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  1. I really really liked this. I can relate to your feelings a lot at the moment.
  2. This was excellent....and it sounded like a predicament that I know all too well
  3. Yeah I have liked a lot of girls but this was the first who truly had my heart, as you can tell!
  4. Not used to this but here is my attempt at poetry.... Was it all in vain? The rush of happiness and joy? Yet sometimes unnerving and sickly pain, Being treated like an old and worn toy? She claimed I was one to adore, So was she just being nice? Or were those feelings from the core, Of an heart stained by sin and vice? Remember the times when, I would listen to your hopes and dreams, So why the confusion then? It was always a little more than it seems. "I am falling for you", She would say, I'm falling for you too, I replay that everyday. The closer I got, You pushed me away, Let love in... thou shall not, What else can you say? But you said I wasn't a man, And with that I have to leave, For I have to prove I can, Do you really think I'm that naive? You treated me like dirt, Because you thought you could, To be hurt is to inflict more hurt, Or so you think you should. A man will stand for what is right, Even when he has it all to lose, But this was out of your narrow sight, And this you decided to choose. So now it is time to say goodbye, To dust myself off and be clean, Without you I can't deny, That I can be the best "me" I have ever seen.
  5. I have to say I disagree with that. I actually think that the emotionally unstable types (either male or female) like the nicer types (again, male AND female, not being gender specific) because they like the attention, the feeling of being special and important. Some know a nicer type is not likely to lash out as much and put them into check, so instead, they can get away with manipulation or emotions and so forth. They wouldn't get away with that because a "bad boy" wouldn't tolerate it. The problem with nice people is that they care, and will tolerate it. Some only to an extent (that's me and I admit, I have dated a fair share of girls who turned out to be wrong for me). For me, that's the control issue. To be abusive, rude, unwilling to shift baggage or change, then constantly question your partner's commitment if they want to leave or suck up to them until they're sweet again. I would say that's a control problem. Unfortunately the nicer types need to strike a balance between their altruistic nature and what they perceive to be enough. As for me personally - I don't seek that type of girl but they do find me somehow. I tend to see the best in people so perhaps that's why it happens.
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