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  1. has she been trying to contact you at all? Was she friends with your sister?
  2. Ummm try using KY or some lubricant! It's a lot easier that way. It's a psychological and nervous reaction... anyway, try to lubricate it's easier!
  3. I don't know if you can get out of it... I think the main thing is to keep the head up high... and not to give up! Something always comes up, and remember you have to kiss a few frogs along the way until you find the right one! All the best!
  4. Sorry i am on the run out the door, but just wanted to tell you a quote: "LOVE IS LIKE GLASS YOU MUST TREAT IT WITH CARE, FOR ONCE IT IS BROKEN IT"S HARD TO REPAIR" Girl, get out of there! I had a bf for 3.5 years who kept in contact with ex gfs and with his friends that were girls. he'd cosntantly bring up my guy friends like theres no tomorrow, until i ditched all of my friends for him. We lived together, then the problems started cause he never ditched any of his "friends" for me. He cheated, came back he cheated came back! Girl get out of there! You don't need a ride, and that's what's gonna happen. You let him get away with it once, he will carry on with it. It's just the type of guy! And one more thing, I have broken up with him over a year ago, and now he calls me up beggining me to come back every single week! Seriously, and I know he has a gf! You dont' want this Crap! GET OUT! Sorry doll, i got to run, if you want pM me!
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    Yes it is! what's more ironic, is that there are more females than there are males, and yet more males are homosexual than females!
  6. hey there, I am really sorry to hear about what has happened. Listen, just calm down, maybe try going for a walk or try to sleep, try to distract yourself from just sitting and smoking, as that can really get to anyone. I think that the girl will sooner or later realize what and who she is missing out for some dumb *beep* at her job, but then it will be up to you if she comes back to you to take her back or not. She is going to sit on two chairs, and 3 years is not 3 weeks. How old is she? If she is your age, then that means that you guys have been together since you were both 17, well, maybe she wants to experiment! I say, try to settle down, and distract yourself with doing some random activity, and seriously think twice before taking her back!!! Cause if you let someone get away with something once, they will repeat it more than likely 98%! Take Care
  7. Hey I am sorry to hear about what has happened!!! Instead of "begging" maybe try listening to her and letting her talk it through, and get things "off her chest". Ask for a chance just to talk, fly to NY and just talk about it LISTEN AND HEAR her! Women love to talk, but men listen and don't hear All the best
  8. I hope that my idiot of an ex boyfriend sees this the same way as you do! All the best
  9. Hey there, I realise that you must feel totally guilty about cheating, I know I did! But after a few days I realised that if I managed to cheat on someone without them giving me a reason why... well then I am not really into that person and it's an illusion... or the scare of being by yourself?!??!?!?!!! Anyway, I think that you shouldn't see your current bf or the guy that you slept with for a little bit and clear your head! I know when I met a guy I was really into, cheating on him whether I was on E or drunk was not an option it didn't even cross my mind. If you wanna chat PM me All the best!
  10. When I was reading your article, seriously I thought I was reading my own from a few years ago. Trust me with these type of guys "Keep it mean and keep them keen" attitude works! But seriously, when I left my abusive, cheating and lying boyfriend. He kept crawling back, and it came to the point that I had to switch my phone number! And a year later he keeps calling and keeps beggining but after seeing him outside of the relationship and the "poor excuse of a human being" that he is.... I'd never take him back. Girl, I don't know you but you deserve better. If you want to talk feel free to PM me! And remember There was live before him and there will be live after him!
  11. Hi Iliena, Could you ellaborate on what he has been saying to you? When you told him that you could never love him, what happened? What did he say? And I think that you have to ask yourself, why you said that to him. Cheers Finz
  12. Hi there jd21, Girl take care of yourself! Yeah it's normal to have feelings...... it's normal to not want to hang out as it is NORMAL TO HURT! Maybe what you are feeling is truly what you have put away. You have to face these emotions, CRY THEM OUT, TALK THEM OUT but you cant just keep yourself busy trying to push and push and push them towards the bottom of your stomach. I tried that and it didnt work. Concentrate on all of the good things in your life. You are only home for the summer. Talk more to your current boyfriend. Spend time by yourself. Your ex does not exist in your current life. What you guys had it's gone, it's nothng but a memory. Dont chase a fantasy, dont chase a memory. Work out, go to the beach have a coffee sit and write. But spill what you are keeping deep down. If you want to chat PM me! Hope this helped!
  13. Darling, dont rush these things. Try to talk to him. Dont put him in a corner by saying "COMMIT TO ME RIGHT NOW" but do say what's on your mind in simple terms. Communication is the answer to a long and fulfilling relationship!
  14. If I was in your shoes, I wouldnt tell him. Look, you have broken up with the ex for a reason! You know why, (nobody else needs to know) You dont have to worry about the ex, he will get over it no matter how bad that sounds..... well obviously there is a reason why you left him, and why you have a new man. You say that your new guy is perfect for you. Dont tell him. There is no need. If he ever finds out, then tell him, that it didnt touch you that your ex came over, and you didnt want to cause problems and trust issues in your new relationship. Just remind yourselfs of: a) why you broke up with the other guy and b) why you opened your post with your current partner being perfect for you. All the best
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