For the ladies with BoyFriends - Page 3

ElMeroMero · 01-15-2010, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by iLoveMyBabyCairo

Oh, you'd better watch it!

Yes ma'am. Sorry.

Joshb · 01-15-2010, 09:18 PM

i would not be a big fan of my gf going to movies with guys...lunch is fine, things like that. However i look at one on one opposite sex movies more of a date thing, thats just me. the few girl friends i have we talk every now and then, maybe hang out every once in awhile, lunch or happy hour, but i wouldnt go to movies unless it was with my gf.

ElMeroMero · 01-16-2010, 12:21 AM

keep in mind that this isn't an old friend that i've known for years. because going out alone with an old lady friend or guy friend is normal. this is a girl that ive recently become freinds with.

ElMeroMero · 01-17-2010, 08:24 PM

Oh yeah, and when she does speak on him. she refers to him as if he was a god!

Anymore advice guys?!

Still confused here...

Mal'akh · 01-17-2010, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by ElMeroMero

Oh yeah, and when she does speak on him. she refers to him as if he was a god!

Anymore advice guys?!

Still confused here...

What exactly do you want from her? Do you want to date her?

cazmoore · 01-17-2010, 10:30 PM

No, sorry. To ask a 'NEW' guy friend out for dinner and a movie? If you've been dating for 2+ years? I wouldn't do that when I was married, and I wouldn't do it since I've been with my boyfriend for that long of a time period. Given, I have guy friends who I see periodically and we get a drink at the local bar to catch up, but I don't make NEW GUY FRIENDS and ask them to go for dinner and/or movie. That's shizz just ain't right.

ElMeroMero · 01-18-2010, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Mal'akh

What exactly do you want from her? Do you want to date her?

Yes, that's what I want.

ElMeroMero · 01-18-2010, 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by cazmoore

No, sorry. To ask a 'NEW' guy friend out for dinner and a movie? If you've been dating for 2+ years? I wouldn't do that when I was married, and I wouldn't do it since I've been with my boyfriend for that long of a time period. Given, I have guy friends who I see periodically and we get a drink at the local bar to catch up, but I don't make NEW GUY FRIENDS and ask them to go for dinner and/or movie. That's shizz just ain't right.

Well not dinner AND a movie. Just a movie... or a cusual lunch etc... But just the two of us though.

So do you think she's just looking for some extra attention like Mal'akh said?

SunniDee · 01-18-2010, 12:32 AM

You're intentions are not very admirable. If you have any respect for this girl or her relationship at all you will not pursue her. If she pursues you, then that's on her. But you can't control her, you can only control you. Have some class man. Would you really want to get with a girl that can so easily just forgo a 2 year relationship by cheating with some guys she only knew a few months? Even if she didn't cheat and broke up with him first and then got with you, that's still emotional infidelity. If she does it with you, she'll do it again to YOU down the road.

Say you two do start dating and a few years in, she meets a new guy and starts hanging out and flirting with him in the same way? Guess what buddy boy, YOU will be in the same position her current bf is in now.

I'd back away.

ElMeroMero · 01-18-2010, 12:39 AM

I'm not plotting anything. I'm not expecting anything. I'm just being friendly and being myself. Would I like to be with her? Hell yeah, but I'm not going to go and step on anyone's toes or try anything stupid. I just happen to have a big crush on the girl. I became friendly with her and liked her before I found out she had a boy friend. I didn't know... and now I have a crush on her. I've acted with nothing but class so far, and that's the way I'll keep it because that's how I am.

She's the one asking me to hang out, not the other way around. That's why I asked if it was normal or not.

01-16-2010, 12:21 AM	#23
ElMeroMero Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: LOS ANGELES Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 34	keep in mind that this isn't an old friend that i've known for years. because going out alone with an old lady friend or guy friend is normal. this is a girl that ive recently become freinds with. __________________ ¡Viva El Salvador! Last edited by ElMeroMero; 01-16-2010 at 12:34 AM.

01-17-2010, 08:24 PM	#24
ElMeroMero Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: LOS ANGELES Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 34	Oh yeah, and when she does speak on him. she refers to him as if he was a god! Anymore advice guys?! Still confused here... __________________ ¡Viva El Salvador!

01-17-2010, 10:30 PM	#26
cazmoore Offline Silver Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Gender: Female Age: 26 Posts: 457	No, sorry. To ask a 'NEW' guy friend out for dinner and a movie? If you've been dating for 2+ years? I wouldn't do that when I was married, and I wouldn't do it since I've been with my boyfriend for that long of a time period. Given, I have guy friends who I see periodically and we get a drink at the local bar to catch up, but I don't make NEW GUY FRIENDS and ask them to go for dinner and/or movie. That's shizz just ain't right. __________________ All that I can see a gold mystic spree a seething routine I could never navigate maybe I like to stray -Interpol.

01-18-2010, 12:32 AM	#29
SunniDee Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Gender: None Specified Posts: 202	You're intentions are not very admirable. If you have any respect for this girl or her relationship at all you will not pursue her. If she pursues you, then that's on her. But you can't control her, you can only control you. Have some class man. Would you really want to get with a girl that can so easily just forgo a 2 year relationship by cheating with some guys she only knew a few months? Even if she didn't cheat and broke up with him first and then got with you, that's still emotional infidelity. If she does it with you, she'll do it again to YOU down the road. Say you two do start dating and a few years in, she meets a new guy and starts hanging out and flirting with him in the same way? Guess what buddy boy, YOU will be in the same position her current bf is in now. I'd back away. __________________ Stamp a long-term guarantee of smoking on a girl and I'd roll past her so fast she'd think she's aerodynamic. -Sparchitecht

01-18-2010, 12:39 AM	#30
ElMeroMero Offline Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: LOS ANGELES Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 34	I'm not plotting anything. I'm not expecting anything. I'm just being friendly and being myself. Would I like to be with her? Hell yeah, but I'm not going to go and step on anyone's toes or try anything stupid. I just happen to have a big crush on the girl. I became friendly with her and liked her before I found out she had a boy friend. I didn't know... and now I have a crush on her. I've acted with nothing but class so far, and that's the way I'll keep it because that's how I am. She's the one asking me to hang out, not the other way around. That's why I asked if it was normal or not. __________________ ¡Viva El Salvador!

01-15-2010, 09:18 PM	#22
Joshb Offline Bronze Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 307	i would not be a big fan of my gf going to movies with guys...lunch is fine, things like that. However i look at one on one opposite sex movies more of a date thing, thats just me. the few girl friends i have we talk every now and then, maybe hang out every once in awhile, lunch or happy hour, but i wouldnt go to movies unless it was with my gf.