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  1. ok...at least he said 2 weeks. Has 2 weeks passed?? See what he says after 2 weeks. If he tells you he needs 2 more weeks...then you can forget it...at the end of 2 weeks, he should know whether he wants to carry on with the relationship or not....
  2. when he man tells you he is confused or lost....he is already gone and u r already out of his life.... trust me....he didnt tell you he wants to breakup with you is because he does not have the guts to say it....or he doesn't want to hurt you too much....
  3. Just kick him out of your life. I was dating a guy for 7 months. At first, he seems like a very confident man who knows exactly what he wants and looking for. Then, after months of dating, he was slowly lost and confused. He seems to not know what he is looking for. Because I love him, I have tried to be patient. But in the end, he is confusing me too. How can a man at 31 does not know what he wants in a partner. It is such a joke to me. Also, our breakup was so blurry. At first, I was very hurt because he was the one that was all over me. He told me how much he loves me and how much he wants to be with me. And how can someone who says he loves you so much could be confused and yet has never tell you what are the things that are making him confused. Never once, he has tell me that. Without a discussion to see if we can sort things out, we broke up. I start to realise that men who do this are extremely immature and selfish. They do not want to be the bad guy so they kept you hanging on to a unhappy relationship till you can not take it anymore and you make the move. Then they will become the victim. So, forget about this guy and move on. Go party and flirt with men. Enjoy yourself and remember how try to remember how happy you were before you meet this jerk.
  4. oh goodness. if i did not come to this site, i will never know there are somany people have a breakup with a blurry reason. my bf of 7 months did the same to me. we were so in love and suddenly, he is confused and lost with our relationship. i was completely hurt and couldnt figure what is wrong with us and him. I demand for an explaination and of course the answer i got was something like he is not comfortable with me anymore. the irony part is that, he used to tell me i am the most comfortable woman he ever felt with. anyway, now i am also confused and lost. i have never end a relationship with a blurry reason and worst, of all men, he is the one i really love and care for. my advise is to date as many women as possible. just casual dating to distract yourself. who knows, when she sees you with another woman, she might realise she is jealous because she loves you. that is what i am going to do. just to help me through this difficult times.
  5. love is a strange feeling. for me, it doesnt come often. twice so far. when u are in love with someone, doing simple things could make you so happy. i know i love someone when i enjoy dancing with the man. this is the way i find out i am in love. also, just thinking of him makes you smile.
  6. you are not alone. i have dated this guy for 7 months. at first, i was not interested but he was really sweet and sincere. the problem with him is that he has unresolved issues from his past. he felt abandoned because his father died and his brother left the home. so from then on, he could not open his heart to anyone and always think that if he does, the person he loves will leave him again. anyway, after 7 months of dating, he suddenly was confused and lost in the relationship because as realtionship grows, the more you need to open your heart and he realise he couldnt do that. so what he did is he just tell me he is confused and lost and we just split up. i love him so much. i am not the kind to fall in love so easily. in fact, he is my 2nd love after dating who knows how many men. now, i am also confused and lost. it bugs me so much of not knowing what went wrong. guess i have to date as many mena spossible now just to help me through this difficult time. it helps. that's what i did when i broke up woth my first love. so maybe u should try it out too. just date and distract yourself.
  7. hi there... u are not alone...my boyfriend went lost and confused of our relationship (7 months) all of a sudden and after almost 2 months of patience, we decided to split up. Till today, I still do not understand why we split. I was so hurt and couldnt breath. We were so in love and suddenly things just change and it bugs me that I do not know why?? Anyway, I am still so weak emotionally that I think I need to date as many men as possible now to help me through this difficult time.
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