Should I Respond or move on

indian · 11-06-2009, 03:08 PM

Okay just a little background, have been talking with this girl for about 6 weeks now, have met up twice for dinner...I like her, there is some Chemistry...we have a few laughs, there are quiet moments...all in all would rate it 6/10 as of now
My problem is she does not reply to my calls and txts immediatley and takes on an average of two days to do so.
Last week She invited me for dinner over to her place and next day I call and tell her that I had a good time...I get a call back from her after two days...then I call her after two days and she does not answer, I send her a txt next day saying that I am thinking about her and I get a txt back after a day...saying that she is fed up with her wrk and needs a drink tonite to unwind...then she asks me what am I doing for the weekend?
I do cut her some slack since she travels for work and is really busy...but how busy can you be that you are not able to reply to a simple txt.
Should I move on since she is so busy or do I talk to her about it and I am not even sure if she likes me or not...also she does not say thanks or anything to any of my compliments...I mean not that I am expecting a thank you note or something but it is good manners to say the least
.....ugh...only if life wasn't so complicated

1MoreChance · 11-06-2009, 06:48 PM

Back off and give her space. It sounds like you're more into her than she is into you. Protect yourself. I wouldn't tell/text her "I'm thinking about you" so early on in the relationship.

Cminor7th · 11-08-2009, 01:07 AM

Spacing friend, spacing, that is raising red flags in her head....I wouldn't hold on too long to this one, let her make the next communication, otherwise move on.

Anyway · 11-08-2009, 10:29 AM

Yeah, you're smothering her. Back off.

11-06-2009, 03:08 PM	#1
indian Offline Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 45	Should I Respond or move on Okay just a little background, have been talking with this girl for about 6 weeks now, have met up twice for dinner...I like her, there is some Chemistry...we have a few laughs, there are quiet moments...all in all would rate it 6/10 as of now My problem is she does not reply to my calls and txts immediatley and takes on an average of two days to do so. Last week She invited me for dinner over to her place and next day I call and tell her that I had a good time...I get a call back from her after two days...then I call her after two days and she does not answer, I send her a txt next day saying that I am thinking about her and I get a txt back after a day...saying that she is fed up with her wrk and needs a drink tonite to unwind...then she asks me what am I doing for the weekend? I do cut her some slack since she travels for work and is really busy...but how busy can you be that you are not able to reply to a simple txt. Should I move on since she is so busy or do I talk to her about it and I am not even sure if she likes me or not...also she does not say thanks or anything to any of my compliments...I mean not that I am expecting a thank you note or something but it is good manners to say the least .....ugh...only if life wasn't so complicated

11-06-2009, 06:48 PM	#2
1MoreChance Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Gender: Female Age: 37 Posts: 1,358	Back off and give her space. It sounds like you're more into her than she is into you. Protect yourself. I wouldn't tell/text her "I'm thinking about you" so early on in the relationship. __________________ Fake it til you make it!

11-08-2009, 10:29 AM	#4
Anyway Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Gender: Male Age: 30 Posts: 276	Yeah, you're smothering her. Back off. __________________ "We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand" -Randy Pausch "Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans." -John Lennon Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. - Albert Einstein

11-08-2009, 01:07 AM	#3
Cminor7th Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: 13th Colony Posts: 156	Spacing friend, spacing, that is raising red flags in her head....I wouldn't hold on too long to this one, let her make the next communication, otherwise move on.