I try, but he still does most of the work!

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By work I don't sex like it's a chore.. but I mean, he does most of the thrusting to get me off, lol, while I'm just laying back enjoying it

I say this because the only position we've done where I do the work is girl on top, and lately it just hasn't been doing anything for me...

does anyone know how I could make it better, so that he can relax a bit?
Also, I've never actually came from sex, I don't think... even though I feel like it's SO close at times. Any tips on that as well?

I'm a bit inexperienced as this is my first partner, and he's quite experienced - he guides me quite a bit, which I wish he didn't have to do. I do appreciate it, but I want to wow him next time!

[BlueAfterglow08]

Basically, try and learn how to enjoy other positions. The only was I tend to have the elusive O, is to have lots and lots of foreplay before hand, then intercourse, and most women can only O from clitoral stimulation and penetration. So either stimulate yourself during sex, on top, or with him on top or get him to do it. Works a treat.

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Originally Posted by BlueAfterglow08

Basically, try and learn how to enjoy other positions. The only was I tend to have the elusive O, is to have lots and lots of foreplay before hand, then intercourse, and most women can only O from clitoral stimulation and penetration. So either stimulate yourself during sex, on top, or with him on top or get him to do it. Works a treat.

Foreplay! Maybe that's what I'm missing. I mean, there is some - but I don't think a great deal. Wait, what's a lot of foreplay? lol.

[BlueAfterglow08]

Basically, (possibly too much detail) What works for me is like, you start off with the basics as in just a bit of above the belt fondling, then below the belt fondling, then give him some oral, then get him to go down on you until you feel really turned on and then get him to penetrate you and stimulate you at the same time or you can do it.

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Originally Posted by BlueAfterglow08

Basically, (possibly too much detail) What works for me is like, you start off with the basics as in just a bit of above the belt fondling, then below the belt fondling, then give him some oral, then get him to go down on you until you feel really turned on and then get him to penetrate you and stimulate you at the same time or you can do it.

Hmm, we don't really do oral very often. Maybe next time I'll initiate it. Seems like we stopped doing that stuff when we started having sex.

[BlueAfterglow08]

Thats the mistake a lot of people make. I made it too. Just going into having sex too soon, then I got with my new bf and we always have lots of foreplay for about twenty mins or more, to the point where your so horny that sex is like the icing on the cake that gets you off. Trust me!