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  1. Wow, it's like a French movie in here. First, I think it is important for everyone involved to take a deep breath and remember that humans come equipped with a really good, nearly fail-proof system against incest. The overwhelming majority of people simply will not go there. You're (probably) likelier to die in a plane crash than to have your husbands wanting to... you know... wanting to do th... emh... eugh. But still people get nervous about flying and apparently they also get jittery about their husbands and sisters-in-law. So I guess statistical evidence isn't all that comforting. TEMPTA21, I don't mean to minimise your feelings at all, because I know they are real. But I do have to say that getting territorial like that is not going to earn you any points with your husband. It sounds like he is very affectionate with his sister, and personally I find that kind of sweet. I like it when relatives are very close to each other. It's his sister, and whether you like it or not, it is his prerrogative to decide how affectionate he wants to be towards her. Quite simply it has nothing to do with you. You choose to make it a matter of disrespect towards you, but you don't get to demand that he follows your regulations when it comes to dealing with his family. Think about it. Would you tell him off for holding his mum's hand? No. Why? Because it's his fricken mum. Should you tell him off for resting his head on his siter's shoulder? No. Why? Because it's his fricken sister. I repeat, It's His Fricken Sister. lmu123, I fully agree it's very odd that your husband constantly wants to turn you into his sister. Not because it's automatically some sexual thing, but because you are a person on your own right and you will dress and do your nails as you well damn please. I think hurling accusations to him about him being into his sister will only make him clamp shut and will be very embarrassing for both of you and get you nowhere. I would instead recommend that you assertively tell him that you are not, never have been and never will be his sister. He already has a sister. You are his wife. And if he is not happy with the way you are (i.e. non-sisterly), there is a door right there that opens straight into singledom. There. Oh yeah and to the woman who opened this thread five years ago, wherever you are -you've got to be kidding me! He called you by your sister's name because you looked like his bloody sister when all he could see in his comatose state was your hair. I once hollered (I mean really hollered) at a black t-shirt that my boyfriend was wearing in bed when I opened my eyes. I thought it was a monster or something. That's what happens when you have just woken up. Jeez.
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