Trunks

I have been studying the art of Ninjutsu ever since I was five. The art of the shadow. Recently I have been studying energy. I can raise my strength with it and I can bring it in to a ball form. However, I haven't always been able to do it, I could raise my power, but thats it, and I couldn't raise my strength that high. A friend of mine gave me a tape and said it would help me. It contains epesodes of a show call Dragonball Z, it turned out to be darn close to what I was studing. I changed to DBZ's way of energy now I can raise my energy higher and like I said bring it into a ball. However, I can't make the energy ball very big. Not ever an inch in diameter. If anyone knows what I'm talking about, and has advise, please help.

I dissagree. You don't have to do anything sexual if you don't want to. If your chaste and he isn't than screw him. And if he turns out to be a cheat, than he's not the one for you. If you want to fight for him do it, but it doesn't have to go as far as sex. But hey. If you don't care and you want the relationship to continue, why listen to me.

If I was with you and knew what he was saying, he'd get a piece of my mind and maybe a fist in the mouth. A guy should not reject a woman with such a rediculious excuse. It is a mans job in life to make sacrifises for a woman. "Sure, you can come if you want," thats exceptable. Your boy friend is a selfish bastard. I hope your next bf is better too you.

I would hope that guys don't flirt with others. My guy nights consist not of cheating or making fun of others, but just hanging out. Playing games or even just talking. We don't have females with us because a girl may feel bored or uncomfortable. (Ex. When we go to a movie it may not be a girl's kind of move, such as Tomb Raider, or a war movie.)

I would like to ask some other guys what they think thier gf expects from them. But mosty I would like to know what you girls want in a guy. I know that the girl I speak of may be different but I can compare your responses with her personality. And, I realize that I should be myself, however, I don't even fully know who I am. I am going to spend the next few years to find out, and get rid of my bad habbits.

Thank you two for your responses. The thing is, I will not go far from myself. Infact my own self will be what changes. Really what I will do is work on bringing out myself instead of being trapped behind my own shyness. I just need to show her who I really am and not as much who I can TRY to be. And about dating other girls, that isn't to get her to want find out what she's missing. It is merely to dispose of, not all, but most of my shyness and find out who I am so even I am sure. I realize that some girls like the shy type. But she seems to like someone who's open.

I am some what in the same boat, I have been madly inl ove with a woman for over 3 years. She moved away 2 years ago and right now I am working on being a better man, so that one day I can find her and get her to love me back. She is MY whole life and I would die if I lost her. In my case, the thing that would make me happy is knowing that she loves me. So if he likes you, maybe even loves you, let him know that you love him. That might just bring you two together. I hope one day I will be with this woman I love. And I hope the best for you too. I feel the same way. I hope that I have helped you in some way also. May God guide you and help you to get this guy.

I met this beautiful girl in 6th grade, I remembered her name from preschool and I wanted to get to know her. Well, I fell madly in love with her. She move out of state the summer after 7th grade, that tore me appart, but my love for her only got stronger. I had planned to chase her to college and get her to love me back. 8th grade was hard and 9th even harder. She came back to town this summer, it had been two years and I could finnaly see her again. Okay, she likes my best friend and come to find out he's starting to like her back. I've never known a girl more kind or beautiful than her, she's all I have to live for and I don't want to lose her. My friend knows how much I love hermore than anybody else and says he would'nt take her from me, and I believe him, but there is more than just him to compete with. My friend acted like they were going out so that he could get his share before I take her. She spent time with my friend and myself the whole time she was here, I felt so jeallous seeing him with her, but I promised I wouldn't get mad. The last night she was here, I kind of made a fool of myself, she said it was alright but I felt scared. I sometimes feel like I will lose her. After she left I told my friend my fear, he encouraged me, saying that I'll succeed at getting her to love me back. "You can do it." He said that my problem is that I'm not confident enough, I'm too kind, too much of a gentleman, too shy, and that I need to be at least a little roudy. He says a woman wants a guy that can be roudy but who can still show he's a gentleman. Many people think I'm cool and I can show it. Fact is when I see her I am so stuned by her beauty that I don't show my cool side and my shyness takes over. I will soon be a Sophmore in HS. I have three years to prepare myself, to train at getting less shy, so when I go to college I can get her to love me back. To prove my worth to her. I've never dated . I've never experienced a kiss. Basically, I'm completely unprepared. What do I do? Do I date other girls to get experience? Do I just wait until college and date her? I need advise, help. If anyone has advise, I would appreciate it. I won't and can't lose her, but I need help.