What means i ll talk to you later??

roxana · 11-07-2009, 12:11 PM

Ok ,me and this guy we like each other a lot,but he is very busy and works a lot of different hours and he is also a single parent.
We spent this past monday night together and had break fast on tuesday and we have a great time together and we feell so good together ,i can see it in his eyes.We just started seeing each other at the end of september and known each other for a bout a month and a half,still early.
He calls me every couple or three days and we text each other in beetween a little bit.He sent me a heart e-card on my email yesterday and since i do not call him much,i called him yesterday and he answered very glad to hear my voice but he was at work talking back and fourth with cooworkers on his lunch,and told me ,Baby we ll talk later or i will talk to you later,i got to go back to my job.The thing is i like him more than he thinks but i just want it to to stay at that,meaning i do not want to seem like i m pressuring him,since i done everything for my ex boyfreind ,showered him with love and affection and he broke up with me over long distance relationship.
This guy lives here so this will not be the same situation,but what to do when he said i will talk to you later?? Wait him to call me,wait a day and just briefly text ,i do not want to be pushy,but i do like him.

PsychGirly · 11-07-2009, 12:31 PM

Personally, I'd wait for his call. You called him last, and he said he was busy & that he'd talk to you later. I wouldn't call unless some time has passed and you haven't heard from him, then that's fine, I guess.

There's really no rules in a relationship if you two like each other. As long as it's mutual and nobody's making more effort than the other, everything should be fine.

thebluest · 11-07-2009, 01:01 PM

I'd wait until he calls too, and if he doesn't call after 2 days, maybe you can reply to his e-card with one of your own.

I'm sure that sounds appropriate.

Casey13 · 11-10-2009, 12:26 PM

Go with the flow. If you want to call him then call him. He should either accept you for who you are now or not, rather than you put up a great front with all the tips you get on enonalone on how to behave only for you to come out your true self later and he doesn't approve. Do what you feel like.

slinkyminx · 11-18-2009, 04:11 AM

it means, I'll talk to you later. Doesn't matter who calls or texts. I met my awesome partner online and we were just casually seeing each other...I also did not want to push him as we were not even dating...i wanted more but the boundaries were clear from the start, and they were "nothing serious" after a couple of months he started to question why I rarely make contact with him...and that maybe we should just move on. We talked and realised we both liked each other more than what we were saying...and he took my lack of contact (because I did not want to be pushy or seem like I wanted more) as a sign that I was not interested. Once this BIG misscommunication was cleared up we moved onto something more serious...and been together ever since, we live together and looking at what the future holds for us both.

So if you like him, dont be shy to make contact, be yourself....and if he does not return the feeling...you know your wasting your time...move on to someone who will share the same feelings with you

11-07-2009, 12:11 PM	#1
roxana Offline Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 32	What means i ll talk to you later?? Ok ,me and this guy we like each other a lot,but he is very busy and works a lot of different hours and he is also a single parent. We spent this past monday night together and had break fast on tuesday and we have a great time together and we feell so good together ,i can see it in his eyes.We just started seeing each other at the end of september and known each other for a bout a month and a half,still early. He calls me every couple or three days and we text each other in beetween a little bit.He sent me a heart e-card on my email yesterday and since i do not call him much,i called him yesterday and he answered very glad to hear my voice but he was at work talking back and fourth with cooworkers on his lunch,and told me ,Baby we ll talk later or i will talk to you later,i got to go back to my job.The thing is i like him more than he thinks but i just want it to to stay at that,meaning i do not want to seem like i m pressuring him,since i done everything for my ex boyfreind ,showered him with love and affection and he broke up with me over long distance relationship. This guy lives here so this will not be the same situation,but what to do when he said i will talk to you later?? Wait him to call me,wait a day and just briefly text ,i do not want to be pushy,but i do like him.

11-07-2009, 12:31 PM	#2
PsychGirly Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: LOS ANGELES Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 2,207	Personally, I'd wait for his call. You called him last, and he said he was busy & that he'd talk to you later. I wouldn't call unless some time has passed and you haven't heard from him, then that's fine, I guess. There's really no rules in a relationship if you two like each other. As long as it's mutual and nobody's making more effort than the other, everything should be fine. __________________ "LIFE IS NOT MEASURED BY THE NUMBER OF BREATHS WE TAKE, BUT BY THE NUMBER OF MOMENTS THAT TAKE OUR BREATH AWAY."

11-07-2009, 01:01 PM	#3
thebluest Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Australia Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 189	I'd wait until he calls too, and if he doesn't call after 2 days, maybe you can reply to his e-card with one of your own. I'm sure that sounds appropriate. __________________ "People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within." - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

11-10-2009, 12:26 PM	#4
Casey13 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Somewhere beautiful Gender: Male Age: 31 Posts: 846	Go with the flow. If you want to call him then call him. He should either accept you for who you are now or not, rather than you put up a great front with all the tips you get on enonalone on how to behave only for you to come out your true self later and he doesn't approve. Do what you feel like.

11-18-2009, 04:11 AM	#5
slinkyminx Offline Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Victoria, Australia Gender: Female Age: 27 Posts: 8	it means, I'll talk to you later. Doesn't matter who calls or texts. I met my awesome partner online and we were just casually seeing each other...I also did not want to push him as we were not even dating...i wanted more but the boundaries were clear from the start, and they were "nothing serious" after a couple of months he started to question why I rarely make contact with him...and that maybe we should just move on. We talked and realised we both liked each other more than what we were saying...and he took my lack of contact (because I did not want to be pushy or seem like I wanted more) as a sign that I was not interested. Once this BIG misscommunication was cleared up we moved onto something more serious...and been together ever since, we live together and looking at what the future holds for us both. So if you like him, dont be shy to make contact, be yourself....and if he does not return the feeling...you know your wasting your time...move on to someone who will share the same feelings with you