BeenCheated

If you value your friendship with your mate more than you want to go out woth her, forget about it. It sounds like she is his backup girl.

Leave now before it's too late. I'm sure your finacé has a lot of good qualities that you fell in love with, but the fact remains- when someone cheats on you and you take them back, you've only taught them that they can get away with it. The next time she cheats on you, and there WILL BE a next time, it will only be easier for her. Now she knows you'll take her back no matter what. In addition, since she was abused by her father, she'll most likely to be messed up for life (when it comes to relationships with men). I know that sounds cold, but it's true.

...yes, and my appologies to all the unemployed cynics lacking personality too. Let's not get bogged down in being PC here. It was mgirl that started this whole unique thread by stating the obvious: she wants someone who is attractive, funny etc. and preferably has money. My point was, that's what everybody wants, even your poor cousin. The fact that she, your cousin, didn't feel worthy is an entirely different issue.

Now we're all curious. What do you want that most people don't?

Is this supposed to be something new? That's what everybody wants. When is the last time you saw a personal ad that read: SWF 32 seeks cynical pimple-face with multiple physical disabilities and no personality. Obesity and unemployment is a plus!

Forget about trying to last longer for now. Instead, you need to focus on foreplay. Go down on her until she's just about to explode and THEN slip her the wet noodle. Alternatively, if she can have multiple orgasms, go ahead and give her a few orgasms (from going down on her) and then have sex.

I highly recomend reading The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living. I picked it up at the airport one day out of curiosity and thought to myself, "this is probably one of those books that talks in circles and never answers the question we've all been waiting for: What is the meaning of life?" But as I turned to the first page, the first sentance read: I believe the very purpose of our life is to seek happiness. Wow! There was the answer, right there on the first page, and the book only gets better and better. The book is not religious at all either. It just talks about the Dalai Lama's philosophies on life with practical examples and applications. The main thing I got out of it that changed my life was to surround your self with people, experiences and things that make you happy and keep away from things that don't make you happy. Simple, huh? It's also important not to compare yourself to others. Good luck in your search.

I think you should just ask him why he's been so quiet. Be sure to sound as sweet and loving as possible when you do, so you don't come off suspicoius or accusing.

Everybody knows shaving is out, and so is the landing strip. Keep it trimmed, but not shaven.

If you want good advice, you'll have to tell us the why you don't like to do it. We can make a lot of assumptions about why, but it won't help unless we know how you feel. annie24 is right. You gotta practice the 3G's.

I like it because it's forbidden. I prefer regular sex, but the best orgasm I ever had was from pokin' the brown eye.

Pensive, yeah, she was sexual in the beginning, though a little on the selfish side. Ironically, she was kind of like a typical guy. She just wanted to screw and cum without any foreplay or anything else fun. What si your wife like? Does she always have an excuse, or have you quit trying? I've been sleeping in the guestroom for a few weks now, because I can't stand to sleep in our bed anymore. Our bedrrom is a symbol of rejection to me and I can't sllep in there. On the bright side, I sleep a lot better alone.

Well, I still haven't cheated, but things haven't changed either. Peanut15, I hear what you're saying about priorities, but the thing that bothers me the most is absolutley EVERYTHING comes before me. She says she's tired, but she always has the energy to sit in front of the computer all night and ignore me. If I ask her a simple question, she growls at me, but when the phone rings, she jumps up and talks to whoever for hours. It's not like she is slaving and working until the minute she goes to bed. Our kid is an angel. He sleeps 12 hours straight every night, and takes 2 naps every day. I help out in the morning before I go to work, and I take over as soon as I get home. Our son is in bed by 18:30 (19:30 at the latest), and we have the rest of the evening to ourselves. She really makes me feal like a ghost, and it's not just the ignoring me either. At our son's first birthday, he got a toy, and the first thing she does is hand it to her brother to put together. HELLO!??!?!?! I'm his father! It's my job to show him how to put things together, and I'm the one who will teach him how to ride a bike and everything else. But I guess that only applies if you exist, which I apparently don't.

Get her a dildo that is bigger than your finger but smaller than your manhood. You could also work up to two fingers.

My first wife was a saint, at first, but then she turned out to be a cheat of the worst kind. Unfortunately, there is no way to know if someone will cheat on you or not. If you choose a "good" girl, she might get curious and go wild one day. If you choose a wild girl, she might not want to be tied down. My advice is to date around, have a good time and don't try to find someone to marry until you're around 30. Good luck!