Attention guys!!!How do i turn my guy on amd make him go crazy!

KimKar · 11-03-2009, 07:15 PM

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Hi I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and the sex is great. He is very good, def the best I've had, great body, big, and just We have sex a few times a week, used to be more of course. But now I want to change it up! Its def routine, like I can tell you basically the positions we do in order, every time. So I want to not only try different things BUT my question is mostly.

How do I make him CRAZYYY horny. I mean everyone knows the sex is just better when u are horny as hell, thats why when your first with someone the first time u have sex is usually the best. I need to have him wanting me bad as hell! Like ready to just rip my clothes off and be there for hours. I know for a fact he wants to have sex out of the house, we did it in the movies and it is true that he came quick lol which is usually not true so he musta been loving it..so I need some good place suggestions... I feel like we both like the sex now but we need to LOVE it!!! I wanna please him, pleaseee help!!

Guys especially please let me know what you love!!!

solsticefall · 11-03-2009, 07:23 PM

Invite your girl-friend to join you? Every guy has that fantasy. But that suggestion never goes well with the ladies. lol

equinox · 11-03-2009, 07:24 PM

I wish my gf would ask me that

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All men are different. What does it for one man may not for another.

solsticefall · 11-03-2009, 07:48 PM

A friend of mine from high school had the opportunity for a threesome with him and two girls he didn't really know.

He didn't last 30 seconds. All the excitement was too much to handle. The girls were displeased to say the least - they left and never called again.

Day_Walker · 11-03-2009, 07:49 PM

If you want to turn a guy on then set up the situation so he has to wait. Send him a text at work or a picture and his mind will begin to think of the possibilities the whole time until he gets to see you later that day.

Triplell · 11-03-2009, 07:53 PM

some guys like to be in control, other likes to be taken control of. I like a little bit of both.

The best way to figure out his fantasy is make it part of the bedroom game. Ask him what he has always wanted to do to you. Sometimes it turns out awkward, other times it's really good.

Lucius · 11-03-2009, 08:02 PM

Hmm. How to make a guy crazy horny...

Y'know, I think oral sex and beer might just do it.

I know, I know - you're thinking it's too SUBTLE, right? Well, that's the kind of subtlety that we men enjoy. You know - the obvious kind.

Lulz.

Raistlin · 11-03-2009, 08:13 PM

I've always been a guy that likes to be built up to sex, not just jump into it (unlike my current gf). So for me, some dirty text and scandalous pics while at work, then being forced to do errands away from the house while being teased and toyed with just to keep the pressure building....

Well, once the door shuts back at the house, I'm already trying to make my move.

This is just what works for me. Oral, costumes/roleplay, and change of location can be big factors of excitement too. The bedroom can get old, and public is too much, but I had sex with my gf on her balcony at sunrise and it was amazing.

Kerrian · 11-03-2009, 08:24 PM

Like the above members have said - be teasing...
An ex of mine used to be really interested in roleplay - and we would exchange one fantasy each week - we alternated, and firstly - it let us get to know what turned one another on a lot better, and secondly - it's an exciting thing to discuss, and tends to get both of you in the mood to try it out once you've finished suggesting it!

Have you thought of trying something like that?

I used to send him text messages when he was having boring days at work about what I wanted him to do when he got back in lots of detail - and after a couple of hours of sending messages to and fro, when he got back - he couldn't wait any longer!

Also, interesting new lingerie never goes amiss...
I bought and wore stockings and suspenders at one point as a surprise, mentioned it to him during the course of the evening while we were at a social event and he could hardly keep his hands off me on the way home, right up until the bedroom.

Most important of all - is have fun with it, and make sure he enjoys it too.

zzprometheuszz · 11-03-2009, 09:13 PM

by asking this question....
you have made the world a better place

*angel sound*

god bless you...

11-03-2009, 07:15 PM	#1
KimKar Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 6	Attention guys!!!How do i turn my guy on amd make him go crazy! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hi I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and the sex is great. He is very good, def the best I've had, great body, big, and just We have sex a few times a week, used to be more of course. But now I want to change it up! Its def routine, like I can tell you basically the positions we do in order, every time. So I want to not only try different things BUT my question is mostly. How do I make him CRAZYYY horny. I mean everyone knows the sex is just better when u are horny as hell, thats why when your first with someone the first time u have sex is usually the best. I need to have him wanting me bad as hell! Like ready to just rip my clothes off and be there for hours. I know for a fact he wants to have sex out of the house, we did it in the movies and it is true that he came quick lol which is usually not true so he musta been loving it..so I need some good place suggestions... I feel like we both like the sex now but we need to LOVE it!!! I wanna please him, pleaseee help!! Guys especially please let me know what you love!!!

11-03-2009, 07:24 PM	#3
equinox Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 300	I wish my gf would ask me that . All men are different. What does it for one man may not for another. __________________ You are stellar.....

11-03-2009, 07:49 PM	#5
Day_Walker Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: California Gender: Male Age: 28 Posts: 4,881	If you want to turn a guy on then set up the situation so he has to wait. Send him a text at work or a picture and his mind will begin to think of the possibilities the whole time until he gets to see you later that day. __________________ "A long habit of not thinking a thing wrong gives it the superficial appearance of being right, and raises at first a formidable outcry in defense of custom. But the tumult soon subsides. Time makes more converts than reason." Thomas Paine "The wise man questions others wisdom because he questions his own, the foolish man because it is different from his own." Leo Stein

11-03-2009, 08:13 PM	#8
Raistlin Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: AZ Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 888	I've always been a guy that likes to be built up to sex, not just jump into it (unlike my current gf). So for me, some dirty text and scandalous pics while at work, then being forced to do errands away from the house while being teased and toyed with just to keep the pressure building.... Well, once the door shuts back at the house, I'm already trying to make my move. This is just what works for me. Oral, costumes/roleplay, and change of location can be big factors of excitement too. The bedroom can get old, and public is too much, but I had sex with my gf on her balcony at sunrise and it was amazing. __________________ Feel free to PM me any time. I'm always willing to listen when someone needs an ear.

11-03-2009, 08:24 PM	#9
Kerrian Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 125	Like the above members have said - be teasing... An ex of mine used to be really interested in roleplay - and we would exchange one fantasy each week - we alternated, and firstly - it let us get to know what turned one another on a lot better, and secondly - it's an exciting thing to discuss, and tends to get both of you in the mood to try it out once you've finished suggesting it! Have you thought of trying something like that? I used to send him text messages when he was having boring days at work about what I wanted him to do when he got back in lots of detail - and after a couple of hours of sending messages to and fro, when he got back - he couldn't wait any longer! Also, interesting new lingerie never goes amiss... I bought and wore stockings and suspenders at one point as a surprise, mentioned it to him during the course of the evening while we were at a social event and he could hardly keep his hands off me on the way home, right up until the bedroom. Most important of all - is have fun with it, and make sure he enjoys it too. Last edited by Kerrian; 11-03-2009 at 08:31 PM.

11-03-2009, 07:23 PM	#2
solsticefall Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Alone in the Superunknown Gender: Male Posts: 131	Invite your girl-friend to join you? Every guy has that fantasy. But that suggestion never goes well with the ladies. lol

11-03-2009, 07:48 PM	#4
solsticefall Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Alone in the Superunknown Gender: Male Posts: 131	A friend of mine from high school had the opportunity for a threesome with him and two girls he didn't really know. He didn't last 30 seconds. All the excitement was too much to handle. The girls were displeased to say the least - they left and never called again.

11-03-2009, 07:53 PM	#6
Triplell Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Omaha Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 80	some guys like to be in control, other likes to be taken control of. I like a little bit of both. The best way to figure out his fantasy is make it part of the bedroom game. Ask him what he has always wanted to do to you. Sometimes it turns out awkward, other times it's really good.

11-03-2009, 08:02 PM	#7
Lucius Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Australia Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 454	Hmm. How to make a guy crazy horny... Y'know, I think oral sex and beer might just do it. I know, I know - you're thinking it's too SUBTLE, right? Well, that's the kind of subtlety that we men enjoy. You know - the obvious kind. Lulz.

11-03-2009, 09:13 PM	#10
zzprometheuszz Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Gender: Male Age: 26 Posts: 228	by asking this question.... you have made the world a better place angel sound god bless you...