Meeting tommorow. What should I do?

White[IcE] · 01-31-2005, 09:34 PM

Ok tommorow I have 2 exams. The first is 1 1/2 hours long, and starts at 8:30am and the other starts at 12:30. So I'm going to have this 2 hour gap in between. In the gap, I have managed to arrange for me and this girl I really like to hang out. It's only going to be me and her.

I'm not sure what to do, I really like her, and I've heard that if I ask her out she'd say yes, but Ive been getting some mixed signals at some points before now. Should I ask her out, or should I maybe leave some more time for us to get to know each other.

You see, the other night one of my friends asked her online if she liked me and she said "well don't take this negatively when I say "no" but..." and trailed off, and then had to go. This left me really confused because why would she say yes if she didn't like me (it had been confirmed now that shed say yes). I asked her why she said that and she said she didn't mean it that way, so im really confused...What should I do..?

DN · 01-31-2005, 09:39 PM

ask her out - then you'll get your answer,

Nothing to lose, right?

JohnnyRingo · 02-01-2005, 10:04 AM

^^ hes right. all you can do is take tha leap. ask her out. if she says no, then its what she said before. but from what youve said it doesnt sound like shell say no. i think you got this.

White[IcE] · 02-01-2005, 02:36 PM

Well things went smooth, but I didn't ask her out. I asked her if she wanted to hang out friday night, and she said yes. I think I might pop the question then.

01-31-2005, 09:34 PM	#1
White[IcE] Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 163	Meeting tommorow. What should I do? Ok tommorow I have 2 exams. The first is 1 1/2 hours long, and starts at 8:30am and the other starts at 12:30. So I'm going to have this 2 hour gap in between. In the gap, I have managed to arrange for me and this girl I really like to hang out. It's only going to be me and her. I'm not sure what to do, I really like her, and I've heard that if I ask her out she'd say yes, but Ive been getting some mixed signals at some points before now. Should I ask her out, or should I maybe leave some more time for us to get to know each other. You see, the other night one of my friends asked her online if she liked me and she said "well don't take this negatively when I say "no" but..." and trailed off, and then had to go. This left me really confused because why would she say yes if she didn't like me (it had been confirmed now that shed say yes). I asked her why she said that and she said she didn't mean it that way, so im really confused...What should I do..?

01-31-2005, 09:39 PM	#2
DN Online Super Moderator Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ontario, Canada Gender: Male Posts: 23,439	ask her out - then you'll get your answer, Nothing to lose, right? __________________ Immaturity is not defined by him not doing what you want him to do. Hartman's Law of Prescriptivist Retaliation: "any article or statement about correct grammar, punctuation, or spelling is bound to contain at least one eror".

02-01-2005, 10:04 AM	#3
JohnnyRingo Offline Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Age: 22 Posts: 48	^^ hes right. all you can do is take tha leap. ask her out. if she says no, then its what she said before. but from what youve said it doesnt sound like shell say no. i think you got this.

02-01-2005, 02:36 PM	#4
White[IcE] Offline Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 163	Well things went smooth, but I didn't ask her out. I asked her if she wanted to hang out friday night, and she said yes. I think I might pop the question then.