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  1. she's stringing you along... making sure you'll be there whenever she needs... i have my ex doing that to me now after like a year of not speaking.. she started telling me how she wants to see me and how she' still attracted to me etc... just high school bullshit even though the chick ain't in high schpool.
  2. just do it. that's the best advice i can give you... i'm a rpetty shy guy, but ya know what? you get NOWHERE by being shy.. sure you don't get hurt, but you don't give yourself an oppurunity to either... it's all a matter of confidence... the mroe you have the more open you'll be.... don't be a cocky SOB, but don't be scared girls will think you're ugly, or dumb, or not funny.... ya know?
  3. never really cared enough.. there's plenty more to worry about than penis length.... I hope i'm not done growing but, i'll take what i've got, a cool 7 inches of fun for the ladies
  4. it almost seems like he's kinda get you to chase him and you just won't have any of that... He also seems like the type of guy you don't wanna be getting into a relationship with hun... Honestly, he could be the best guy in the world, smart, funny, honest, goals, motivation etc... but the jealousy/obsessive sounding behavior will lead to a horrible relationship and an even worse after relationship.... you'll both go crazy.. my honest opinion is to just leave it be.. be his friend but don't let it get past there... he seems a little over the top for just a friend relationship so far so.. i wouldn't even wanna get into a real relationship with him...
  5. Honestly, don't be such a little girl.. if you don't like something another guy is doing to/with your girlfriend you have every right to go over and let him know... Most girls would evn appreciate such a notion.. looks chivalrous even... If you see a guy doing something you don't like you could always just go over and give her a kiss, hug her real tight, maybe even feel her up real quick (if she's cool with that in pbulic) to let him know she's off limits, if he persists let him know and be preapred... But the 21st birthday thing.. just keep her close... that's all ya gotta do, make sure she's right by ya and all will be well
  6. girls can be tricky sometimes.... my best female friend is much like yours... she's perfect, sweet, caring, kind, gentle, funny, easy to get along with, good to snuggle with, perfect like i said... I told her how i felt after probably 6 years of friendship.... I told her flat out... xxx you're perfect for me... you're exactly what i've been searching for and exactly what i need... i love you... She kinda took it as a shock but we've had the same feelings for each other for quite a while... damn near since we met but we never acted n it... still haven't but i'm not worried about it... I love her no matter what.. whether we're together or not, whether she's with someone else or not... it doesn't matter... as log as she's happy, that's enough for me... Now i'm assuming you would like to date this young woman (otherwise there wouldn't be a problem right?).. Be honest. tell her how you feel. It's tough cause there's always the thought things won't be the same.. well i'll tell ya, me and my friend have gotten a lot closer since.. she recently broke up with her b/f of almost 2 years and i've been helping her to cope, a shoulder to cry on baically... whenever she's ready to move on i'll be right there waiting and we'll probably end up together but we shall see... So my advice would be to be 100% honest. don't sound like an obsessive scary guy, but let her know she's on your mind and you think the world of her...
  7. Take a look at your relationship... Were you both feeling fulfilled? sexually, romantically, emotionally, mentally? There's a lot to getting a relationship to work.. sometimes the other person isn't willing to try any harder, sometimes it's just easier to go to someone else who seems like they'd be easier to get along with... I personally need a few more details if you'd like me to help.. but, the thing that helped me get over my ex who left me for another guy was this... She needed something i obviously wasn't giving her.. whatever it is that was, she's getting it from him... it hurts, but, i messed up so... that's soemthing i have to deal with now..
  8. What's up with the witty replies thing? Not everyone's funny, and it's tough to be funny on a constant basis... if it's not your strong point, DO NOT TRY AND FORCE IT. you'll just end up looking stupid.. leave the comedy to us pros... My best advice.. do whatever comes natural.. do't over think your responses and just be casual about everything you say... seems to me like you overthink to the point of which you scare yourself into not saying anything whatsoever... i do the same thing sometimes but i just try and forget about worrying about what im gonna say... i just say the first thing that pops in my head and take it from there.
  9. if it's still an issue after the holidays you could always offer to join a gym with her.. i'm sure it wouldn't hurt you and she'll probably think it's a great idea... All you gotta do is say how she could look even better if she'd just tone up her thighs a little bit or something similar... going to the gym is addictive, trust me, and you could both get better looking together, what's better than that.
  10. Why are you with him if you have this little trust for him? What happens when you go on vacation with your folks or something and you're not home for... god forbid a week!! He's with you for a reason sweetie... guys cheat, but we're not all freaking scumbags...
  11. Some people jsut can't keep their hands off their partner.. that's the healthiest relationship i can think of.... i see no need for me to hold back my affection/emotion/physicality just because i'm in public.. i'm not gonna go down on my girl in a theatre, but if i want her i'll let her know.. get my point?
  12. why would you HAVE to do anything for her? i don't get it.
  13. if she "moved on" why do you want her back? she'll just move on next time too... time for you to think about moving on honestly... too much pain there for me... i dunno about you, but unless you like having your heart crapped on i'd stay away from a relationship with her again...
  14. I'm certainly in love with the idea of being in love.. But i know i don't love this girl.. i'm grounded in reality... it hasn't affected anything yet cause we were only together for a little more than a day (visited her with my friend who knows her from school)... She just seemed so easily dateable... beautiful, sweet, smart, hot body, HUMBLE, good sense of humor.... i dunno... I visit my friend at college like once a month so, i'll see her more often, but, i dunno how to go about letting her know i'm interested without looking like that's all i want out of her... If she doesn't wanna date completely cool, not a huge deal, but i think most girls think guys that ask them out just wanna date them and that's it...
  15. Baically it right there... if i see a pretty face, nice smile, if she's sweet, funny, nice body, i'm done.. Instantly think she's the greatest thing to happen since sliced bread... i dunno why it's just how i work i guess... it gets annoying though cause regardless of whether or not they have a man i still like them and that effects my relationship with them (friendship).. i get jealous and stupid basically... Just wondering if anyone else is like me and just crushes on a girl right away....
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