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  1. - he's awesome -We have a lot in common (both athletic, same sense of humor, similar interest, the sex is great etc etc) -guy that I'd be friends with even if we weren't hooking up -He is special to me -I enjoy spending time with him -it's not even like I want to hook up with other people well, that really sounds to be more than friends with benefits. from your side. i guess you two should work out together why you are afraid of a gay relationship, because it is what you have right now. if you don't want to hold hands in public, fine, but at least you should come to terms with yourself and admit that you already have a relationship with him. b.
  2. Hi Jon, I think it will be very hard to get your way out of that on your own and I really think you should ask someone for help. If you are taking meds I guess you do counselling already, if not, start it now. Or you could call the local youth help hotline which should be in the yellow pages. For a start, you could also look for an activity, maybe at a sports center or a painting group or whatever where you go to on a regular basis at least one hour a week. Hope that helped a little. b.
  3. yes, that's what i forgot to write. i am pretty sure she doesn't come but just does as if to finish it. ask her about it. b.
  4. hi, best thing would be if you just call your doc, but as far as i know you should continue taking your new pill. it is probably just the hormone switch, don't worry.
  5. hi, no, your worries are totally normal, I guess everybody felt a bit like you do know once or twice. It will all work out.
  6. hi xxxtriplexxx, wow, you have some serious issues with your girlfriend. Obviously she doesn't like sex at all. I was thinking, maybe she had some bad sexual experiences in the past? Maybe she can't relax bcause you have unprotected sex, have you ever been tested on hiv? or she is afraid to become pregnant. if so i would propose to use some water based lubricant with the condom, or maybe her gynaecologist has some other birth control suggestions- she doesn't have to tell him that she has sex problems. hope that helped blonde
  7. hi i totally agree with swingfox here, but also you should get tested. Why don't you just go together?
  8. hi lg, there are always 2 people in a relationship, and if one of them doesn't want that relationship any more, the other one can't do anything against this decision. Even if you could talk this girl into giving it another try, this would be out of pity, not out of love. And I am sure you don't want that. So, if you feel you can, offer the girl your friendship. Maybe, sometime, this friendship could become more again, but not right now. Hope that helped a little.
  9. in that case, i must say she is really selfish! she wants someone she can talk to- fine, but not someone whose heart she is stomping on while doing it. don't let her use you. maybe it would be better if you don't meet. it is totally understandable that you feels sad when she talks about her new b/f. good luck, b.
  10. Hi timber, I think that your ex-girlfriend wants to be your friend, but maybe this is all you will get. Or has she somehow let you feel that you might have a chance although she is with another guy? b.
  11. Mike, maybe I got your question wrong. Now, after the second reading it appears to me that you don't want a relationship but casual sex. If so, just go to a bar or a club, talk to a nice girl, but be honest. Say that you want sex and nothing more or it would be really unfair. Oh, and always be safe. b.
  12. Hello Mike, you have had a 5 year long relationship, and now being without a girl for 9 month must be quite a challenge. If you want to get to know a girl, just go to places where girls are and chat them up. I am sure you will find a girl soon. b.
  13. Hi there, you will notice when your girl wants to stop kissing, because she will slightly pull her head away or close her mouth more. If you can't breath through your nose while kissing, you have to take a break once in a while anyway. And if you want to kiss french in public, that depends you and the girl. If not too many people are around, a little tongue won't hurt tough. And you will just notice if she participated in fench or not. Have fun, b.
  14. Dear Happily Saved, that you posted your problem here shows, that you already know that this man's behaviour was not normal. He should never have continued touching himself, and he should never ever have you made touching him or touched you. Don't think this is your fault, it is not. You should really try to talk to somebody you trust about this, your parents or a teacher maybe. You should then seriously think about counselling, because you are not alone, you will see. The first step is already done. Good luck, b.
  15. Dear nexhial, I think that she does not feel the same for her than you feel for her. She is not sure if she wants to spend the rest of her life with you. You haven't been dating very long, you have seen her approximately 120 times. I must admit, I can understand her. On the other hand, although that might not have been her purpose, she put your hopes extremely up. Wanting to be *friend with benefits* is very unfair, and she doesn't put a great store on her virginity any more, but don't let her use you in that way! Good luck, b.
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