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  1. sorry for your pain friend. you, though, are doing what everyone does and what noone should do. you are looking internally to see how someone else can behave in a certain way and you wont find any answers there. this girl sounds very bad. some people would describe her as troubled or whatever but i would use the words you bleeped out. you are not old man. you obviously have something on the ball, grab all your pride together and bail. cut it off, no going back, stiffen up, get cold, its not my biz and i am sorry to make that kind of recommendation but god man go grab your life somebody is gonna worship you and you will find her and you will deserve her and she will deserve you. life is short dude
  2. i agree with the last guy except i dont really have the info on this guy to figure him out. at 30 i was probably pretty messed up and confused just like at 21. children make a man grow up i think. mine forced me into adulthood. dont think just because hes 30 he has it together.
  3. you want to justify cheating on your husband but it cant be justified. if you want to cheat, cheat, if you want to leave, leave. karma is a mother and it will come back to you, do unto others and all that. its real.
  4. i lived this way with my wife also for many years. for me there were old and unresolved issues that ate at me. issues with her. we are now in counseling but the fact that i could say those things tells her and me that what i said i meant. which i did. probably you do too. you dont say these things for no reason. you say them to drive her away, because you are afraid she doesnt love you. so why do you think that?
  5. at first glance to me it looks as though your relationship "will never be as special as it was". but i am jaded so who knows. people change and mostly they suck but you have to deal the way you need to.
  6. your girl is really messed up. alot of times people look internally to see why someone else is so messed up and what they themselves can do to change the other person. its a waste of what little time we all have. i would be done done done.
  7. rn9470 is totaly correct, women today play and play. its like the 1950s backwards. the women ho and men cry. get real. you have to play. you have to lie. let everything that comes out your mouth be part of the plan. and for the record real men hate slutty women. we want to do them and give them something they wont even tell their other trampy friends about but thats it. there are no nice girls nowhere period so dont be so freaking nice to any of them you are wasting your time.
  8. if yuo start too fast you will pull something and then youre done for a long time. spend your extra time stretching, doing besides you need some type of defined muscle structure to grow into with the heavy weight and doing the light weights will get that for you. your trainer is doing his job.
  9. its all too much for me man, i would not be able to take it in the short term or deal with it in the long term. you are still young and you can still break without a lot of baggage. i miss those days. when something is good or right i gotta believe it kinda always is or so i thought and these things dont come up definitely not so soon. but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do. good luck.
  10. hero 99 is totally right on this, you have to break from it. go do something, go out of town, whatever. dont be a schmuck, you'll feel silly later and she will have won, keep your self respect man.
  11. sorry bud sounds kind of rough. i was there at one time. you keep wondering why and what could you have done and did she just fake all that stuff you felt from her when you were together. so the reason is man probably because she is young and dumb and you are probably young and probably shes a doll and you fall real quickly and people i guess fall at different speeds. i think you should stop the chit chat and ask her out... be REAL COOL, dont get into it, dont be weak and cry or whatever. she aint yours you know and maybe youre screwed because she likes this other guy but if you like her...your gonna have to stick your neck out and go for it. almost this exact thing, and i mean this exact thing happened to me a long time ago and this is why i even read this board cuz i know how people feel in this type of situation and i wanna help. i ended up marrying the girl so i can tell you anything is possible...good luck
  12. man you can tell anyone you want to tell anything you wany whenever you want. you probably should move craftily through things and keep your head on straight, its too easy to lose control. measure twice and cut once. good luck, sorry
  13. copy and paste your post into ms word, print it and read it to him
  14. yeah, this is the standard a + b thought pattern i have all the time, but how can i reallllllly believe she has been faithful since then, ive seen a couple things i didnt like, she wasnt any kind of "good girl" i guess when i met her or so i know now. still there is this internal "i hate her", sure cuz she screwed someone, i have an ego too, but lying for nine years years years, man come on
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