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  1. okay, so i have done alot of research on this in the past... and i found that most ppl who are homophobic, use religion to justify their beliefs. this in my opinion is bull ! I agree with most of what the other ppl said, its usally because they have insecurties about themselves.... no big supprise. and as far as why they care about what other ppl do, that comes from the ratical right kind of ppl. the christians that live by the bible and nothing else (one again insecurity) not that that is wrong, but anyone that really payed attention to the bible, and really the whole christian religion, gets that that it all focuses on the individual. the 10 comandments. the 7 deadly sins. they are all about the individual. so im ranting, but basicaly, they are just insecure idiots!!! lol that was all over the map... i hope it makes sense.... its kinda late
  2. if i were you i would tell him that as long as hes going out with you, no 'jo buddy'! thats just werid! as far as worrying, the only thing that worrys me about this situation is you reading his emails.... thats sooo bad. if he found out, it could be over. so would stop doing that, and just trust him. if you find out he did go out and find a 'jo buddy' behind ur back, dump his ass, otherwise, just chill, and ride this one out.... im sure it will be fine
  3. okay, so im gay, and personaly, if anyone (gay, str8, guy, girl, whatever) checks me out, im fine with it, i take it as a compliment. now if the person doesnt get a clue (like a str8 girl, or a gay one???) and starts hiting on me, i dont like that, and it makes me feel really uncomfy. most of my heterosexual friends are the same way with gays.... dont mind them checking them out, just not flirting with them.... but those are just my friends....
  4. Well the first thing i have to say is to not care what others think, because when you start to care what others think you start to lie to yourself, and it only makes situations worse. I personaly am gay and i have no idea what it is like to be bi but im guessing it can be a little confusing, but my best advice is to just chill out and let your feeling take you where ever they will. You seem like you are pretty happy with your girlfriend, so for right now dont worrie about it, just go with the flow if you know what i mean......well thats all i can tell you, good luck, i know its hard ~Alex
  5. Oh wow i havent been to this site for so long! well i re-read this and i thought i should tell you all that this guy turned into a total ass hole and bacicaly blew me off after leading me on. but its cool, you know, i only relly really liked him........oh well, im good.....well thats the update. so this dosnet need responses anymore
  6. hiya everyone, i have a little bit of a problem that i cant fugure out. There is this guy that i really like and im almost positive he likes me to, but see he has a bf, but from what i understand his bf treats him like shit, yet this guy i like seems to like him a lot....but he still hits on me.... im so confused and i think that if i really wanted to try i could get this guy but im not sure thats the right thing to do... i really like him and i really want to get to know him better but his (10years older) ugly fat bf is in the way.... so i guess im asking if it would be wrong to go after him or if i should back down and wait and see what happens.... whatever advice you have to offer is great, thanks Alex
  7. heres the deal- at the beginning of this school year i came out, it was a big chang for me but i soon relized that im not alone. I have discoverd that there are several gay ppl in my school....yay.....anyways, i get asked out a lot. i guess im just a good looking person or something because complete strangers ask me out and dont get me wrong, im flaterd but some of them are quite to my standards per-say, so heres my question, whats a really nice way to turn down a guy without crushing his feelings.......just some basic advice plez. Alex
  8. hey everyone....its been awhile sense i posted this and a lot has happened! I just started high school about 2 months ago and when i did i also came out. not only to my peers but to my mom as well. No one, thank god!, cares and so far only one person has given my problems and hes a social reject so who cares....lol im generaly a nice person......anyways, i have had a lot of time now to think aobut what i am and i still think im gay....i know i am.....i do not have a bf, i have desided not to have one, but i do have many gay friends now, that are really cool. The school i go to has been very accepting and i have grown a lot there already. Contrary to what some of you might think, i honestly dont think that i chose to be gay. I also dont think that there are to many gay ppl in this contry, i think that was very low of you to say that. i think if anything this contry is becomeing more accepting and that is why more gay ppl are comeing out and that also explains why there wernt as many gay ppl "say 40 years ago" its not that they werent there they just were in the closet. i happen to know that there were many gay ppl in the past, homosexuality only became a problem when the king said it was........mabey you should get some facts to back up your suposed facts...........i dont mean to rain on your parade. Alex
  9. i really got things stired up in here! sorry.... Thank you all for the advice..although i may not agree with all of it. Some of you question if im actually gay or not, to me it sounds like your more interested in how i figured out im gay..so here it goes. For awihle i didnt know what i was and i really didnt care. i figured i would just wait and see, that way i could focus on more important things in my life. ( school mostly) then thats when it happened. i meet a guy, that was gay and he was a perfectly normal person. He was a bit older than me and i never told him how i felt. this is when i new for sure, because this is when i could first see myself in a relatiionship with a guy that wasnt just about sex. i relized that even though i was gay i could live a normal life. thats how i new and over the past year i have come to accept myself, i am fine with who and what i am. im sorrry if you dont believe me but thats the truth. From then on i have slowly torn down my closet. some ppl know some ppl dont. i am very picky about who i choose to tell, and for the most part i have made good desitons. thank you all for the advice and puting up with my icreadible boreing story....thanks Alex P.S. still cant spell sorry
  10. Hello...my name is alex and im 14. i have known for awihle now that i am gay and i am looking for another gay teen like me to be friends with or more...but heres the question..how do you know if a guys gay? You can guess but i dont know what to look for...some help plez....how do you know? Thank you Alex P.S. sorry i can spell
  11. i wrote "now that im comparing" i ment to say, NOT that im comp... Sorry bout that
  12. Although i dont agree with some of your guyses comments i do thank you very much for responding. like i brifly said befor i have been thinking about this for awihil now and i honestly think that i am mature enoff to make that deciction..... what that will be is the problem i am almost completely sure that im gay. there is a little dout but now much. i have always been one to feel a little out of place around groups of strait guys and i tend to gat along beter with girls.. just who i am now that im comparing myself to the stryotypical gay man! over all i thank you so much for your comments and if you have anymore please do tell. thank you Alex
  13. okay heres the deal, im 14 years old and i know im gay. been thinking it on and off for the past 2-3 years but im sure now. and my question is should i tell my parents and my familly. my parents got divorsed and then remaried to diffrent people and those people have step parents so i have a very large family all of which are very supportive of me and love me very much. no one in my familly is homophobic or anything so no one would make fun of me or anything but i just dont know. i have almost told my mom a few times but have always backed down. sometimes i feel like im ready to tell and sometimes i dont. i think to some extent my parents already knows but they have never said anything. one thing that im afrade of is my dad. but not in the way you would think. see hes a theripist and he tends to analyze everything i say or do. he will set me down and talk to me for houres i know it!! well please get back to me thanx
  14. you have it made!!!!!!!!! your in a relationship with a guy that is so in to you and your worried about getting a little seriouse> your crazy now dont get me wrong this is a hard thing but you need to love him till he gives you a reason not to! so just let the river of love flow it sounds to me like you really like him. hope you have fun and it works out!!
  15. i think hes gay! and if i were you i would talk to him, watch his body language, make sure hes cofortable. Make sure he knows ke can trust you.im 14 and i know im gay and when i was figguring it out i had a really good friend that was thre for me and that made it so much eiser. so for now (he he he) just be his friend he need one! hope it works out for you!and him!
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