Very nice original post but remember, this is your opinion only.
I worship women like crazy and do everything as you specified however I am also a very successfull engineer, make great money, have great friends, many hobbies, involved in many activities including weight training, masculine and have many accomplishments to share including volunteering. I am also have most if not all of the characteristics you spelled out about "being a man" (which again is your opinion only but regardless). So with all that said I still worship women and sex, always have, and have managed to get my life straight while doing it. In sum, to state that you should avoid one to do the other is not good advise as both can be achieved simutanelously.