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  1. I remember feeling like that once, but now it's over and i've become shallow..lol... very well said musicguy, keep up the good writing.
  2. ok, everyone who can read between the lines, can relate.
  3. very well written. I'm sure everyone who has visited this page can relate.
  4. Hi chickidee, I really enjoyed your poem, it actually reminds me of how I used to be a few years ago, not trusting the people I hung around and reluctant to open up and show people, especailly woman how I really felt. Afraid of getting hurt. Great stuff, keep it up.
  5. very well written, I like the title, I think we've all been there at one point or another, I always say "it's better to be a one man army" great poem
  6. quite honestly i don't trust anyone, i do trust my girlfriend to a certain extent, but lets face it, people are easily tempted by others, no matter what, there will always be someone out there better than you in a one degree or another, the person your with will just have to respect the relationship no matter what. Its difficult enough trusting anyone period, let alone trusting the person your in a relationship with after being cheated on in the past, or how about this one, have you ever been in a relationship with a person who you know has cheated on their partners in the past, if so you'd know that it's almost impossible to fully trust them, one way or another, they'll give into temptation, i don't care if your married to that person with five kids, i've seen it happen, i can't help but believe my girl will or possibly already has cheated on me, and if you believe you can trust your partner, than all i can say is that they've done a great job lieing to you.
  7. don't mean to be on the negative side but....well actually i do mean negative, my opinion on true love is that there is no TRUE love. I've experienced what some would call a modern day romeo and juliet relationship, everything was perfect, and at most times, still is, but i've noticed no matter how perfect a relationship is, a woman...alright i'll be fair...and a man, can easily be taken in by another person, so this so called "perfect" relationship or TRUE love turns out to be BS, why is it that love is so easily manipulated. I was once a believer in true love because i experienced it, but lately i'm starting to realize something, is it ever enough? the perfect amount of love, high source of physical attraction from both ends, as well as emotional satisfaction, it all sounds too good to be true does'nt it, it's not, because it is very real, but like i said, it does'nt seem to be enough. what do you think about TRUE love, do you believe in it? what are you experiences and opinions about it?
  8. It's quite interesting you bring up this topic, just last night i was forced to leave my first love, the situation is so complicated it hurts like hell and every part of me has lost it's strenght to continue. I most certainly wish i had'nt lost my first love, i still love her and would give anything to have that love back in my arms, i'd give it all away to spend just one last night together, this is for everyone in love, stay there, you won't regret it until you lose it, so keep that person while you can.
  9. It's the typical stereotype that all guys are out for one thing, which of course is not true, although for a woman to believe that, a guy would defenitly have to prove other wise, i say sex is'nt important until their is an equalibrium of love between a couple, it takes two, if your both in love, then making love, hense sex would be a way to step up the relationship, but if the guy is preasuring for sex, then this is what happens.. . So just run with it, do new things together, have those important one on ones, find out about the person, earn their trust, and vise versa, take it slow and easy, with time will come your answer, don't jump to conclusions, they lead to doubts and lingering doubts can ruin a relationship, so just run with it, see where it takes you, because no matter what, you'll never know the truth unless you experience it, don't throw it away because your uncertain, you could be throwing away something valuable such as true love.
  10. the best RPG without a doubt has to be FINAL FANTASY SEVEN, i've beaten it seven times, and each time spent well over 100 hours. Personally, i hate RPG's, they're time consuming and the whole battle system is something i could never enjoy until i played ff7, PROS would defenitily have to be creativity, they're ability to bring you into another world where fantasy is reality, it's incredible. CONS would have to be time consumption, i can only wonder what i could've accomplished with the amount of hours spent playing that game, although i don't regret it. I think we play these kinds of games to escape from reality, the fantasy of being a god, or going on an adventure with your team and fighting of creatures and saving the planet from some source of evil has been everyones fantasy at one point in their life. Reality is depressing, stressful and down right boring, these games allow us to escape that and open up our wild imagination. imagination wins over knowledge.
  11. i believe love is a trick nature plays to get us to reproduce, i believe god was created to keep us sane, so we think theres a happy little life after this miserable one. i believe all woman will give into temptation and cheat on their boyfriends which they share a great deal of love with. i believe you can trust no one, your true friends will be there for you as long as you don't serpass them, if you move up in life while they stay in the same position, they will get jealous and no longer be trustworthy. i believe i look at things to damn negatively..lol..it's pretty bad but i can't seem to help it...sorry if i brought anyones spirit down....actually no i'm not.
  12. hey soldier, true love is almost impossible to come by, this you obviously know. But if theres one thing i've learned, to truly love someone, you have to be able to have the greatest time with one another without doing anything except hold, kiss and talk, try it, go for a walk at night when no ones around, take him to a nice place, sit and enjoy the view as well as eachothers company, if at any point in the night he says something like "this is boring lets go" then your question will pretty much be answered, but if not, you'll show much more love and affection than ever. Lingering doubts are the worst, i hated them, it drives me crazy, you'll jump to the worst conclusions and have them stuck in your head, but if the person is right for you, you'll learn that doubts are simply phases which can easily be conqoured. So switch up the situation, instead of taking him out or going somewhere fancy or wild, just spend nights alone together, and don't just do it for a day, keep it up for a couple of weeks, then see how he reacts to that situation, you'll defenitly notice a change in him, it's just depends on wheather he changes for better or worse. hope this helps, it's an opinion from my experience, and you know my situation, so good luck....well, you don't need luck, pm me we shall talk some more
  13. we have had serious descusions about this whole thing, several times in fact and all in all, these conversations were very reasuring i can tell you that much, why do you think i've stayed this long. and i could'nt expect her to leave her boyfriend of three years after her knowing me for only three months, then i would'nt have even bothered, in in terms of trust, well lets be honest, who can you trust these days, theres always problems in relationships, and theres always temptations, when these two meet at the exact same time, theres a good possibility that a person such as this girl would go for it. Love is a gamble everyone takes, you just have to decide wheather or not the other person is bluffing, if delt a good hand then go for it, if your instincts say different then it's completely up to you. the only problem is waiting, i have to give her more time, and more reasurance, hense love. But i still can't figure out if i should "call the bluff sorta speak", i want this to work out , i really mean that. and the boyfriend is suspicous, regardless of what she says, you'd have to be simply stupid to not figure it out, we talk on the phone every day, he knows we meet up, i'm the only person she's brought into her life in the past while, i talk to her everyday yet i don't talk to him, that should tell him something.
  14. you have no idea how much this is driving me crazy, but when we're together it feels amazing, yet for the obvious reasons which you pointed out is what makes me wanna call it off, but if i hang in there a little longer i can find out for sure wheather or not this is for real. apparently her relationship with her boyfriend has'nt been going well for a while and she's come to the conclusion that she can't see herself ending up with him in the future, so here i come outta nowhere, i catch her eye, we have the same sh*t in common, i want her, apparently she wants me, you know, the whole song and dance. But what i don't and could'nt understand is the things shes said, it was'nt something like "hey i think your cute" or "i like you", it's a little more serious than that, shes saying things like "i'm falling in love with you", "when i'm with my boyfriend, i feel i'd rather be with you", "i want a long term relationship with you", i know this situation is simply stupid, but i could'nt imagine a person saying these things without meaning a word of it, not saying there are'nt people out there that do it, but i'm not blind, i see whats in front of me, and i have to admit, when i hear these things come out of her mouth, i believe her, or maybe she's the greatest liar on the planet. what do ya think, if you need anymore info, just ask.
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