I met a guy online who responded to my ad. We talked for a couple of weeks. Poetry, so much in common, a real connection. We had a first date which was better then I could have hoped for. Totally into the guy and yes we did have sex after the movie.. (no its a no no but we are both 38 with kids and divorced and it seemed so right with him). He wrote back and said he loved the date too especially just talking to me. We IM'd back and forth then nothing for a couple of days then he sent a message saying he was sorry but he had a family emergency come up and he had to fly back home right away.
Its something he had mentioned on the date about his family so I don't doubt that it happened. He said he needed me to know that he hadn't forgotten me.
He has been using the term destiny and soul mates and I have to agree with him. I feel so comfortable with him like i've known him all my life. So easy and he is such an incredible turn on for me. He is funny and nice and a good man to his kids. We both discussed being exclusive and long term. We both said how much the relationship made us feel good and at the end of the date he said how happy I made him feel.
I have been writing to him every other day or so and trying to give something of a break to him. I'm sure he's going through hell emotionally with his personal family issues. I know I would be. I am willing to wait for him. He wouldn't be a guy i would feel this way about if he didnt' drop everything to care for his family.
Since he hasn't written back for almost a week do I stop writing to him? I really want to talk to him so I've been either writing random stuff in IM or composing a letter in email or sending some pictures of me or links to something funny.
I've offered to be someone he can call if he needs to about this situation. I told him not to worry and I'm not mad or upset that he's gone to be with his family and we have plenty of time. Which we do.
But do I keep writing supportive things to him and speaking my mind with no response back? Am I annoying him? i don't want to be an additional burden but I do have strong feelngs of connection to him already.
I miss him and his company.