Worried

4dogs · 03-09-2010, 09:12 AM

Here is the situation;
me and my gf have safe sex all the time. i would say proably once every 2-3 days, if not more often. We use a condom with spermicidal lube %1000000 percent of the time, never even for a second without! We have never had a broken one or one slip off or anything. So I guess you could say that we try and be incredibly safe.

We can't remember when she got her period last month...I know, irresponsible. We think it was the 8th, but like I said, we aren't sure. Well now it is march 9th and she still hasn't gotten it. Keep in mind, february only has 28 days. Anyway, ever since the 5th of March we have been severely worried. At first it was because we forgot that Feb has so little days so it wasn't overdue yet, but now it can be, so we have been worried like hell the past couple of days.

Her cycles used to be regular, but lately they haven't been and we have lost track (irresponsible again, I know.) Her breasts feel tender to her and she is showing some PMS signs but it is hard to tell what is PMS and what is pregnancy. We never ever have sex without a condom.

My question is, do you think she could be pregnant? We think the late period could just be caused by the insane amount of stress we have gotten into ourselves, but what is your opinion?

Cheeks18 · 03-09-2010, 09:18 AM

Stressing out can cause it to be late, thats why not worrying is the best...lol

Just go grab a pregnency test, not that expensive and all the worry will be gone....

guynextdoor · 03-09-2010, 09:18 AM

Why not just go down to the drugstore and purchase pregnancy test?

TwistOfate08 · 03-09-2010, 10:09 AM

I agree with the two above posters.

And I'll also add that, while you are being much safer than many couples, I think you should consider another, more permanent form of contraception if you have sex that often. The pill is only one option; there are a lot of ways to control her hormones that will not only regulate her periods, but also give you better protection.

Just my two cents

MandyJade · 03-11-2010, 11:39 AM

get a test, and maybe she should go on birth control is she is able to?
it will help regulate her period and prevent pregnancy.

03-09-2010, 09:12 AM	#1
4dogs Offline Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 112	Worried Here is the situation; me and my gf have safe sex all the time. i would say proably once every 2-3 days, if not more often. We use a condom with spermicidal lube %1000000 percent of the time, never even for a second without! We have never had a broken one or one slip off or anything. So I guess you could say that we try and be incredibly safe. We can't remember when she got her period last month...I know, irresponsible. We think it was the 8th, but like I said, we aren't sure. Well now it is march 9th and she still hasn't gotten it. Keep in mind, february only has 28 days. Anyway, ever since the 5th of March we have been severely worried. At first it was because we forgot that Feb has so little days so it wasn't overdue yet, but now it can be, so we have been worried like hell the past couple of days. Her cycles used to be regular, but lately they haven't been and we have lost track (irresponsible again, I know.) Her breasts feel tender to her and she is showing some PMS signs but it is hard to tell what is PMS and what is pregnancy. We never ever have sex without a condom. My question is, do you think she could be pregnant? We think the late period could just be caused by the insane amount of stress we have gotten into ourselves, but what is your opinion?

03-09-2010, 09:18 AM	#3
guynextdoor Offline Platinum Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: 5280 Gender: Male Age: 35 Posts: 1,146	Why not just go down to the drugstore and purchase pregnancy test? __________________ __________________________________________________ Independent digger- One that has her own but wants some of yours too. GND

03-09-2010, 10:09 AM	#4
TwistOfate08 Offline Gold Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: US Gender: Female Posts: 925	I agree with the two above posters. And I'll also add that, while you are being much safer than many couples, I think you should consider another, more permanent form of contraception if you have sex that often. The pill is only one option; there are a lot of ways to control her hormones that will not only regulate her periods, but also give you better protection. Just my two cents __________________ May your organs fail before your dreams fail you. -The Matches Last edited by TwistOfate08; 03-09-2010 at 10:10 AM. Reason: Grammatical error

03-11-2010, 11:39 AM	#5
MandyJade Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 135	get a test, and maybe she should go on birth control is she is able to? it will help regulate her period and prevent pregnancy. __________________ Live Your Dreams. Be the Change.

03-09-2010, 09:18 AM	#2
Cheeks18 Offline Silver Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Chicago Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 723	Stressing out can cause it to be late, thats why not worrying is the best...lol Just go grab a pregnency test, not that expensive and all the worry will be gone....