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  1. Hi Im new here! Had Been in a relationship for four years, the last two which have been long distance. After he moved away (his career) instead of taking care of myself, progressing, and doing the things I should have done.... I literally let myself go. I grew bitter, pressured him to let me move out where he was constantly (knowing that I could not due to his inability to know when he was moving next and my need to finish graduate school), and gained weight. So basically physically and mentally let myself go. We argued constantly and finally on our four year anniverassary he told me he wasn't coming out here and that it was over. He said the classic "I love you but Im not in love with you". Of course I am devastated and told him I would change myself around not just for him but for me of course. get therapy, work out, focus on school more... he said he was proud of me for doing these things but that right now he just doesnt want to be in any relationship. I asked him if once I get myself back could we try again and he said he doesnt want me to have false hope and he cant predict the future. I truly feellike he is the man for me. What do I do??? Please help.
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