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Jpo last won the day on July 26 2009

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  1. Much rather have a girl with experence. I don't care how many partners you've had as long as it is more than none (and you're clean). That said, if I really liked a girl I wouldn't mind.
  2. Thanks. Not really though, just the result of years of trial and error.
  3. Listen, some women just are flaky, it is part of life. I did want to comment that some of the advice given was unnecessary. Rules do not matter at all. I have gotten many girls to go on dates with me and I call them whenever I feel like or is convenient. The next day, that night, three days. I don't worry about it, if they like me, they like me, and if a silly thing like when I call hangs them up, that's their problem. Following rules is foolish, I mean, maybe you wait three days and she doesn't go with you because she thinks your not interested enough. Or maybe you call the next day and she thinks you are too interested... And on and on we go. There is no way to know, so just do what you want and leave the rest to fate (or your deity of choice). Some advice of my own: When I ask for a phone number, if she gives it to me, I typically ask when they would like me to call. 99% of women say, "whenever you want." And I respond, "well expect a call tomorrow then, I don't want to keep you up all night by the phone waiting. " When I call I try to set up a date as soon as possible, so instead of asking when they are free, I say, "let's do something this Friday, I was thinking _______." They say they are busy, I say, "Saturday then" or next available day, if again they say they are busy, I simple say, "well it was nice talking to you, I'm sorry to hear you're so busy, goodbye." Now, most women if they are interested will stop you from hanging up and say how they'd still like to see you. And then I ask them for a day. If they say a day, then I set a time and place right then (making it more "official" so there is less chance of wishy-washy mind changing). Why do I personally call the next day and set up a date asap? Well, a lot of girls, especially ones that you "pick up" rather than friends or friends of friends, are very flaky. No reason to waste days/weeks wondering if it is going anywhere. I'm direct and very pushy about hanging out soon, because if they are trying to set it far in the future increases the chance of them bailing significantly -- if they date is out more than a week the chance of them coming is almost zero. Multiple "busy" is usually a pre-sign of flaky behavior and if you get it, just drop it. (Of course it is possible at this point that they really are busy), but you did your part IMO, let them come to you. (And really, you don't even need to talk to them on the phone when you call, just do a basic greeting and then as them out.) I have a pretty high percentage of women keeping dates with this method (from my person experience). Be direct, no fluff, no game playing, give them a couple chances if they say "busy", and drop them immediately if they flake on the first few dates no matter what the reason. That will save you of time, worry, and wondering.
  4. I really like your pics (and even more so the women in them no real critiques since I'm not a photographer. And uh, are boob pics allowed?
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