I'm about to stab this boy in the eye..with love.

IGlareOften · 11-03-2009, 10:15 PM

so, I've started threads about this guy before. He's a confusing mofo, and I want to punch him in his eye. But, he's so cute...therefore I am writing this pointless thread to get advice.

Long story short, we exchanged numbers two months ago. We text about every other day and have seen each other twice in kind of a social gathering setting since exchanging numbers. I told him via e-mail that I liked him.(Though before he got it...we talked on the phone. I asked him if he'd checked his e-mail. he said no...i said you'll have an e-mail from me but don't open it.) So, I truly don't know if he was a typical person and read it out of curiosity or didn't read it. He still texts me all the time..and is very sweet. But, hasn't addressed the e-mail. He will text me "I hope you have a good day" once a week or so...and he'll text me out of the blue to say hey. YET...nothing happens. I'll be the first to say...I'm a biotch. I'm rude and I'm brash. I tend to say things without thinking and typically it hurts people's feelings. I've done that to him, yet he continues to be sweet and flirtacious over text. It's like C'MON already! Make a damn move...but he won't. It's like..either like me or don't. Be my FRIEND or not....but he seems to only be chill over text. The times where we're face to face he is VERY WOW. He stares at me a lot and when I talk to him he STARES at my face. So it's like..I think you like me, dude..yet..nothin. I want to grab him and shake him..and be like..."I like you. You like me. Let's make out. Sheesh"

Guys, what is that about? Logic says he's just not that into me...yet something feels amiss. Give me brutal honesty. Kthanx I'll be seeing him on Friday.and I don't want to like....blurt anything out. So, Yeah....

GO

iknowimdope · 11-03-2009, 10:31 PM

you need to let it go. if he hasn't made a move in 2 months he won't do it on friday.
and if a guy stares at your face instead of your boobs while talking then he may be gay.

Lucius · 11-03-2009, 10:32 PM

Hmm, I'll venture an opinion. He likes you, but not enough. Perhaps he's into you intellectually or emotionally, but not physically. Perhaps he enjoys your sense of humour, but doesn't like the rudeness. Whatever it is, it seems to me that while he does like you - he doesn't like you ENOUGH. Not enough to go down romantic avenue, in any case. Short of being a mind-reader, that's the best I can offer, I'm afraid. I recommend you put the 'friend' hat on this one, and move right along. This fish ain't biting.

IGlareOften · 11-03-2009, 10:34 PM

He's definitely NOT gay. That's for damn sure...BUT. Yeah, perhaps he doesn't like me enough. I will take that. Oh well. I'm kind of the type to be like..Leave me alone unless you will clarify what you want from me. It's kind of not good.

iknowimdope · 11-03-2009, 10:36 PM

you don't know if he is gay or not. some don't admit their gayness. and odds are he doesn't like you enough because he likes guys more.

doiiiieeezie · 11-03-2009, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucius

Hmm, I'll venture an opinion. He likes you, but not enough. Perhaps he's into you intellectually or emotionally, but not physically. Perhaps he enjoys your sense of humour, but doesn't like the rudeness. Whatever it is, it seems to me that while he does like you - he doesn't like you ENOUGH. Not enough to go down romantic avenue, in any case. Short of being a mind-reader, that's the best I can offer, I'm afraid. I recommend you put the 'friend' hat on this one, and move right along. This fish ain't biting.

Agreed. To add, men do like those with a little less brashness and some intrigue, and forcing someone to show what they feel about you doesn't work. Perhaps you should let it go and see that even if he wanted to be a friend to you, he may be scared to approach you with your sudden direct nature? No one connects right away... I wouldn't even put him in the friend category. I'd just move right on.

Lucius · 11-03-2009, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by iknowimdope

and if a guy stares at your face instead of your boobs while talking then he may be gay.

Uh. No. Just ... no. Many guys will look a girl in the eye while she's talking. It hardly means he's gay.

IGlareOften · 11-03-2009, 10:40 PM

Hmmf. The bit I know about him (which is a lot through our conversations) he likes....well nevermind. Yeah, he's not gay. And he could be staring at my boobs..most guys do. I've got a huge rack, but I've taken to ignoring when that happens. Mainly because it annoys me...and if I focus on a guy looking at my boobs..I tend to be rude to them. SO...it's possible.

But yeah...not gay.

Greedy Toad · 11-03-2009, 10:41 PM

Ask him out on a date. Nothing to lose.

IGlareOften · 11-03-2009, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by doiiiieeezie

Agreed. To add, men do like those with a little less brashness and some intrigue, and forcing someone to show what they feel about you doesn't work. Perhaps you should let it go and see that even if he wanted to be a friend to you, he may be scared to approach you with your sudden direct nature? No one connects right away... I wouldn't even put him in the friend category. I'd just move right on.

i've stopped contacting him altogether..mainly because the unknown pisses me off. He texts me now..and talks to ME. So, really...I'm just annoyed and want someone to give me a reason to be like..leave me alone. Even though you're cute....you annoy the piss out of me.

11-03-2009, 10:15 PM	#1
IGlareOften Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Texas Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 246	I'm about to stab this boy in the eye..with love. so, I've started threads about this guy before. He's a confusing mofo, and I want to punch him in his eye. But, he's so cute...therefore I am writing this pointless thread to get advice. Long story short, we exchanged numbers two months ago. We text about every other day and have seen each other twice in kind of a social gathering setting since exchanging numbers. I told him via e-mail that I liked him.(Though before he got it...we talked on the phone. I asked him if he'd checked his e-mail. he said no...i said you'll have an e-mail from me but don't open it.) So, I truly don't know if he was a typical person and read it out of curiosity or didn't read it. He still texts me all the time..and is very sweet. But, hasn't addressed the e-mail. He will text me "I hope you have a good day" once a week or so...and he'll text me out of the blue to say hey. YET...nothing happens. I'll be the first to say...I'm a biotch. I'm rude and I'm brash. I tend to say things without thinking and typically it hurts people's feelings. I've done that to him, yet he continues to be sweet and flirtacious over text. It's like C'MON already! Make a damn move...but he won't. It's like..either like me or don't. Be my FRIEND or not....but he seems to only be chill over text. The times where we're face to face he is VERY WOW. He stares at me a lot and when I talk to him he STARES at my face. So it's like..I think you like me, dude..yet..nothin. I want to grab him and shake him..and be like..."I like you. You like me. Let's make out. Sheesh" Guys, what is that about? Logic says he's just not that into me...yet something feels amiss. Give me brutal honesty. Kthanx I'll be seeing him on Friday.and I don't want to like....blurt anything out. So, Yeah.... GO

11-03-2009, 10:41 PM	#9
Greedy Toad Offline Gold Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Melbourne Posts: 504	Ask him out on a date. Nothing to lose. __________________ The road to hell is paved with good intentions

11-03-2009, 10:31 PM	#2
iknowimdope Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4	you need to let it go. if he hasn't made a move in 2 months he won't do it on friday. and if a guy stares at your face instead of your boobs while talking then he may be gay.

11-03-2009, 10:32 PM	#3
Lucius Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Australia Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 454	Hmm, I'll venture an opinion. He likes you, but not enough. Perhaps he's into you intellectually or emotionally, but not physically. Perhaps he enjoys your sense of humour, but doesn't like the rudeness. Whatever it is, it seems to me that while he does like you - he doesn't like you ENOUGH. Not enough to go down romantic avenue, in any case. Short of being a mind-reader, that's the best I can offer, I'm afraid. I recommend you put the 'friend' hat on this one, and move right along. This fish ain't biting.

11-03-2009, 10:34 PM	#4
IGlareOften Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Texas Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 246	He's definitely NOT gay. That's for damn sure...BUT. Yeah, perhaps he doesn't like me enough. I will take that. Oh well. I'm kind of the type to be like..Leave me alone unless you will clarify what you want from me. It's kind of not good.

11-03-2009, 10:36 PM	#5
iknowimdope Offline Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4	you don't know if he is gay or not. some don't admit their gayness. and odds are he doesn't like you enough because he likes guys more.

11-03-2009, 10:40 PM	#8
IGlareOften Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Texas Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 246	Hmmf. The bit I know about him (which is a lot through our conversations) he likes....well nevermind. Yeah, he's not gay. And he could be staring at my boobs..most guys do. I've got a huge rack, but I've taken to ignoring when that happens. Mainly because it annoys me...and if I focus on a guy looking at my boobs..I tend to be rude to them. SO...it's possible. But yeah...not gay.