Nifty_Swifty1
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If the guy is like me, then the only way to get to know him is going to be to be the first one to do the talking. There are basically 2 kinds of people, bold and shy. Whether its a guy or a girl. "old fashioned" women are just to imbarised to make the first move. To get back to the question... be brave and talk to the guy. Whats it going to hurt.
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I haven't been here in quite a while, but I'm having a bit of a problem. My wife has a tendency to drink to much on occasion, and becomes rather annoying. If I say anything about it I become the evil bad guy, if I try and cut her off I am the bad guy, and if I say nothing I just become Fed up and angry. Any advice anyone?
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sounds like the guy likes you to me. I (being a shy guy myself) use to do quite the same thing. You don't want the other person to think you are staring at them so you avoid eye contact all together. If he thought you were watching him, he most likely is entertaining thoughts of you having an interest in him hence the grin.
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you just have to remember that no one can make him get better. He has to chose to do it himself.
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having gone to school in a rule area I would say that if you aren't making friends because you are just going to move in a little bit then how is that going to change when you go somewhere else? The financial part is also huge. I didn't think it was that big of a deal when I was going to school, and now the loan payments are seriously impacting my standard of living. I wish I would have made smarter financial decisions when I was in school. Wanting to be social will make it easier to over look the financial part, but remember that you aren't going to school for the life you live now. You are going to school so you can live the life you want once you are out of school.
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having worked with people like your ex, only a little younger, has me a little worried. If he isn't going to go to a therapist I can say I see him getting any better. Him thinking that the only thing they are going to do is to drug him up isn't exactly right. They probably will medicate him because he can't control himself by himself at this point. Him being in a voluntary group probably isn't going to do him much good. He's probably going to reject the help. Even if he gets professional psychiatric help it will take a lot of time for him to become invested enough to become better at all. My suggestion would be to fine a way to get him to go to some kind of therapy and then convenes him that they really can help. The hard part is that he doesnt believe that a therapist will help him and until he believes that no one can help him.
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Ex wants me back but I am so confused.
Nifty_Swifty1 replied to Hotboy645's topic in Getting Back Together
You said that your heart is still with you ex... between that and the kid as long as you are willing to comit to the girl and not stray then I say go back to her... on the other hand if you think that you may "stray" again then keep with this new girl. You've allready put your ex through enough. -
will he ever leave his wife and children for me?
Nifty_Swifty1 replied to casey_baby's topic in Infidelity
The guy has his family and his mistress… you aren't going to be able to get him to walk away from that. He has everything he wants right now. I just can't see how anyone could see themselves with someone who has proven to be unfaithful and untrustworthy. It's just baffling to me. -
If she's married stay the hell away!!! Be friends all you like, but if you let you mind take you anywhere other than friendship you will do something you will regreat.
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Well here's the deal. Me and my g/f were fooling around a bit the other day when her fingers were getting a little close to the exit only area if you know what I mean… Well ok… she was all the way to the back door… Now it's not that I mind her exploring all she wants. I'm completely comfortable with whatever she would choose to do, but what would make a woman want go back there. The girl is obsessed with keeping her hands clean, so I was just figuring that would be the last place she would ever think of putting her hands. It's something that I wouldn't do so I really don't understand the motivation… I guess in the end all I'm looking for is a lady that could tell me why they would do the same thing of there own accord.
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Not sure if she is flirting or likes me
Nifty_Swifty1 replied to innerstrength's topic in Dating Advice
ASK HER OUT MAN!!!!! You won't know any other way. suck it up and do it! -
Not likeley. If it's only 3 days, then you should just chill for now.
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Not sure if she is flirting or likes me
Nifty_Swifty1 replied to innerstrength's topic in Dating Advice
Thats a big 10-4 good buddy. Big flashing neon signs say ask me out... I can see them from here. -
one month is kind of soon to make a future decishion on, so I say you make your decishion without considering her for now. If it really is your dream to live there, then you should by all means go. If on the other hand your dream is to have a stedy well paying job, then stay. You should always go with what your true dream is becouse that will make you happy reguardless of what you make.
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Is this proper behavior in a relationship?
Nifty_Swifty1 replied to Down-In-A-Hole's topic in Relationship Advice
I would feel a little down about those kinds of comments too. I would say something about it. It's not exactly mature behavior… I guess I don't know her age, but at 16 or something I can see it being a bit more common.
