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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Day 2: Beginning to think maybe NC is not the way to go for me. I get ancy/excited. Think maybe I should let her know how I feel. I need to take a step back, calm down and re-evaluate things though. I need to keep focusing on myself and my happiness.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Well there is this girl that I really like, idk what was going on (see other threads) but I think I am going to go NC for 10 days to give her space. I am going to start my own 10 day NC challenge. After these 10 days, I think I will call her and let her know exactly how I feel and ask her out on a real date, making it short, and to the point. If she accepts, then great. If not, atleast I tried then I guess. Day 1: IDK about her feelings for me. Alot of me is eaten up because I think I made foolish decisions/didn't communicate well enough with her. Maybe this is a sign we wouldn't have worked out anyways? For some reason, I cannot get her off my mind, and it can't be healthy. We never even kissed, so why am I so attached? I've contacted her the last 3 days. I need to lay off and not come off as needy. I also need to figure out if I liked her, or liked the idea of having someone like her. We only hung out 4 times over 4 weeks, so why did I get so attached so quickly? For the last 10-14 days I've thought of little else but her really and biding my time until I could see about us getting together. Today I am going to go to the gym after work, and then hopefully meet some friends out tonight. Tomorrow night my friend's band is playing so that should be fun.- 13,452 replies
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good post. Just again goes to show that most reconcilations do not work
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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We BU 2.5 months ago, and have been NC for the last 1.5. I've started to date again, but no girls really have the "spark" that my ex gave. I think a big hunk of me is scared to let go of her and the memories we had. Everytime I see her car outside her work place (I drive by there everyday on the way to work), it bothers me. And I know that when/if I ever run into her again, it will be very hard.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Been a LONG time now since we BU. Much of it all still hurts. It comes in waves. She didnt contact me for my birthday. That is the final sign I should give up all hope and move on.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Kayla> So sorry to hear that story of yours. Any death is terrible- 13,452 replies
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You want your ex back? Things to avoid certain doom!
brian123 replied to SuperDave71's topic in Getting Back Together
Lilly> The guy is an alcoholic. It runs in his family. Shouldn't that be enough to make people stop wanting to drink? He sounds pretty irresponsible to me. Thank yourself that you only wasted 2 months with this guy and move on. Keep up the NC and the good work. I've learned the hard way, you can't help people who don't want to help themselves. -
THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Way past 30 days, but I still need to vent from time to time. I still have times where I wonder what is going to happen. Deep down, I don't believe we will ever get together again, and it is MUCH easier to assume that we will not. However, many parts of me keep rethinking how we broke up and what will happen to us in the future.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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UK....seems like you and I had a similar BU. It was ~2 months ago for me. I still dream/think of her from time to time.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Day ??? Getting better. Still wondering if she will ever call me again. I'm trying to assume never.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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IDK if he hates you. But he just wants some distance apparently. After BU, I've blocked girls that I've loved dearly, but just needed distance.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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30 days of NC for me as well. Everyday I think about her less and less. In many ways, I like the idea of freedom. I've been talking with alot of people, and I feel like I FINALLY got to the bottom of everything and why we BU. Everyday still has its difficulties, but I will get by ok. Like Mustang, I wonder if she is thinking of me at all, and wonder if she is with someone else yet (based on past experiences, she probably is). If we don't ever get together again, i'd rather never see her/speak with her again. It would just be easier that way.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Day 29. Still hurt. Still wondering what the heck happened/what to expect. Getting a bit easier everyday.- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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Yea, I think I will wait until after my bday in a few weeks (see if she initiates contact 1st) If she doesn't, Ill send her the quick note about her stuff (None of it is really that important, random clothes, vitamins, extra set of car keys etc.....)- 13,452 replies
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
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I could text her, but I feel like I am doing this mostly as a reason to initiate contact. IDK what I should do- 13,452 replies
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