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Hey, I have struggles with Depression for over a year and a half now,, it has been a tryinh time to say the least. I have read many books on the topic, and the best one I have ever read was called "The Noonday Demon" by Andrew Solomon. It is awesome the only other things i can recommend is that you push your boyfriend to seek therapy and medication if he has not already done so. The only other thing that helps is love. Depression is the flaw in love, and it is an awful thing to experience, the only thing that makes you feel better is love.... i wish you and your boyfriend all the best
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YEs, she is very interested in being with me,,, and no she doesn't talk to him anymore. She is a really nice girl,, and she hasn't really done something like this before,,, but she has been "friendly" with this same guy before, so i was always a little suspicious about it. It just sucks,,,, I'm having a really hard time trusting,,,,,
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Girlfriend didn't tell me she was hangin with someone else!
heart replied to heart's topic in Infidelity
Because i lost some trust for her because of all this,,, plus i get to thinking that maybe she was hangin with someone else because she didn't like me very much -
Girlfriend didn't tell me she was hangin with someone else!
heart replied to heart's topic in Infidelity
I don't need counseling,,, I'm asking for advice..........we dated for a very long time,,, and i still think of her... thats all,, just thought i could get some insight...... -
Hi, I really need good advice. I broke up with my girlfriend almost a year ago. We had a good relationship for the most part. I basically broke up with her because i felt like we weren't working anymore, things were becoming cumbersome. But,, towards the last couple of months of our relationship, she began hanging out with another guy, and never told me about it. It went on for alomst 2 months. Basically they would hang out when i wasn't around. I know they were talking on the phone as well, and stuff like that. I know the guy too, we were kind of friends, but truthfully i didn't trust him, i viewed him as kind of a sleazy guy, and i think i was pretty much right about that. anyway, the point is, that i do love her, and want to trust her, but for some reason i keep thinking to myself that if something like that happens, its usually a sign that the person probably doesn't like you very much, or just doesn't have any respect for you. I know that she didn't cheat on me, but during that time when they were hanging out, i remember feeling terrible all the time. Wondering what was going on, and being very angry. so, i guess my question is,,, is this something that i can get over? is this something thats forgivable, or is it infact a sign that we probably shouldn't be together. I struggle with this everyday, and i could really use some advice. I've had trouble trusting people ever since, and i still really don't like what happened. I felt betrayed. thanks for reading
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Yes we are broken up, and it has been almost a year,,, but I'm not over her yet,,, thats why i'm asking for advice. However,, the situation with the other guy is something that i still struggle with,,, i just didn't like that at all,,,, so thats why i'm asking.
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Hi, I really need good advice. I broke up with my girlfriend almost a year ago. We had a good relationship for the most part. I basically broke up with her because i felt like we weren't working anymore, things were becoming cumbersome. But,, towards the last couple of months of our relationship, she began hanging out with another guy, and never told me about it. It went on for alomst 2 months. Basically they would hang out when i wasn't around. I know they were talking on the phone as well, and stuff like that. I know the guy too, we were kind of friends, but truthfully i didn't trust him, i viewed him as kind of a sleazy guy, and i think i was pretty much right about that. anyway, the point is, that i do love her, and want to trust her, but for some reason i keep thinking to myself that if something like that happens, its usually a sign that the person probably doesn't like you very much, or just doesn't have any respect for you. I know that she didn't cheat on me, but during that time when they were hanging out, i remember feeling terrible all the time. Wondering what was going on, and being very angry. so, i guess my question is,,, is this something that i can get over? is this something thats forgivable, or is it infact a sign that we probably shouldn't be together. I struggle with this everyday, and i could really use some advice. I've had trouble trusting people ever since, and i still really don't like what happened. I felt betrayed. thanks for reading
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Hi, I really need good advice. I broke up with my girlfriend almost a year ago. We had a good relationship for the most part. I basically broke up with her because i felt like we weren't working anymore, things were becoming cumbersome. But,, towards the last couple of months of our relationship, she began hanging out with another guy, and never told me about it. It went on for alomst 2 months. Basically they would hang out when i wasn't around. I know they were talking on the phone as well, and stuff like that. I know the guy too, we were kind of friends, but truthfully i didn't trust him, i viewed him as kind of a sleazy guy, and i think i was pretty much right about that. anyway, the point is, that i do love her, and want to trust her, but for some reason i keep thinking to myself that if something like that happens, its usually a sign that the person probably doesn't like you very much, or just doesn't have any respect for you. I know that she didn't cheat on me, but during that time when they were hanging out, i remember feeling terrible all the time. Wondering what was going on, and being very angry. so, i guess my question is,,, is this something that i can get over? is this something thats forgivable, or is it infact a sign that we probably shouldn't be together. I struggle with this everyday, and i could really use some advice. I've had trouble trusting people ever since, and i still really don't like what happened. I felt betrayed. thanks for reading
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Why is it that i make decisions that are the absolute wrong thing for me. I always try to do the right thing,, and i think i am doing it,,, and it winds up being the wrong thing for me.. I am so lost,, i feel like i need a miracle or something. I just need to know why i am doing this to myself......i guess i just needed someone to tell,, or write ,,,,,,,,,i just hope someone reads this, that understands,,,,,,,,,,,,,and prays for me or something. I just want to be happy again,, and play music like i used to i used to smile alot,, and i haven't in a while.........please god let something good happen,,,,,,, i just want a chance thanks for reading
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How Many Times Do You Think About Suicide? [Poll]
heart replied to lostwithlove's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm
hi, Thats funny i was just thinking about this the other day... This may sound really weird.. but i'm gonna say it anyway. For a long time, including recently I thought about it all the time,, seriously..... everyday, When i was about 19, ieven tried hanging myself in my dorm room in college. When i think about it, it just seems so strange. The reason: well there were a bunch, but i learned that alot of the reasons stemmed from my childhood, the way i was brought up,, treated. The funny thing is,, that if you saw me,,, you would think "why would he ever think about killing himself",,, i'm tall, good looking, talented, smart, funny, and my friends adore me. I've always been pretty sensitive i guess, and there were times when it was overwhelming for me,, when people treated me poorly I really took it hard. I guess i just felt insignificant for a long time. Now I know how important i am. If anyone has thoughts of suicide,,, please feel free to PM me,, I fell like i can offer some advice, I've been through that whole thing,,, god i was lonely, thanks for reading, godl bless -
How Many Times Do You Think About Suicide? [Poll]
heart replied to lostwithlove's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm
hi, Thats funny i was just thinking about this the other day... This may sound really weird.. but i'm gonna say it anyway. For a long time, including recently I thought about it all the time,, seriously..... everyday, When i was about 19, ieven tried hanging myself in my dorm room in college. When i think about it, it just seems so strange. The reason: well there were a bunch, but i learned that alot of the reasons stemmed from my childhood, the way i was brought up,, treated. The funny thing is,, that if you saw me,,, you would think "why would he ever think about killing himself",,, i'm tall, good looking, talented, smart, funny, and my friends adore me. I've always been pretty sensitive i guess, and there were times when it was overwhelming for me,, when people treated me poorly I really took it hard. I guess i just felt insignificant for a long time. Now I know how important i am. If anyone has thoughts of suicide,,, please feel free to PM me,, I fell like i can offer some advice, I've been through that whole thing,,, god i was lonely, thanks for reading, godl bless -
Hey man, I'm gonna be as honest as possible and still be compassionate: when you say your worthless, and that nothing good happens,, it wont. I've been where you are, said the same things to myself, and it never gets better that way. You have to try,, you have to try,,please. Dont waste your life away. The biggest problem that people have in life, is thinking that they are victims. It may get you some pity for a bit, but in the long run it gets you no-where. Don't be this way, you have to pick yourself up, please trust me. Let go of any guilt, or bad memories you have, put them behind you. Don't feel bad, you are only human. Live your life, and don't care what anyone thinks. And if you make mistakes(which you will) who cares. There are millions and millions of people that lead selfish, cruel, inconsiderate lives, i know alot of them. And they don't feel as bad as you or I would. forget the past,, don't feel guilt. Just go. there is no more time to waste i hope that you feel better soon feel free to PM if you want, i will be here
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I've had a rough time lately in life... People treat me like $*# everyday,,,, i guess its cause i'm highly sensitive,, and so they feel that they can Crap on me,,,,, and so they do.. I'm not sure whats going to happen to me,, but i just wanted to say that people are dicks!!!! Nobody cares enough about each other.!!!! And good people get crapped on in life because other people can deal with their own insecurities. What a joke,, I hope all those people who pick on others or put them down, just because they are sensitive, have the same thing happen to them.. $*#*!! people!!! Yesterday was my birthday and people still treated me like crap....i'm done i have never hurt anyone,,, and this is what i get in return. this world is a joke,,, a game "people are strange, when your a stranger" "faces look ugly, when your alone" "women seem wicked, when your unwanted"
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Yeah i agree, posting here helps, but I've been doing that for a while now,, and honestly,, I need something else.... I can't take this anymore,, I've tried thinking positively, I've tried looking at what is good in my life, and to be honest i just can't see through all the smoke,,,,,i need help,,,and yes going to see a psychologist would be great,, but i am broke and i can't afford that. So again, i'm stuck,, i appreciate all the replys and all of your advice, its all nice to hear, so thank you eveyone, keep em comin
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Listen,, I need help.... please...please. I just need someone to talk to,,,I feel like i'm dying inside,, I don't know whats wrong with me. I 've had a bad couple of months, but i thought things would get better and they've only gotten worse. I don't know where to turn,, i hate my job,, my financial situation is terrible,, friends are gone, girlfriend gone,,, and i've lost control of my life.. I wonder if there's maybe someone here i can talk to. I really need some advice or something. I feel like i'm having a breakdown. I'm really sad and i just want to be happy again one day,, but i don't see how thats possible anymore. If anyone has any advice or can help me, i would appreciate it.. Thanks so much ,, i wish you all a great day