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  1. ComputerGuy
    One day you will be wrinkley old and grey...at that point I'd rather have someone who loved me for me and no other reason.
  2. ComputerGuy
    I wouldn't mention anyhing. You say their relationship is fine? Leave it be then. Personally Id be shocked if I fixed my Dad's PC and DIDN'T find porn.
  3. ComputerGuy
    Think of phone sex only typed over instant messenger.
  4. ComputerGuy
    Sounds like when I was living on University Campus. My suggestion is bring it up sooner rather than later or you will end up snapping and exploding on everyone. Just sit her down one day and explain it to her. You pay rent there too, it's 50/50 give and take. You will have to compromise on it but so will your friend.
  5. ComputerGuy
    I too have been there and done that...just give her a few days then maybe go see her to try and sort things out.
  6. ComputerGuy
    Let me be the first to say that friendships can continue quite fine if one admits feelings but the other doesnt have them. However on that note, things can go bad afterwards as well, it's up to you if you think it's worth the risk. Personally Id suck it up and tell her I felt and just say "Even if you don't feel the same thats fine, but I had to tell you or I was going to go insane".
  7. ComputerGuy
    No matter how well you know someone you can't talk forever...eventually you WILL run out of stuff to talk about. Doesn;t mean the friendship is getting less or anything, it just means that you have not much to talk about. It's only really a problem if you let it become one, but as far as I can see it, it's not an issue at all unless you both make it into one. Maybe do more stuff together instead that way its something you can do together and get the same thing but you don't have to force conversation...plus it will give you something to talk about again as well.
  8. ComputerGuy
    If he was 16 at the time I have a feeling he may feel a little guilty about the thought of leaving his aprents. Especially if he saw what his sister taking her life did. He might feel as if he would be doing the same thing by leaving them. Also his parents might feel like they are losing him so may not be too enthusiastic about the thought of him leaving. Id be willing to bet that his sister's suicide may be the underlying reason he still lives at home.
  9. ComputerGuy
    I agree he is using you both as a security blanket. Basically he isnt over her but doesn;t want to leave you, so he's going with bhoth and if one fails he can fall back on the other. I may be wrong but that's how it seems to me. I think you need to say to him "Look, I care about you, I want this to work, but its me or her". He needs to decide what he wants and you don't need to put up with his behaviour.
  10. ComputerGuy
    If you write it to get it out of your system thats fine. Do NOT send it. You will be undoing everything that you have done to this point getting on with life and will only drive yourself insane. Trust me from painful experience, you have GOT to let it go.
  11. ComputerGuy
    I agree with Annie, getting past pipning for him and wanting him back is biggest part of getting over someone. It may take a while to recover from the whole thing but you are well on the way once you have reached the "Screw him, I dont want him" point.
  12. ComputerGuy
    Personally Id be willing to wait until she was ready however long that may be. I'm not that worried personally, I mean it's just sex...It's not the end of the world if you aren't getting any.
  13. ComputerGuy
    Wow, she really does sound immature...I dont even know her and I want to grab her, shake her and say "YOU'RE ACTING LIKE AN IDIOT". I think the best thing you can do is, as everyone else has said, try and get through to her but ultimately it IS up to her. All you can do is be there if/when it hits the fan.
  14. ComputerGuy
    I hate to say this but it seems this guy was using you for fun while he was away from his wife.Im willing to bet his free time with you is away fro work as far as his wife and kids are concerned. Now he gotten you pregnant, which could blow the whole thing open, he wants out. Harsh yes, but that's how I see things. From here your best bet is to do what YOU want to do. If you want to keep the baby then keep it, dont be pressured into doing something you dont want to as you will regret it later on. Also Id say make him take responsibility, it takes two to tango as the saying goes and he is just as much responsible as you are. You shouldn't be forced to take this all on yourself.
  15. ComputerGuy
    Get an ice cube, a small one, put it in your mouth, now the objective is to get the ice cube from the other person using only your tongue. Let the games begin
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