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  1. Thanks for the advice so far. To answer the question do I want to get back with him... no I don't. There was a lot of problems in our relationship and I know in my heart that we are not supposed to be together. He was just my first love and I still miss him sometimes. I thought it was gonna be just sex, but some old feelings came back. Not too bad though. I also realized that we are not the same people we were and it was different. And I'm feeling a little gulity also because he is dating someone right now. I don't want our relationship to become a sexual one, I want us to be friends. But I can't help it if I'm still attracted to him.. I swear I'm all messed up!
  2. Ok my ex and I broke up 9 months ago and we were together for 3 years and we loved each other very much. Well we had been keeping in touch over the months with quick friendly convos on the phone. Last night i saw him for the first time in a while and we ended up having sex. Today I am feeling very confused about the whole thing. I know I shouldn't have done it, but the truth is, I had been thinking about being intimate with him for awhile before last night. But now, I feel like I degraded myself and the last thing I want is to ruin the friendship we were building. Does anyone have any advice about my situation? What should I say to him next time we talk?
  3. Take it EXTRA slow and show her that your not that guy who hurt her so badly. Show her how she deserves to be treated because she probably doesn't know those feelings of importance. Make her believe that you two are the only people in a crowded room or that she's the most beautiful girl in the world. Let her know that you will be extra patient with her and that your not going anywhere without a fight. Hope his helps!
  4. I recently posted about my ex-boyfriend whom I had been with for 3 years. I am having a rough time getting over him, even though in my heart I know it was for the best. I know he is seeing someone else and that is the part that is really killing me. I am controlled by my endless thoughts of them together. I wrote him a letter telling him my feelings and what I learned from our relationship. So far he has not expressed any of his feelings. Is it wrong for me to want to know how he feels and/or felt about me and our relationship? Is it just desperate to want to know if he loved me as much as I loved (and still do love) him. A part of me just wants to meet with him one last time to close up the deal and part with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Only in respect of what we had together. Then another part of me just wants to let it ride and see if he will ever miss me. Is it a bad idea to want some kind of closure? And if not, how do I go about getting it from him without looking like the desperate, lovesick ex-girlfriend who can't move on???[/b]
  5. My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 years and let's just say that is has been a rocky road. I am 22 and about to graduate from college and he is 22 and has had 7 different cooking jobs since I've been with him ( No stability).Things were great the first year and then we moved in together too quickly and things went downhill. But we survived it after deciding to live separately. We even survived being in two different cities for 2 years. He is my first love and I still love him very much. But he hurt me a lot and I began to have serious trust issues with him. And I believe that the lack of trust ultimately killed us in the end. However, about 3 weeks ago (before we broke up) he began a new job and before this new job, we were actually in a good patch in our relationship. But very soon after, he began to act distant and cold until finally he told me that he needed a break. That he couldn't maintain a successful relationship and a successful job at the same time. Which I thought was bull. But he still wanted to talk to me every night. We didn't see eachother though. Well then he turned into this party animal going out every night with people from work. It drove me crazy until I said enough and I said we should not talk anymore. But ofcourse I called him and found out that he is already seeing someone else. Not even a week and he's seeing someone else! I am numb with frustration. Now I feel that he was distant because he was thinking about someone else. Now all I do is think about the two of them together. I cry all day because I have no closure and can't get him out of my mind. It's ruling my life. I feel like this will never end. I miss him soooo much. I would love any advice from anyone about how I can control my thoughts and try to move on. Thanks
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