blaine

"Normal" is such a relative, general, vague..useless word. There are "ranges" of what is considered acceptable behavior in society..when you're well within that "bell curve" so to speak, then you're probably normal, as you get close to the extremes and even exceed them, you're "abnormal". In your case...the heavy amount of grief you are currently experiencing over a relationship that lasted only 2 months is not normal. You've got some issues. They have nothing to do with the girl in question. Get someone to talk to about some of this stuff, find out what it is, why it's there, and how to deal. And do it soon.