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  1. heartbroken23
    Hi All, I am 26 (27 in June)....Is there anything wrong with dating a 19 yr old (20 in July)??? I always said I wouldn't date that young....but, there is something about this girl. The age thing is always in the back of my mind...her longest relationship has been 2 weeks, where mine has been 5 yrs. It just seems like a set up for disaster in the long run, as don't most girls hit an age where they want to be single and party?? Insight would be much appreciated! Thanks!
  2. heartbroken23
    I completley agree.....It's just makes me wonder what she is going to think of her newest ex, who lets her get away with anything and is waiting for her....I figured girls would not be attracted to that. Although, deep down it gives them security.
  3. heartbroken23
    Annie, this is exactly what she says. She is in no condition to be in a real committed relationship and that she needs to be single. It's just makes me wonder what she is going to think of her newest ex, who lets her get away with anything and is waiting for her....I figured girls would not be attracted to that. Although, deep down it gives them security.
  4. heartbroken23
    That's the thing guys...she is confused. She doesn't know what to do. She doesn't want to let him go or her ex go. She has said beofre she wish she had a crystal ball so she would know her future.
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    ThatGirl....the thing is, she is confused. Her ex and Him...She doesn't want to lose a "good guy" as an option for the future. I thin kthat is the way most girls think.
  6. heartbroken23
    Annie, She was with the kid for 2 yrs before they broke up. He said instead of breaking up, that she could see other people and date other people, and that he would not. He would wait for her. This is not a guy that she just started seeing.
  7. heartbroken23
    That's what I figured...but according to girl "he is soooo in love with me, more so than I am with him".
  8. heartbroken23
    Let me first start by saying, This is not me...it is regarding a friend of mine. Lets say that a girl and a guy have been together for about 2 yrs, and the girl finally starts to think that the guy she has been dating is a rebound (although she does love him and care for him), but realizes that she maybe got into the relationship too quickly. She cheats in him while on vaca in Mexico....She thinks about her ex alot and recently has sex with her ex. She becomes very confused with what she wants and knows that she needs to be single... Well, the rebound guy knows about the mexico cheating, but still decides that he wants to be with her. That she is the one. That she can have her break to be single and that he'll be right there waiting for her. He even still says he is in a relationship, while she is single doing her thing. He does not date, she does. He knows she is the one so thereforeeee see's no need to date or have fun with other people. MEanwhile, the girl says that she can do whatever she wants because he lets her...but she feels bad at the same rate. The guy does not however, know about her sleeping with her ex. Do girls have any respect for a guy like this....a guy that sits around and waits, and professes his love for a girl, when she is out doing her thing. A guy that still says and tells people he is in a relationship, when she says she is single? He obviously has no respect for himself if he does that right?
  9. heartbroken23
    Cool...got it. Thanks Chai!
  10. heartbroken23
    Chai, I just didn't want to come accross as me having sex with her, and then ignoring her...I know she is obviously confused and vulnerable, so i just wanted to make sure she knew i didn't just see it as "mission accomplished...see you later"...even though that is not the case, but you know how girls can think
  11. heartbroken23
    For background see the link.... SO texted my ex last nite to say that I had a special time with her on Fri. She wrote back that she doesn't think that she will ever stop loving me...that she is a mess righ tnow and never thought she would be going through the phase she is going through....and that she had a special time too.....how do I interpret this and what do i do or not do?
  12. heartbroken23
    SO texted my ex last nite to say that I had a special time with her on Fri. She wrote back that she doesn't think that she will ever stop loving me...that she is a mess righ tnow and never thought she would be going through the phase she is going through....and that she had a special time too.....how do I interpret this?
  13. heartbroken23
    haha, however long it takes....preferably 6months to a yr? I just need to be cautious of how to approach things now due to our recent "event" the other nite. I will prob keep in touch every once in a while, I just don't want to do the wrong thing.
  14. heartbroken23
    I hear you, but we did that alllready..2 yrs ago...right?
  15. heartbroken23
    Yes I am pretty sure I would like to give it another shot and I know she feels the same...she once said things would probably be really good because we have matured and grown without each other. I learned alot in the past 2 yrs and have grown up alot. I never stopped loving her and I know in my heart that we will be together again at some point. We broke up because we were both each others first relationship...together for 5 yrs. Towards the end of our relationship we would argue of stupid things, she hurt me by breaking up to date acrush, I hurt her by hooking up while on a break....we were basically hitting a point were we needed to be apart I guess.
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