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i guess i forgot to mention i weigh 10st 4lbs. thank you so much for the time you have taken to help me, i am very grateful! THANK YOU!! x x x x x x

i have recently just started using an exercise bike (4 days ago) for the first day i did half an hour an the past 3 days i have been doing an hour and a half and burning 1000 calories at a time. What i am wanting to know is if i keep this up for a month straight will my legs become more 'bulky?' all i am wanting is to tone the area up n just slim down my leg area, i know you cant focus on just one area and that ill have to work on other areas, i am just afraid that my legs will become more bigger than they already are! Should i reduce the amount of time i am doing the exercise for? as i don't want to cause some damage to myself. if you could please reply i would be very grateful! x x x x x x

A couple of days ago me n my boyfriedn were laid in bed and got a little frisky, he began fingering me (not the first time). Well i kinda dried up when he was inside me, and i became very sore, the thing is tho, 3 days later i am still sore, but it is more of a burning stinging soreness this time and was wondering when will it go away? or will it go away? is it just friction burns maybe or have i developed an infection? Any information would be much appreciated thank you! xxx

just wondering if there is any1 out there who can help me with a situation i am in. i split up from my ex bout 3 months ago, bad time really, after we broke up i found out i was pregnant n the suffered a miscarriage, where he didnt help or support me through the time at all! i was angry at him and also angry at myself n i will never forgive him for what he made me go through on my own. The problem is, i work with this guy and everytime i see him i used to get upset and angry at him all the time, i tried to get him to talk 2 me about the whole pregnancy but yet he still wudnt talk 2 me. When i found out i lost the babay i told him n he went round work n shouted to everyone ive had great news shes not pregnant anymore. i was deeply hurt by this. we have had shifts swapped around so that we dont clash anymore but everytime i do see him i feel sick to the stomach and yesterday i was actually sick! i hear people talk about him n it knocks me sick, its bugging me! how can i get over this? I have recently met a new guy now, who is wonderful, but i sense that it is annoying him bout me feeling sick all the time n to top it all off he is his mate! Does me feeling sick to the stomach mean im over him or does it show exactly how he makes me feel? Will this go away? and when will it? please help me! thank u! x x x

i mean my ex boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago, he was my best friend before we started dating, and now we are hardly on speaking terms.I work with him, go to university with him, how on earth am i supposed to get over him, when i see him evrey day? i mean i love him so much n i thought that a month gone it would be easier but it just isnt at all. his excuse for breaking up with me in the first place was that he didnt have any time for me, he was scared of commitment and the line its not you its me. We went on a trip with the university last week, and he completely blanked me, didnt speak 2 me or anything. So i decided to get really drunk, and i mean i was in such a state, my friend called my ex off my mobile, to come and look after me and my ex did, he stayed all night, and we ended up doing things, he said to me afterwards whats going to happen when we get back home, i sed i dunno, wot u want? he replied with, here i have the time and freedom whereas back home i dont. he sed lets give it a couple of months n start fresh again. but i come home, hes stopped talking to me and just ignoring me all over again! what am i to do? i know its my own fault for not getting over him, by making myself get so drunk he had to look after me, but if there is anyone out there who could please help me n tell me how i can get over him it wud be very much appreciated. thank you.

plz helpmy boyfriend and i have been going out with each other for 3 months now. we were ver close mates before we started seeing each other, and apparently he has loved me form the day he first met me. the thing is, now he doesnt text me or fone me anymore, when i asked him why last nite, he replied saying that he is scared of commitment, n feels that our relationship is moving far too fast (which i dont understand as we dont see each other that much) he sed that its not me n he has never been in any form of relationship before and that its summit hes having problems with. he also says that he is struggling, not with me, butwith the whole relationship, he feels like hes under loads of pressure without knowing why and he dont understand it. he says he wants it to work more than anything coz we have summit special but he says hes tried being with me, n not being with me, and nothing seems to change. i sed that our relationship has gone from good to bad overnight he says that it never just got bad overnight. its not that bad. i just ... felt this for a while , i just thought it wud go away and i was a fool. when i suggest we talk about it, he goes n hides n makes up excuses not to talk i just dont understand, if he wants it 2 work why wont he talk 2 me? plz help, what is he trying to say? thanx xxx

i would like to thank you all for the imformation that you have provided me. i am so relieved. i have been on the birth control pill for about 2 and a half years now, and i take them correctly and on time every day. thanx alot!

thank you! its just all about waiting now then!

sex the night after i started my new pill packet. I mean im at my wits end just trying to work out if i could get pregnant. ive been joing with my boyfriend saying that im pregnant, and because ive been saying it so often, im starting to thik, could i be? please please please help! thank you

Firstly to start off i have fallen in love with my best friend, and i know that he feels the same way too. But the thing that gets me is that he has asked me out and i have said yes, but we have never seem to got around goin out on a date. we both have part time jobs, working for the same company and the same department too, but ever since he has asked me out hes been saying how he plans to 'get off' with the new starters, which makes me feel so small. i decided to confide in my friend about this, and she went up and confronted him. she sed to him do u like her? n he replied yes and i have done for quite some time, n she said well stop saying all this about the new starters and ask her out properly, he sed but how can i? shes gorgeous n all the lads with spikey hair n flash cars are after her. n she replied well if she wanted them she would have them but she likes you! Then he was saying that me and him are very close n he doesnt want to jeopadise our friendship, n that he is scared because he is a virgin (so am i), well my friend replied well u r just gonna have to get over your insecurities and talk things through with her. (by the way he doesnt know that my friend has told me about all this) so later on he said to me we need to talk i was like yeah ok, that was on friday and i havent heard from him since no phone call, no text message not even on msn messenger! when i try to get in touch with him he doesnt relpy! What is going on? what is he scared of? please help! thank you ~xxx~

Turboz! thank you thank you! sorry about the spelling! must clarify that he is 22 split up with his girlfriend of 2 years a couple of months ago. i am 19, have had bad experiences in relationships so i stayed clear for a while, and now i dont know what the signals are anymore! stupid huh?

bzborrow1 thanx for the reply! do u really think we r waiting 4 each other to ask each other out? thats really interesting 2 know, i know i want him 2 ask me out, but i never thought bout it being the other way round too! Dark - no we didnt do it, but we did the whole foreplay thing, infront of a full niteclute he was cool with, the nxt day seemed quite embarrassing 4 both of us tho! (probably coz of the fact we were doing stuff in front of our mates too) ah well it was fun at the time.

i mean me n this guy have been mates for quite a while now n always flirt with each other, i mean when we go out we flirt n always end up doing something, but never go 2 far as i fear he may just want to 'use' me. then the day after we r just back 2 normal, we flirt, but the flrting is always physical, always touchy feely. when he see me i try not to show that i like him by ignoring him, sounds stupid, but i dunno lol, then he'll just come up 2 me garb my waist n walk off, i turn to look at him he looks back, winks, smiles n says, hiya, r u alright? I dunno wot 2 do i really like him, but does he like me or is he just after a bit of fun? plz help im so confused

thank u 4 all 4 the advice! now 1 bigger problem cud i handle facing the rejection????

i mean how can i tell if he likes me, coz i know we flirt like hell, but is he just toying with? what r the signs i shud b looking for? please help