From your expirience what is the thing to do

icemann89 · 11-08-2009, 03:09 AM

Ill just ask a simple question ...
What did you do when you saw your ex with someone else
how did you cope
what made you feel better
what did you think of when you tried to feel better

jettison · 11-08-2009, 03:50 AM

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What did you do when you saw your ex with someone else

Felt freaking terrible about it. HUGE blow to your ego and whatever reality you may have been merely projecting.

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how did you cope

Tried to accept the reality as soon as possible. Realized that I was holding onto a fantasy.

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what made you feel better

With one ex, I told her exactly how I felt... That I was jealous, that it drove me nuts, that I wish he wasn't in the picture, but that he seemed like a great guy and that she should hold onto them.

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what did you think of when you tried to feel better

Other women.

redherring · 11-08-2009, 04:38 AM

I went nuts. :\
S'not advised, or something I am proud of.

icemann89 · 11-08-2009, 04:42 AM

the going nuts part is the easy one and felling like a stone droped on you

AnotherBrokenDoll · 11-08-2009, 07:27 AM

The first time i saw my ex kiss someone else, it was my best friend. I felt like everything i couldn't breathe.

How i coped? I put a giant smile on my face, told everyone i was fine with it. And after a while the pain lessened.

Not much can really make you feel better. You know the one thing i can say is just let yourself be upset. Cry, do whatever you have to do. Let it out. It helps you move on.

Haha i was a b*tch when i tried to get better and thought evil thoughts about what could go wrong.

11-08-2009, 03:09 AM	#1
icemann89 Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 21	From your expirience what is the thing to do Ill just ask a simple question ... What did you do when you saw your ex with someone else how did you cope what made you feel better what did you think of when you tried to feel better

11-08-2009, 07:27 AM	#5
AnotherBrokenDoll Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: In a world you will never know of. Gender: Female Age: 18 Posts: 1,735	The first time i saw my ex kiss someone else, it was my best friend. I felt like everything i couldn't breathe. How i coped? I put a giant smile on my face, told everyone i was fine with it. And after a while the pain lessened. Not much can really make you feel better. You know the one thing i can say is just let yourself be upset. Cry, do whatever you have to do. Let it out. It helps you move on. Haha i was a b*tch when i tried to get better and thought evil thoughts about what could go wrong. __________________ There are days when i'm ok, And for a moment, For a moment I find hope. But there are days when i'm not ok, And i need your help, So i'm letting go. You should know, You're not on your own, These secrets are walls that keep us alone, I don't know when but i know now, Together we'll make it through somehow, Together we'll make it through somehow.

11-08-2009, 04:38 AM	#3
redherring Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 90	I went nuts. :\ S'not advised, or something I am proud of.

11-08-2009, 04:42 AM	#4
icemann89 Offline Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 21	the going nuts part is the easy one and felling like a stone droped on you