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Yes, what he said

I recommend doing more reading and research on sex/body issues before plunging into any sex activities. There are of course NO foods to make a penis bigger or pills, because if there was, nobody would be asking these questions. First of all, 5 inches is not small, it is average. So be happy about that, the average woman's vagina canal is only 4 inches. As for hair, trimming it down is good, but i'm not keen on the shaved look, because it makes woman-on-top a little rough because the clitoris is rubbing against those spikey hairs. If anyone can't accept the fact you have a lot of hair in certain places, they aren't mature enough to be having sex. The same with penis size.

I agree. Two people who arent' married can love each other just as much as married people.

Also, some people may be getting married for the wrong reasons over this, in an unconscious way. They want each other so bad they get married. They think "oh yeah this is the one" and wait til marriage to have sex. Few years later one spouse walks in on the other having sex with someone else. So much for "the one". Marriage is too overrated sometimes, lol

If i'm going to die tomorrow, or a year from now...or 100 years from now...i want to have lived my life to the fullest and that includes having all the sex i desire. I'm not getting married until i'm done with college, that could be about 3 more years from now. I ain't waiting that long to have sex. I love my fiance with and i agree with the other posters who said they dont need a ring and piece of paper telling them they can have sex. My fiance and I have more love for each other than some people who are married and waited to have sex til marriage. I dont see the point in waiting, it doesn't make you a better person... but if it's your desire to wait, that is totally cool with me. But dont' label me as a sl*t or any other nasty term just because my choice is different than yours. (I'm not directing this to you OP, or any other person, i'm talking about the population in general) Plus, i'm passed the whole "honeymoon" stage of our relationship. I know him inside and out, we've had our sex droughts and we know how to deal with them. Whenever this happens to newlyweds, they tend to freak out and worry if they need a divorce. I'm very glad i made the choice to have sex before marriage.