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  1. ok well that last reply wasn't to helpful..but i understood..it's hard to ask out a best friend..i went through the same incident..except mine took a turn for the bad..she said no..but as time went on for like 4 more months..she grew much fonder of me additioned on to what she already knows due to me asking her before..she feels more comfortable with us goin' out..so she asked me out becuz she knew i already liked her..so she had nothin' to be afraid of..she didn't wory about any issues that might have come up..cuz she felt comfortable in the situation to ask me..maybe the same thing will happn to you..i'd ask her out..mind as well take the risk..for love..am i right?
  2. seems like a simple situation, but a hard decsion to make..tell her....or not...justify your outcomes and think what if i tell her..and what if i don't tell her..see what you come up with...either way like they have all said..if you don't tell her soon or lata' it will be too late...make a decsion now..becuz it won't be there for ever...
  3. i think this guy might be involved if she won't jus' come up and say that she is or not..she could be playyin' with you to find out how much you really like her..if your fond of her or not..love and interests are difficult feelings to determine..it's all within that counts...don't go after her without a solid plan..some back-ups and counters...love to me is kind of like a battle within you...you must understand the situation you are in, then formulate a strategy to win, as in winning her heart and making her very interested in you..maybe..play her back a lil'? make it seem like your trying to show her somethin' but that it's hidden so she will have to try harder to gain your affection...tell me if it works man
  4. well...tell her she needs to calm down about the situation..and get her and her family together..tell them what you have truly been doin'..that you have never neglected your responsibility as a father and as a husband...the loss of your job must have really bit the dust for you though...i hope you have a replacement job at this moment..cuz you'll need it..it seems everything went for the worst...but it has to get better...you gave your father money to come see you and your wife's newborn..get him to tell your wife's mother that and your wife...make them believe..for the record..you were in the right..they are in the wrong for makin' such assumptions...but you were gone for a year? why so long? it took that long to maybe get the money to fly back to canada??? i don't really know that side. but if she loves you she will listen and think this through mutally...tell her you meant no harm..that you did this for her..that your not scum..you were simply tryin' to do your damn best to provide for your family..she should not be that arrogant..neither should her mother...they should act like family and have the strong bond that families should have...they will find it in themselves to understand the situation you we're in..and that your intentions were not meant in vain..but to help your family...you were the supporter and the provider..we were doin' what must have been done..but it turned out your father couldn't help you..so you helped your father...if that's scum to them and then you tried to earn all your money back in the Caribbean..i would tell them that the lawsuit is pointless..becuz it will solve nothin' but jus' make more problems..so let's find a solution instead of causing more grief between love and family...
  5. continous sex?...make her feel special bring her to concerts, a rose on her bed for every day you think of her and love her, a dinner but try something unexpected..like..somethin' that reminds you of each other ...past events that got you to meet each other discussions over how you guys got together..girls love that emotional discree...and last...learn many different kisses and where to give them...massages also work very well
  6. ask him..maybe he sat by you for an obvious reason..maybe he wuz glancing at you out of the corner of his eyes...or maybe your just very smart and he wanted to copy your answers on your exam??!!
  7. first of all you have a strong friendship with her..so you can always use that to an advantage. you dated her sister though...is her sister your current girl or is your current girl someone else? tell her your true feelings..what harm could it possibly do? if anythin' it would probaly jus' bring weirdness between you 2. but you wouldn't lose friendship. but i don't think she would turn you down for tellin' her your feelings. if yu 2 jus' have this connection..that would be your go-no-go dude..i'd say give it a shot..i think it will work out..jus' get the courage to ask her man...she should understand the sister situation..but it will bring unwanted space between her and her sister..that is to be expected..cuz there are factor's such as jealousy and envy..i don't know what to say about that situation..cuz i haven't really faced an event such as that...
  8. Ask her about the lesbian relationship this cuz it seems weird that her friend from LA is trying to teach her to love again..i don't know...seems unlogical to me...this is a confusing one dude...i think she is goin' through alot of drama..and if you love her, do stick it out with her..she might be having an emotional crisis and she does not know how to go through for it..and since women are more sensual about these things..she might be helping her out in some way that girls do...it's just weird that way..they understand each other better..but maybe they gettin' to close so keep spending time around her..you know what i mean? see where things go and reply to me. tell me anything different that's goin' on with you 2. I think there is some info on this lesbian trial thing she is doin'..there has got to be more behind this...
  9. Do yourself a favor and lose this worthless guy..if he just wanted "benefits" then to hell with him..that's arrogant and just stupid to use someone for just sex..tell him either you want a relationship and to be mature about all this or to forget the whole thing cuz you know you can get better..of course...don't lower yourself to him...it would be pointless hun...you can do better..you know you can........... -By Darrian
  10. Just kiss her dude..I think she will like it alot..and if she turns away..don't get discouraged..maybe she just wants to save the kiss for a very special place and time...maybe when you both are alone and no one is around..like at a park at night or somethin..hmm?
  11. Let's see him..guy's lookin' at porn??..hmmm?..would that be normal?..ummm...YYYESSSS!!! It has nothin' to do with cheatin' really..when we get bored..ecspecially of work..our minds wander..and we need something to think about or to get our minds off of troubles at work...it's just the way we are..( no other explaination has been found yet..but eventually there might be another one?...what do you think? ) Peace B
  12. First you need to stop crying altogether...just quit thinking about him..you control your thoughts, try to talk yourself away from these emotions hun...there is no need for you to cry...he is nothing ok..NOTHING...you are worth way more than the tears your shedding every night..you don't need him at all..not even as a friend..he probaly knows he is hurting you..and probaly likes the thought of it..cuz you never know..maybe he is just one of those assholes..people run into at times...he just wants you to feel bad about the whole break up thing...you need to show him you have NO interest him whatsoever and that you don't care about talking to him...BE STRONG...don't let him get to you..for real B..you can do it..I know you can..just takes your will to do so..trust me..and please don't cry no more...ecspecially not on him...then your tears would be a waste..trust me...your better off without him... Luvz and Peace
  13. You need to let your b/f do what he wants and feels he needs to do...he wants to work to give you a better life...Which tells me he takes you and his future into heavy consideration...he cares about you..thats why he wants this. You should work to, or maybe help him with the emotional side of bein' away from you 5 days a week..he misses you too you know? He loves you and on the weekends he will be home to spend all the time you want with him. It's not all that bad. I'm in the coast guard, in california, and she is in hawaii..you know it's hard for me to except that right?...but i do..cuz I know we love each other very much and that we trust each other. We believe everything will be fine..and it has been for 11 months. You don't have it as bad..at least you can see him every weekend...I see mine every 4 months at th least. Everything will be fine between you 2 as long as you both love each other and trust in one another. Try to get over the fact that you want him to be around you more...sometimes we need to sacrifice things, like spending time with our lover to do something else that is just important..makin' a livin' for us both...right... It'll be alright..your still young...it's common for you to take the idea of bein' away from your b'f for 5 days so strongly...it's teenage love..what else can I call it? Peace B
  14. I've seen this sh*t happen before, it happens often, everytime i turn my head, damn it's goin' on more n' more. On a hundred downers, seems it makes the pain go away; When i feel depressed, I write, it's an obsession, my heart throbing, emotionally, not a possession; How could you do this to me... what was it all for? How come you hurt me and not sooth me when I was sore? you ask me to come back to you, pleading at my door. How can i say this?... I'm not mad, but try to understand, I only see and feel for you as a friend. So if i could end this conversation fast, this will be the last moment I'll ever have with your a$$. Now you feel the disarray... What irony that you would start feelin' this way... I am sorry these words are harsh... but it's what i needed to say... Been together..wuz together...not now,anymore,or even whenever by the way tell me if ya liked it? Peace B Copyrighted by Darrian Blades (Immunity)
  15. what do you mean you have no one?..you got me! i'm just playyin'...look, there is no need to cry..he is only just a guy..please don't cry over him..it takes time for things to heal..and in the mean time he might call..there is always that one possibility...I want you to look on the brighter side and quit thinkin' what if and having the need to call him..i mean there's gotta be something you like doin'..right? Kerrio, you can do it..gradually you will make progress in gettin' over the urge to call him..do you like writing? Actually, go out to a club and talk to some other guys..it is the summer..there's alot out there..who wouldn't break up with you if you would give yourself a chance...i am gonna work with you on this one cuz it seems you keep on thinking about the what ifs and that it hurts you so bad that you cry becuz you wanna call him to talk to him...I think you can do better..and i haven't been wrong yet..i keep giving you replies to hopefully get you to feel at least a lil' more happier or relieved of the urge to call him...evacuate the state of mind that gives you the urge..think of something else, not for him or anyone else..just you. You can private message me if you need to alright? Good luck and Peace B P.S.-Wanna know somethin' weird? The guy who wrote the song " Don't Worry...Be happy" later commited suicide...figures huh?...please try to think of something else alright...have a nice night
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