teen girl with teenage problems

rodeochick235 · 01-26-2005, 09:38 PM

ok, I'll start with problem one.I recently discovered that I have a crush on one of my friends.The only problem is he recently got a gf.I don't want to do anything to interfere because his gf is nice and she is close friends with another friend of mine. I don't know what to do. I mean he pays more attention to me than any other girl I've seen him with except his last gf and her. Second problem. I have two friends one I'm really close with and one I'm just beginning to trust again after a huge falling out.Well recently me and my really close friend haven't been as close and she's been hanging out a lot with my other buddy.They've been doing a lot of stuff together and leaving me out.The other day I walked behind them all the way to class trying to get my friends attention and I had no luck.She didn't even awknowledge I existed.It really hurt.Yesterday it was better but then the other girl took my spot that I sit at between them at lunch and I had to sit at another table.The other girl seems to always get what she wants.NOw it looks like she might be getting a close friend of mine too.My best friend doesn't go to my school so we don't get to talk as much as we used to so I'm really feeling alone. I would like someone I could really be close to and who could be close to me.Could someone give me some advice.

Alabama · 01-26-2005, 09:51 PM

Do you have any other friends you could talk to? I would talk with them more, or if you can try, talk to your close friend more. Even if it seems they are hanging out with this other friend, I'm sure there will be a chance to talk to them. Use any oppurtunity can to talk to your friend, or talk to another friend you know. Good luck!

bull · 01-26-2005, 11:18 PM

I know how you feel. Im sorta in the same situation now. (this girl i am friends with wasnt aknowleging me) I talked to her though and she promised that she would be a better friend from now on. So i say that you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel and if she still is not aknowleging you then i think you should try to make some new friends. As for the guy, id just concentrate on being as good a friend as possible to him.

i might not be the best person to listen to since i am trying to figure out the same kind of situations myself, but i know how you feel.

mylittlebeetroot · 01-27-2005, 06:06 AM

'm also in love with a close friend...
i told the guy i'm in love with how i felt at new year because it seems he felt the same way... but since i've told him he's dropped these feelings and told me he fancies someone else and is totally ignoring me because he doesn't want me to get hurt.

i've been talking to another close friend about it because she's in exactly the same position as me... she's in love with her close friend also.

now i wished i hadn't have told him... because nearly everything has changed between us... i think he feels he can't talk to me anymore and especially about relationships because he doesn't want me to hate him because he likes someone else...
but it's too late... i hate him so much because i love him.

much love xx

rodeochick235 · 01-27-2005, 11:58 AM

I wouldn't be able to tell him.First I likes his gf. 2nd. she's fixin to graduate and she goes to another s 3rd She's best friends with the friend I mentioned.I'll just let what happens happens there.
As far as the other problem goes the other girl isn't here so maybe I can talk to her today. Thanx for the advice

01-26-2005, 09:38 PM	#1
rodeochick235 Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Age: 19 Posts: 12	teen girl with teenage problems ok, I'll start with problem one.I recently discovered that I have a crush on one of my friends.The only problem is he recently got a gf.I don't want to do anything to interfere because his gf is nice and she is close friends with another friend of mine. I don't know what to do. I mean he pays more attention to me than any other girl I've seen him with except his last gf and her. Second problem. I have two friends one I'm really close with and one I'm just beginning to trust again after a huge falling out.Well recently me and my really close friend haven't been as close and she's been hanging out a lot with my other buddy.They've been doing a lot of stuff together and leaving me out.The other day I walked behind them all the way to class trying to get my friends attention and I had no luck.She didn't even awknowledge I existed.It really hurt.Yesterday it was better but then the other girl took my spot that I sit at between them at lunch and I had to sit at another table.The other girl seems to always get what she wants.NOw it looks like she might be getting a close friend of mine too.My best friend doesn't go to my school so we don't get to talk as much as we used to so I'm really feeling alone. I would like someone I could really be close to and who could be close to me.Could someone give me some advice. __________________ Everyone Loves Me Because I'm Like A Teddy Bear: Cute,Short, And Totally Huggable!!!!!!

01-26-2005, 09:51 PM	#2
Alabama Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: USA Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 1,408	Do you have any other friends you could talk to? I would talk with them more, or if you can try, talk to your close friend more. Even if it seems they are hanging out with this other friend, I'm sure there will be a chance to talk to them. Use any oppurtunity can to talk to your friend, or talk to another friend you know. Good luck! __________________ Every day you may make progress. Every step may be fruitful. Yet there will stretch out before you an ever-lengthening, ever-ascending, ever-improving path. You know you will never get to the end of the journey. But this, so far from discouraging, only adds to the joy and glory of the climb. Sir Winston Churchill "If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life. With confidence, you have won before you have started." ~ Marcus Garvey

01-27-2005, 11:58 AM	#5
rodeochick235 Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Age: 19 Posts: 12	I wouldn't be able to tell him.First I likes his gf. 2nd. she's fixin to graduate and she goes to another s 3rd She's best friends with the friend I mentioned.I'll just let what happens happens there. As far as the other problem goes the other girl isn't here so maybe I can talk to her today. Thanx for the advice __________________ Everyone Loves Me Because I'm Like A Teddy Bear: Cute,Short, And Totally Huggable!!!!!!

01-26-2005, 11:18 PM	#3
bull Offline Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Age: 18 Posts: 101	I know how you feel. Im sorta in the same situation now. (this girl i am friends with wasnt aknowleging me) I talked to her though and she promised that she would be a better friend from now on. So i say that you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel and if she still is not aknowleging you then i think you should try to make some new friends. As for the guy, id just concentrate on being as good a friend as possible to him. i might not be the best person to listen to since i am trying to figure out the same kind of situations myself, but i know how you feel.

01-27-2005, 06:06 AM	#4
mylittlebeetroot Offline Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: England Posts: 5	'm also in love with a close friend... i told the guy i'm in love with how i felt at new year because it seems he felt the same way... but since i've told him he's dropped these feelings and told me he fancies someone else and is totally ignoring me because he doesn't want me to get hurt. i've been talking to another close friend about it because she's in exactly the same position as me... she's in love with her close friend also. now i wished i hadn't have told him... because nearly everything has changed between us... i think he feels he can't talk to me anymore and especially about relationships because he doesn't want me to hate him because he likes someone else... but it's too late... i hate him so much because i love him. much love xx