits. My behavior around women is fine, I can make them laugh and they'll tell me I'm funny or fun to talk to. What am I doing wrong? It makes no sense. Could it be my status? That's something I've never really excelled in other than I'm inbetween (Inbetween prep and geek). I haven't bought a new "set" of clothes for about 5-10 months, maybe that's the problem; I don't know. But what is with this crap? I mean why does a women judge you on the way you dress? It's not like I'm wearing rags. I bet you could talk to a guy with orange hair, clown shoes and multi-colored pants and T-Shirt and the guy would be completely normal other than the way he picks his clothes lol. And I have like no confidence though, My self-image sucks so much because I've had zits for 8 years. I have guts to talk to women, or ask them out though so I guess that's confidence. Anyone know what my problem is?

02-23-2005, 10:45 PM	#2
goddess23 Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Toronto Age: 21 Posts: 767	hey you know what its probably your confidence level. honestly clothes can make a guy hotter, but its not the main thing. its just like anything else, arent you attracted to a girl with a nic body or nice hair or has clothes that enhances her features? its just natural, but really we dont JUDGE you. its just part of the package, im being honest. and your self confidence comes through, honestly i think its easier if a guy isnt attractive vs. a girl, we're actually more into the whole personality thing. im TALKING GENERALLY i know there are alot of guys that arent like that and same with girls. but ya, i woudlnt go saying "why do women" because i think it has nothing to do with gender. btw, about the acne, dont feel too bad, most poeple suffer from it, and i dont know but proactive looks pretty good. but if thats a little high ill tell you a little secret. ive been using this thing called BLACK SOAP, its this african thing...like i got it at a stand in the mall, but im sure if you did a little research you could find some near you. and it has kept my skin prettyyyy nice. cleared up my back. and itsl ike 10 dollars for this big ball that lasts A LONG TIME if you use it right. so ya...proactive looks good but its pricey, so try black soap. and try not to worry too mcuh about the skin, its not a big deal. remember that you have ALOT MORE TO OFFER, and that NO ONE IS PERFECT. __________________ ~~Never go into a relationship and doom it from the beginning, but dont go into it expecting it to last forever~~

02-23-2005, 10:50 PM	#3
MetallicAguy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Age: 19 Posts: 2,159	Yeah, like I know I have a good personality, I think it's the clothes. Maybe I should just go out one day and spend $200 bucks lol.

02-23-2005, 11:32 PM	#4
inspiration Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Gender: None Specified Posts: 269	Clothes can help... i'm pretty well dressed and not all that great looking, but my personality is great. but people notice me for my shirts i wear... (mostly polo's) but i really try to mix it up... a knitty under something can make it look way better.... just try to bring out the colors that aren't as copious in the shirt. my .02 -.ins

02-23-2005, 11:39 PM	#5
annie24 Online Super Moderator Join Date: Oct 2004 Age: 29 Posts: 26,832	post a photo! We'll tell you the truth!

02-23-2005, 11:50 PM	#6
MetallicAguy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Age: 19 Posts: 2,159	Well, I don't have a digital camera so I can explain what I wear, I wear some A&F, Ecko(BLUE JEANS NO GANGSTER STUFF NOT THAT BAGGY, actually kinda tight like those old school skaters), some MetallicA shirts lol, some basketball clothes (T-shirts and shorts, shorts are baggy, T-Shirts aren't). And that's basically it. So basically my clothes suck, what do you girls recommend wearing for a 16 year old?

02-23-2005, 11:52 PM	#7
annie24 Online Super Moderator Join Date: Oct 2004 Age: 29 Posts: 26,832	What's your body like? Face? How bad are the zits? You can go to a doctor or aestetician to get your face taken care of.

02-23-2005, 11:55 PM	#8
MetallicAguy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Age: 19 Posts: 2,159	6'0 inbetween compact and medium build, zits are kinda like all over the face i currently have 34 that I have counted lol, I have hair that goes over my forehead and almost in my eyes and a flip in the back, and I have blue eyes and a medium-size head.

02-23-2005, 11:57 PM	#9
MetallicAguy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Age: 19 Posts: 2,159	Zits are a pain in the ***, they degrade my self-image massively since I've had them soo long. I have these inflammatory marks that will never clear up no matter what I do so it looks like I have a lot of zits but actually I have 5. Oh yeah I typed 34 on the other post I meant 5, don't know how I did that.

02-23-2005, 11:58 PM	#10
MetallicAguy Offline Silver Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Age: 19 Posts: 2,159	Does anyone know what can clear up what I call these "after-life zits" which are inflammatory marks when you used to have them really bad.