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  1. I think its hardly fair to say its unhealthy for a woman to desire sex... i think it is a part of a relationship but its also just sex too... its hard to explain, but what i thought you were trying to say is that women don't desire sex unless they are some sort of slapper! and i have to say you're very very wrong!
  2. well i think she might want to get back with you best thing to do is as her face to face... maybe meet up with her otherwise your just going to be confused!
  3. firstly, how long have you had this crush on 'B' ? and if its only been a few weeks/months i would wait until you definatly know its not just a little crush cause you dont want to ruin your relationship as friends... so my advice is wait! and if you wait and decide you still want to tell her atleased you'll have time to try and make it perfect good luck!
  4. im really sure she appreciates you posting what she sent to you on a forum.. hmmm nice move there.. i mean come on its something she sent you not everyone on this forum, if i was her i would feel betrayed by you and really embarrased... well done hope your happy with yourself. i think the only reason you posted it is to make yourself feel good. just think if you were her and you sent her a letter/ e-mail whatever and she posted it on a forum!
  5. hey, I hope you get through this rough time and have a ok christmas, just try to make the best of it. I know how you feel, i'm in a long distance relationship so i either go away and spend the christmas with my boyfriend or i stay at home with my dad, my dad doesnt really celebrate christmas so staying at home would probs not be the best thing to do... but i dont really want to leave my dad alone!!! argh! so confusing ! anyways yeah like i said its just something that we have to try and cope with, if anyone needs support i'm here! Good luck! Take_the_reins xxx
  6. Hey, The problem with you just putting a random song on there is a. she could think its for someone else b. she might not even notice... so i'd just go for the upfront approach and say hey girl!! ect ect anyways girls prefer confident guys.... well the girls i know hehe Good luck hope you get your girl! Take_the_reins xx
  7. Awwww wow i'd be so excited if i were you, but i can't really speak for you sooo.... maybe being such a big shock i think you should try and talk to your husband about it... and decide how you're going to cope financially! apart from that i think you will cope fine!! the best of luck!!! Take_the_reins xx
  8. aww.. that is a really beautiful poem, Your words paint a pretty picture in my mind, its a very benevolent poem. Keep posting em up! Take_the_reins x
  9. Hey mermayd, well im not a sex expert or anything ... but shouldnt it just happen? i mean if your together and stuff shouldnt you be able to find the things you like? ask him to explore you whole body and find the things you like, he'll obviously know what u are and arnt finding pleasurable, mabye you could try lots of new things, get some books and make variations to suit your preferances! sorry its not that much help! Hope everything works out! Take_the_reins x
  10. hey Emotional, i can understand what you mean, your feeling a sort of lust for him, probs cause of the sort of relationship you had before, i wouldent adivse you to go back to him just because of the sexual pleasure he gave you, im sure if you move on to different relationships you'll find different pleasures, you probs just feel it for him cause its the first guy you've been that intimate with! Good luck Hope this was some help! Take_the_reins x
  11. Hey DaManiac, I think its pretty normal to like more than one guy at the same time (unless your in a serious relationship) just spend time with all of them (separatley) and decide which one you'd most like to be with, you shouldnt feel like a *beep* its just normal. as long as u dont like one anyways you'll probs end up with none of them and someone compleatly different .. hehe good luck! Hope this was some help ! Take_the_reins x
  12. Hey jughead, i know this may seem a little harsh ... but mabye it is time to move on, you've said you've broke up 4-5 times before, and you didnt mention how you are together when your not fighting, mabye she is serious this time as shes got her own place and stuff, but i suppose if the good times make the bad times seem pointless, you should mabye try once more, but if it hasnt been working up till now .. what makes you think its going to work now? realising this could save you alot of heart ache in the long run! think about it! Hope this was some help! Take_the_reins x
  13. This is a poem inspired by the love and support of my boyfriend James ... I love you ! any comments would be apperciated ! Why me, you know it always happens to the ones, who don't deserve it, The ones who try their hardest at everything they do The ones that drowned in the pool of their own thoughts each night, The ones that strive for the eternal pleasure of it, At first you don't actually realise you have it, At first you look for the exit light, you're in too deep now; you've taken it too far, At first you don't see it, feel it, sense it, taste it , smell it At first you deny that your heart could be so weak. Then you give in to it, you stop trying, and you feel like you deserve it Then you float with nothing but hopes and dreams to carry you to the shore of you destiny. Then you feel the ecstasy of the pleasure you've been striving for all this time! Then the exit light turns off! You don't need to escape everything you need is right here in the arms of the one. Thanks for reading! Take_the_reins x
  14. i think you should take her out... show her that u care... maybe she scared about ruining the friendship... sorry your post was abit vague... Take_the_reins x
  15. sorry and i also would say go for a kiss on the check .... she'll think its cute Take_the_reins x
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