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  1. The other day I was visiting my boyfriend at his friends house where he has been staying for a while now. Well it was just him and me there and someone came up to the door, I stayed inside while he went outside and whoever it was at the door sounded like a little girl, All I heard was stuff about how she came down and her sister sent her or something along those lines. Well my boyfriend appartently sent the little girl accross the way to see if my friend was home yet and I guess she wasnt cuz when the little girl came back and my boyfriend went outside i heard her yelling your dead there isnt even a girl over there named kristin (my friends name). then the little girl kept talking about something and i kept hearing my boyfriend saying shhh, and no, dont. and you have got to leave. I guess why I found this so weird was because earlier that day I had went over to see him and there was a older girl probably my age with 3 little girls (im guessing her sisters) and my boyfriend was standing on the porch and they were standing in front of the house, but when I pulled up the girls left without saying anything. Then when I left I saw them heading back up there. I find this all weird and Im wondering if I should say something to him about this.
  2. Ive been dating my current boyfriend for about 5 months now and when we got together I made him promise that he wouldnt talk to his ex anymore who cheated on him. Well they talked on myspace and he gave her his new number so I got mad about this and he stopped. Well here lately she has been messaging me talking alot of crap. Saying that he dont love me and he wants to be with her cuz he still loves her and how she went by and saw him at his brothers shop saturday and how he calls her everyday and wants to hang out. Now all this stuff bugged me alot even though I honestly think she lieing since all of his days are spent with me, and I was at the shop with him saturday and when I accused him of this stuff and I wanted to break up he took it really hard. I just find it hard to beileve that he dont love me since he's trying to get a house for us and all this. The problem is he dont do nothing about her talking crap, I dunno.. Maybe im wrong here but I think he should call her up and tell her whats up ya know. She still has some of his stuff so he says that he dont want to be rude so she wont tear it up. Then last night when we got in the fight about all of what she said and I was done he said he didnt even care about his stuff no more if it meant losing me. What would you guys think if you were in my shoes, and dont you think he should say something to her?
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    Well me and my current boyfriend usually have great sex but here lately for like the past month he hasnt been getting off when we do, I mean he does but just not everytime. He told me that it's not me but sometimes I wonder. Weve only been together for about 5 months, (known eachother alot longer). I just dont know what the problem is or how to fix it. Please help
  4. So I started dating this guy who I had gone out with for about 3 months and then we broke up over him wanting to be with someone else. Well anywaze he just now came back in my life about 4 weeks ago. We talked about what happened before and why I should give him another chance and well now were back together and have been for about 3 weeks. Anywaze our relationship is very good in my eyes, we always talk, hang out, he is always telling me and showing me how much he loves me and so on. but he does something that tickes me off and has caused us alot of problems. He talks to my sister 24/7. She is our ride everywhere plus she is trying to get with his best friend and he's trying to help her but for some reason it just irrates me. Anywaze we have been getting into fights latley where one of us is ready to break up with the other one but never do. Then yesterday he just disappeared. No calls, No anwser when I called him and the lasted intill today like 30 mins ago he called my sisters cell. She told me that he said that he just needed time to think because he's tired of all the drama and didnt know how to tell me. So anywaze she went to pick him up so they could talk. I dunno, I know I do cause alot of the fights but since me and him are together dont you think he should be talking about it with me instead of her? Should I bring that up when he comes over here or what? I dont wana fight with him but again im ticked!!! Help
  5. Well first off, I think that anyone would be alittle bit upset if you call someone your supposed to be dating and they don't call you back at all. I mean seriously I understand he's out of town and stuff but when I call him he could atleast anwser. Dunno, like I said Im not real upset about it because there could be alot of things why he's not calling. His friend (my sis's boyfriend) cant get ahold of him either so yea. The thing I meant by this post is that when I like a guy I kinda make myself seem like I dont like him at all because then if he's just using me then I wont feel like an idiot or something like that. It's hard for me to put myself out there. I dunno how to open up. He was supposed to be back in town today but still no sign of him so ive decided Im not going to call him anymore and just see what happens
  6. Well, I wrote a couple of posts on here about this current guy I am talking with. He is bisexual and at first I was uneasy about it, But then I decided who cares honestly about that, I like him and he likes me so I texted him and told him I would go out with him. Anywaze last sunday was the last day we hung out because last Monday he had to go out of town for a week. Welp he's not back yet and the only time he called me was last wenseday but I didnt anwser because I was at work. I texted him and told him that. Okay well anywaze he was supposed to be back saturday and so I called him 2 see if he was back and he didnt anwser. Everytime I call him no anwser and he never calls back. I got fed up with that and yesterday I was having a really bad day and my sister who is dating his friend kept bugging me about why he wouldnt anwser and so on so finally I just reached my breaking point and out of anger and frustration I texted him telling him that I didnt think it wasnt going to work out. Which obviously I regreted so at that point my sister texted him telling him I didnt mean it I just didnt understand why he didnt call or anwser when I called him. According to his friend (the one my sister is dating) he is going to be back in town tomorrow. Im scared he hates me know since he hasnt called but really there could be alot of explaination behind it. I feel like a total idiot for texting that retarded message to him. The thing is, here latley no relationships seem to be working out for me and my sister says it's because I play hard to get (2 hard to get to be exact). I just have a theory, tell me if it's wrong. When I met a guy who I like I always act like I dont like them that much! I dont know if its me pushing them away or what! Im always like that though. I make it clear that I dont need a guy in my life. Like this current situation. Me and my sister both met the guys that this topic is about the weekend before last. We partied all weekend together and then they asked us out. Well my sister is all about letting her guy know she is into him by calling him all the time, letting him know she wants to see him all the time and so on. Im not like that at all with my guy. I try to make myself seem busy and let him know that I have a life. I dont think theres anything wrong with being like that but then I come to my next flaw which I think theres something wrong with, see I don't say hey I like you, or even make it seem that I do like him. Im just like whatever happens happens. The way I see it we dont have history together so if he dont call one day Im not going to call him cuz hey i dont want to look pyscho. I dont allow him to know how much I like him. Maybe the fear of rejection? dont know!! Is this wrong and how can I change this and actually let him know I like him and allow him and me to have a relationship together?
  7. Ok well I posted a previous topic in this section about a guy who asked me out and he is bisexual, Im striaght. The thing is I do really like him but I want to ask him some question's before I decide mostly because Im just confused about things. So I am asking if does anyone think he would be mad if I asked him the following questions. 1. Do you prefer guys or girls? 2. How many guys have you dated? 3. How far have you went with a guy? 4. Are you 110% attracted to me? 5. Do you have any STD's? 6. If I was to go out with you would you be completely honest with me no matter what?
  8. Not only that but It's just kinda weird to me, like Ive never dated someone who is bi sexual. I dont know what to expect or like if he could ever be really commented to me because he likes guys too!
  9. Me and my sister met these guys friday night, they came up to us and asked us if we wanted to party with them, so we did. We all had a ton of fun so we all pretty much hung out all weekend! Well one of the boys I really like, He's cute, nice, funny. Well yesterday just me and him went to the park together to talk. He asked me how I felt about him and I told him I liked him, He told me he really liked me alot and was wondering if I would go out with him. I said I didnt know. Welp then we were talking and he told me that him and his friends we were hanging out with were all BI. Except one and he is straight. I was just like oh. It took me by surprise!!! Anywaze It's not like I have anything agaist bi sexual people. But Now I just feel weird. And I dont know what to do. Help!!!
  10. Hey everyone!! So over the past month Ive came to the conculsion that I really need to loose some weight and get into shape. Ive never been very skinny in my life, The smallest I was was a size 9. And it was in my party years where I mainly drank, partied, and slept! I am a size 17 right now and Im very unhappy. Everytime I attempt to go on a diet it doesnt work out. Ill always tell myself oh ill start tomorrow and dont! And I honestly dont know what to do. Sometimes when I think about it it kinda overwhlames me. I never have really went to the gym nor ate that healthy. I have tryed to get my sister and my friends who also want to loose weight to like team up together but then we all just put it off. Ive decided I really want to do this though. I guess I dont have alot of self controll though so its hard plus I have a ton of stress on my shoulders right now. It seems like I dont have time either. Maybe those are excuses im giving myself for not putting in 110% effort... Anywaze does anyone know of a routine I could put myself on? Heres the deal. I work 11:00 am till 8:00 pm mon-friday! I usually dont eat before I go to work, and ill snack all day on junk food, leave at lunch and eat out, drink pop! Then come home eat dinner and I wont go to sleep till like 2am so I eat alot. Any ideas on how to change? And then the gym looks confusing everyone makes it sound like if you dont use the right machines you dont loose weight! Someone please help
  11. Im 18 and I took a test and found out im pregant. The last time i remember having my periord was in september like during the end of the month. I feel sick alot. I dont know how far along i am. the guy i was with were no longer together. im really scared cuz i dont want a kid. I want to get an abortion. I dont even know where to start. I have no health insurance because my dad passed away not to long ago. My mom doesnt have a job (she doesnt know).. and I work part time and dont make alot. So what do I do?
  12. Me and my boyfriend are chatting online and I told him to tell me things that bug him and he said he dont know how and that he dont want to becuase he dont know how ill take it and he dont want to make me mad. Well weve been talking and he wrote this and i dont understand. this is what he wrote sometimes t bothers me when u dont act like u care but theres times i just want to sit back and think about whats goin on in my life u know what i mean i got to go slow with thing if i want them towork out in the long run
  13. Is this a good email to send him? Hey Hon.. Whats up? Naddalot here, Couldnt sleep so I thought Id email ya. I know we have been talking about things that have been on our mind well mostly mine for a few days now but there are still things that are on my mind that I have to talk about because I don't think that we have solved anything. First off, I don't have a problem with Terrah. But like wouldnt it upset you if I acted the way you act towards her to my guy friends? I mean Im your girlfriend so you should treat me like im your girl and no one else. It upsets me that here latley we havent been spending alot of time together and it's like you say it's cause you have things to do but it's always something to do with her. You act like she's way more important to you than I am. And I don't like that. I think that it's a huge deal because it's an issue that is going to be based on trust. Secondly, I still hate the fact we don't spend alot of time together. It makes me think you don't like spending time with me. You come over and stay for like an hour tops and then you leave, we don't go do things together or anything. We need stuff like that in our relationship. I need you to do things to show me you care and want to be with me. I can't show you how much I care about you or how much I want to be with you intill I feel that your happy with me and want to be with me. I know that's stupid. But I don't want to get hurt and that's my way of making sure I don't. I want us to have a good relationship where we are both really happy and that's why I just want us to talk about these problems now so we both know where we stand so we can move forward. I guess a part of me is untrusting of you because your 19 and ive always dated older guys and they were in that state of mind where they wanted a long term relationship. And I have to know that that's what you want. I want you to be sweet, caring, thoughtfull, romantic, and loving cuz thats the things im used to and not only that but it's in those ways you can show me you care. I want there to be ways I can tell im your girl besides the fact we kiss and get it on lol. but like do things to show me you care about me and show me im your girl so i can treat you like i want to. ya know like, Like this sounds really chessey and I know you'll laugh and then ill get mad and say whats so funny in my email but.. like bringing me soup if im sick, or bringing me flowers or opening my car door. Im not saying you have to buy me stuff but doing little things that show me you care and think about me will let me know how much you care. And i would then do it for you. And I want you to come see me alot more or invite me down to your house more so we can spend time together. It just upsets me that you lived there for a while and you never ask me to come over or stay the night with you. I hope after you read this that you'll start putting in the effort I want you too.. We do need to talk about this stuff face to face too but email me back anywaze.
  14. Ive been dating this guy for about a month now. We have been having problems recently because I dont feel like he is as into the relationship as I am. Like he comes over atleast once a day but he never stays long. We have talked about it before and how it upsets me that he doesnt spend alot of time with me. And he said he wants to be with me and all this and he wants to spend time with me. He moved in with his friend 2 houses down from me but see like tonight was really the first time he asked me to come down there. I dont feel as if he treats me like his girl. He has this female friend who he is always around and last night she came down to my house cuz he was here and he went up to her and put his arm around her, hugged her, and was play fighting and it upset me so I told him about it and all he said was he asked me what my problem with her was. I dunno, Part of me knows he wants to be with me but maybe I just feel that he has changed since like when we first met he was always around me and stuff like that. What should I do? We have talked about it all before and that dont seem to help, it was always emails though never in person. And sometimes I think its me cuz like i dont want to show him how much i care because i dont want him to hurt me, like i think if he thinks i dont care then he wont hurt me or something like that. What should i do
  15. Okay this guy im dating had a fight last night.. well really not a fight it was more me getting all mad at him and then when he txt'd me to try and talk about it I just txt'd back and told him to bring my cd's to my house tomorrow. I was mad so I didnt wanna talk! Anywaze this morning he sent me a txt and said whats up. i said i was going to work and he told me he would bring my cd's over after work. well so he comes over like 20 mins after i get off but i got off early. anywaze he knocks on the door and i didnt anwser it cuz i was changing. when i got done he had left so i txt'd him and asked if he was just over. no reply. I go outside and he left my cd's in my car. All day long his phone has been turned off when i call, and he hasnt came back over, called, or txt'd me or even emailed me cuz we talk online sometimes. So im just wondering what his problem is. Its like 3 in the morning and still nothing from him. its weird his phone is off cuz he's usually pretty atached to it. Whats up with him and what should i do?
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