SaraNala

Today is officially day 1 for me! Wish me lots and lots of luck! I love this forum and I wish you all the best as well!! Today qualifying as 02/25/09

Okay, this is my first post here, I couldn't help seeing your story and then the follow up. I'm not talking down to you when I say this, so please, hear me out. MY BOYFRIEND (who broke up with me on Saturday for the 5th time or so in 8 years!) was just like yours. Except he doesn't have many friends just drinking buds. But, girl you need to forget about this guy and seriously take the no contact challenge. I'm 25 and I can remember 4 years ago with the same boyfriend that just broke up with me...he had time and money for everything else except me. Any and all excuses were made for him to belittle or drag out an argument and I actually thought everything was my fault. Don't blame yourself for his failures or stupidity. Don't let yourself think for one second that you don't deserve better! You do!! I know you're not looking for advice like this right now seeing as it's pretty early in the game and you still have contact with him, but please be aware that this will only get worse if you let him treat you the way he is. You just have to cut off and really let him miss you and know what it's like for him not to be with you, see you, and have fun with you. Good luck with everything!