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7 days NC feel awful at the moment

TURKEY NC[/b] Well DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!

In the magazine called "Australian Art collector' I saw a photo by an artist , of a girl wearing a white tshirt that says: "FACEBOOK RUINED MY LIFE" :splat:

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The only thing you have got to lose is *the rest of your dignity* Take a look at my thread "Stupid ME" under breaking up and see how Ive been treated and how NC is the ONLY thing i can do to keep my dignity. I do not like what this girl is doing to you.

Yeah SO DON"T .

When I was getting the texts I was feeling pretty good about the breakup and thought I'd just ignore them. But now I'm feeling a bit shaky.. well dang.. those service providers!!! WHAT are they doing with my texts.????? Funny though, my phone can receive calls......... BULLSH!T Blaming Service Providers for *Missing* Texts is the New Black

God this girl is messing with your head and heart. If you see that what she is doing is cruel then maybe that will help you do NC. She sounds sort of afraid of her boyfriend. It seems tho, since i read your very first post, that she is contacting you more and more, maybe out of doubts about her bf - i dont know 'But its not fair on you. SAMANTHA LISTEN. IF you REALLY want any chance of getting her back you need to go COLD TURKEY NC. Most importantly it will help you to start to recover. Your body amnd mind must be in such a mess. COLD TURKEY NC. Its never too late to start. PLease do it. Only then will she make a decision.

Yes you have to go NC. it wont drive her into his arms.... You have no control over what happens with them... Maybe this was always going to happen because of the fact that you were so dependent on her for everything. I really think that this was going to happen anyway. Its a lot for someone to handle- having someone so dependent on them- even if you did love each other. Contacting her is doing you more damage. Just because they are together now doesnt mean they will be in 3 months. You need to make sure u 2 dont become enemies over some fling she is having with some random guy. She is probably just experimenting. it sounds like you had a solid foundation. Ok a similar but different situation. I'm female - and had a best male friend who was gay. I fell in love with him. We were best mates spent every spare second togther, shared a bed, did everything but sex. he met a guy online, and we had a major fallout and i did a lot of damage to our friendship over my jealousy. They broke up 6 months later. EVENtually a year and a half later we were no longer friends. i ruined it.

I am tempted to text as well. but thats no good because what will happen is you get no reply - and it makes it worse. Its better not to let them know how you feel. It takes some of the power away from them. She has no right to know how you are because she relinquished you. I have lost some good friends as well over the last year so i know how you feel. You will survive it though. Remember the same thing could happen to her - a bit of karma- he could dump her you know. It mightnt be all roses and chocolates

we met 3 moths ago on an internet dating site (blaah) Nearly a month ago I said i wouldnt be comfortable if he started seeing other people from the site. He said "dont stress it probably wont happen" I went away over xmas for a fortnight, and when i saw him 2 days ago i asked him if he had met anyone and he said he had "arranged' to meet someone last friday but ended up calling and cancelling saing he was too busy. He said "im not too concerned about it". I also asked him that day about going out to dinner and he said 'Yes" then "I dont know what i want" then ended with a "No". I dont know why going out for a meal is such a serious thing. Is he the one who is afraid he is going to fall for me? Or am i just not good enough to do anything but have sex with? I can't tell you how hurt I am over this. I havent contacted him since thankgod, he just said "I'll talk to you later" (he is really sick with the flu) I said it might be fun to do something out of the bedroom, and he said that that is all he wants- to be in the bedroom. Doesnt want a relationship in any form of any sort with anyone. We get on really well and I could see how compatible we are, and thats why i want more. He wont even give it a go. So now he is going to lose his litle f buddy completely, and the worst part for me is that i am worrid he wont even miss it or attempt to get me back. And like you Samantha, the worst part is imagining them with someone else. I suppose i can see that he could meet up with someone new from the site at ANY time, and at least i wont be around to witness it. Its better this way maybe. I think it would send me crazy. Where do i go from here? Someone help me get my head around this situation.

OK, i have a sex buddy and we have been "together" for about 3 months. As I am female i have kind of got attached. We have never been out on a date at all, its just sex. Ofcourse i want more, and yesterday I asked him to go out for dinner. He said yes and then he said he "doesnt know what he wants" and then he ended up saying NO. Said he doesnt want a relationship in any form. Going out for dinner is something that friends do, it doesn't mean we are getting married. So i said "so you are happy to sleep with me for x amount of time but not go out for dinner???" He was not happy i said that. but its the truth. So I am just not contacting him again. But i feel very depressed about it and have been crying on my cat since then. I also feel stupid that I have let it get this far. I feel insulted as well. Insignificant. I dont expect to hear from him again, as i would have scared him off. there is no way i can change his mind is there? Can i sign up Superdave?