aaron66

I'm crazy about my girlfriend but she really frustrates me. We've been together for about 5 months and she has quite a few problems. I'm a senior in high school and she's a junior. Her freshmen year my friend tells me, she was a semi-slut, always talking about sex and saying how she needed to have it. She got in some legal trouble, halfway through her freshmen year and was sent off to a juvenile group home. there from what I can put together was that she was raped and sexually abused, mentally scarring her. She came back and during her sophomore year, hooked up with me. we went out on dates kind of often but she was really distant and I could be in the same room with her for an hour and she could never once indicate with any affection whether or not she liked me. I lost hours of sleep. but when the time came around to make out, we made out but something was missing. During this entire time she was doing triple C if anyone knows what that shit is, cough medicine, but if you take enough, you get higher than hell. she got busted for doing that shit in school and was sent off to another group home. for about 4 months I heard nothing from her but then got a call. she comes home on the weekends and had been doing so for the past 2 months. I went over to her house one weekend and we hooked up again and weve been dating for the 3 months now. she vows abstinence and is a complete man-hater, except for me of course. she is rarely affectionate, and has problems out the ass. What in the hell do i freakin do!?!?!?! I try talking to her but she will not freakin respond. I'm going insane.

Dude, nothing is wrong with guys crying. At least crying is better than shooting yourself. Your feelings are very natural and there's no reason to surpress them.

the answer is plain and simple. You need to pick up your balls and get over shyness. You have nothing to be shy about unless you are hiding something or are insecure. If she's already your girlfriend, there had to be something you said to her that made her like you in the first place. hope I helped some.

Turboz, your a friggin genius. Never before have I heard such truth. damn.

Hey dude. I lost my virginity when I was 17. I'm 18 now. I lost it to some skanky slut I had only known for two days and I'm glad I didnt get an std or something. we basically went in a room, took of our clothes and went at it. I felt absolutley nothing for her, absolutley no intimacy whatsoever. I wasnt even close to ejaculating. It is something I still regret and wish I couldve lost it to a girl I felt a bit more of an emotional connection with. the age of twelve is way to young to really understand what love and intimacy really are. Hell, i doubt your friend can even ejaculate yet. Hope that helped.

Dude, my advice is that the first chance you got you shouldve headed to bathroom to beat off furiously. Just for future cases...

thanks a lot guys. I appreciate it.

Hey everybody. Sometimes I think girls were put on this planet to drive guys criminally insane. Ive been trying to get a date with this one girl for about 4 months... I used to talk to her on the phone during the first month and I thought we had a lot in common and i really had a sense that her and i could actually have the serious relationship. Now i barely talk to her. i try to get a hold of her all the goddamn time but she's always out. I leave messages on her machine and with her parents about two, three times a week. But she never calls me back and when i see her at this theatre group we're in, she acts like she doesnt know me. I didnt think I did anything wrong. I could reeeeeeeeaaaaally use some advice on this. If you need to know more info, just say so.