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  1. I suggest you continue with the closure aspect. Be careful and tread carefully.
  2. Do not make the mistake I did. This is a huge character flaw on her part.
  3. Tea you are afraid of guys with muscles. huh, yours post is oh so strange.
  4. No you shouldnt believe. This type of people will use you to fill a void within them. She is most likely lonely, and wants to see if she can pull your strings.
  5. Same thing happened to me. Same time frame also. If you can work past this, all the better. Personally, I was unable to. It was a slap in the face. Oh teh technicalities (sp?). I was able to reflect on the situation. She broke up with you , most likely to see how greener the grass was. She slept with someone else, a month and a half later ( says a lot about her character considering she says she is stil in love with you) then realizes the grass isnt as green. I couldnt get over this. My ex ended up breaking uip with me AGAIN, and did the same crap. I couldnt work past it, and I dont know many that can.
  6. Day walker hit it on the head. You are opening a can of worms. To be honest, I can not see anything good coming out of this. He is old enough to be your father, and in a freudian way, I feel you may look at him more as a father figure.
  7. Ditto what everyone else said. Fall off the face of the earth. The moment you realize you do NOT need her, is the moment you heal. Only until you are over them, will they come back.
  8. Welcome to the boards. This is a difficult situation for anyone to deal with. The lack of sex, is a huge red flag. Have you suggested couples therapy. If you truly believe in this girl, this is your only option; considering she wont open up to you. My guess, and it may be blunt, but she may be too afraid to break things off with the two of you. 5 years is a long time to be together, she may know in her mind things are over with you, but she does not have the courage to end it. You really need to have her open up. The steadfast emotional limbo will slowly kill you. Hang in there man. If she does not open up, or agree to seek therapy, I would suggest you move on.
  9. Matt you sound like you have a head on your shoulders. I commend you for seeking help within your school, that is great and will help you through the difficult times. You sensed problems within the relationship, and you knew when to say goodbye; which is a mature and very commenable act. Be strong. The line you wrote, about being able to live without her, that is the first step to healing. Be strong, and come here when you need help or even to vent.
  10. Well there is your problem. Do what your heart tells you, not your friends. Jumping into dating to make yourself move on, do you honestly tjhink that is the solution?
  11. I am a hesistant to have the "talk" I do not want to scare her away, but I can understand where you are coming from BABY. BEEC you got it man. I give, make her feel special, then pull away a little bit. Once she is fully in love with me, which is a huge maybe because you never know, then I can truly open up to her. Ill just be real pissed if she is still hung up on her ex. But its a double edged sword, if I want to find out, then that in turns shows her I want something more committed.
  12. I have been so-called "seeing" a past high school sweetheart for about a month and a half now. We have been spending time together, going out to dinner, watching movies during the week, attending baseball games, and of course we have been doing the deed on a regular basis. I feel no pressure in regards to asking what we are, i.e boyfriend/girlfriend, fwb's. But I am kinda perplexed as to what she may be thinking. As a side note, neither of us have brought this up. Will she start to freak out or even become resentful if I do not ask what type of relationship we are sharing? Should I keep my mouth shut and wait? I have been out of the game for a while, any advice is welcome. ALSO: The only thing that is bothering me is this. I will occasionally sign on to IM. Many times she has her away message up. Today I was checking it and it said "MISS U "Getting the feeling that things might finally go my way....soon enough...." "Because saying i love you has nothing to do with meaning it...and meaning i love you has nothing to do with saying it." Now, since I am starting to develop feelings for this girl, I am a bit hesitant because I don't think the MISS YOU and love quote are directed towards me. I know it would be a bad idea to IM her saying "miss you"??, but I dont want to fall for her if she is still hung up on her ex. The last thing I want is to fall for this girl if she still has feelings for an ex. I remember when I first started seeing her, I asked her if she was still talking to her ex, and she said yeah kinda. Any ideas here?
  13. Oh this should be a huge NO GO. Especially considering you OWN the company and there are only 4 employees.
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